the dubcon meme!

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THE DUBCON MEME

WARNING - MEME MAY CONTAIN TRIGGERS


Whether it gets awkward and painful or if it goes perfectly smooth, generally speaking the basic fundamentals of sex are the same: there are two (or more) attracted parties who both decide to act on that attraction. If there's not attraction involved, there's still a mutual consent involved. If it's not mutual, there's a problem in the line somewhere...but what about when there's strong grounds for that mutual consent to be disputed on one or both sides?

Sometimes, things get a little bit (or quite a lot) dubious.

Step One: Post your character with Name/fandom/preferences, and be sure to consider just how closely to what side of dubious consent you're willing to walk (slightly dubious, or very obviously invalid)

Step Two: Others respond, rolling up or choosing a scenario.

Step Three: One or both parties get consent all muddled up.

Step Four: Deal with the fall out afterward, if you choose.

1-4 are more mutual dubious consent, and easier to walk the line of consent. 5-9 are more one sided and walk the line of non-consent.

1. Outside coercion - On display, or some perverted laws, or maybe there's a breeding facility of some sort.

2. Aphrodisiacs - Accidental or on purpose, one or both have been doused heavily in some sort of irresistible aphrodisiacs.

3. Biological imperative - Baby-making (or many attempts) must happen NOW. For the sake of children, or just to survive something.

4. Intoxication - Beer goggles and impaired judgement.

5. Illicit substances - Lack of any judgment whatsoever, nor probable recollection.

6. Sleeping - Sleeping may not be 'yes' but it's also not 'no'.

7. Control - Through actual control or some sort of blackmail, the 'yes' probably isn't sincere.

8. Trickery - Deceit and misrepresentation of one party to convince the other.

9. Manipulation - Bedazzle and confuse them somehow into saying yes when they normally wouldn't.

10. Wildcard - Some form of dubious consent circumstances not listed.

shamelessly stolen from memebells on LJ!

Comments

Merlin | Merlin (BBC) | Modern AU or Canon | OTA

[not_yet_emrys]

Joker | Kuroshitsuji | OTA

[jokers]

2!

[soldierfirst]

[It started out innocently enough, another one of their dinner dates that wasn't really a date, this time to an upscale AGI-affiliated restaurant because a little indulgence once in a while never hurt anyone. Except sometimes it did apparently; Sephiroth was fighting a headache, and it was even harder than usual to keep his hands off the other man.

His muscles also had the slight burn of Mako, something that usually happened when his body was fighting off a toxin. That realization wasn't reassuring.

He glanced at Joker as their hands brushed across the table -- they were almost finished -- and wondered, not for the first time, if it would be smarter to just get a room for the night rather than deal with distraction and the Darkness both.]

Enjoying...?

Vanyel Ashkevron | The Last Herald-Mage | Men only, pick younger or older

[icedreams]

How do you feel about 2?

[afirewithfashion]

[Is it awfully warm? It certainly feels warm, even for District 13. He must be imagining it...]

Richter Belmont | Castlevania | OTA

[vampirekiller]

yfandes | the last herald-mage [au] | ota

[companionable]

setsuna f. seiei ⚔ gundam 00 ⚔ open

[ex_reforms251]

Izaya Orihara | Durarara!! | All the things

[knifedances]

7

[ex_reforms251]

[ Of all the nefarious things on Setsuna's to do list, blackmail was strangely absent — at least being on the receiving end of it, anyway.

Just how someone had discerned who he was, what he was, and the organization he worked for still eluded the pilot; a single text message detailing a handful of classified secrets had been enough to send him running to the heels of this unknown figure. Only a time and place of meeting were attached to the message. Common sense told him it was a trap, but the person in question left him little choice. If the information leaked, it would endanger Celestial Being, and thus the mission.

And endangering the mission under any circumstances was simply unthinkable.

So soldiering up his courage and holding tight to his gun, Setsuna shoulders his way inside the abandoned building, sharp eyes adjusting immediately to the darkness as he announces his presence. ]

I'm here, just as you asked. [ His voice rings with a confidence he truly does not have; his muscles are tense, waiting to spring into action, or to flee. ] What is it that you want?

(( I left the setting pretty open, so feel free to play around with what's actually inside. Hope this is okay! ))

Arthur | Inception | OTA

[paradice]

Cinna | The Hunger Games | OTA

[afirewithfashion]

you pick?

[ikkorose]

Well, you're a pretty face.

Sharpay Evans - High School Musical | men only; no 3

[hotpinkwhirlwind]

Aged up.

Kotetsu T. Kaburagi || Tiger & Bunny

[tigerific]

Gilbert Nightray | Pandora Hearts |OTA

[gilly]

Botan | Yu Yu Hakusho | Open to All

[ferries]

Yuan | Tales of Symphonia | OTA

[cloakand_danger]

4? Is this awkward? You can ignore this I'm bored

[lord_wizard]

[Well, the suggestion of going out drinking wasn't a bad one, though Felix didn't actually anticipate they'd both be sitting in his living room VERY much intoxicated]

Well, this has been an...interesting evening.

aradia megido | homestuck | aged up/open

[morgues]

Jim Moriarty | BBC Sherlock

[moriarty_hi]

5

[lostwithoutmyblogger]

[For all Mycroft and John talk about danger nights, for all the messed up sock indexes and tossed flats, when Sherlock really wants to get away from them and do something he shouldn't, there's no real stopping him.

He's on the couch at Baker Street (he thinks, though he may very well not be, right now) on his stomach, feet kicking, cheek pressed against the fabric.]

There's more left.

[He tells the creak of feet nearby, not the foggiest idea who it is.]

If you aren't afraid.

Britta Perry | Community | OTA

[britta_ftw]

Rachel Berry ☆ | Glee

[broadwaybound]

Leo Baskerville | Pandora Hearts | OTA

[spoilering]

7

[headsman]

[It's pretty much the first time he's been so close to a Leo who stank of the Abyss, not that Leo who had his Queen's scent clouding him.

Leo is bound with his wrists behind his back with what looks like leather-hard sinew. His clothes have been shredded with claws; some swipes have caused Leo to bleed. Which has led the Chain to lean down and lap at the bloody cuts hungrily.]

Sherlock Holmes | Sherlock BBC | OTA

[thinking]

6!

[justordinary]

[ It's quite an odd thing for John to find their flat completely silent. No music, no experiments in the kitchen. Nothing, not even the sound of the telly. A bit off, that. But even Sherlock needed to sleep some time.

Which made it rather easy for him to slip into his bed with him and slide his hand 'round between his legs. ]

Sha Gojyo | Saiyuki | everything

[onehotkappa]

I couldn't resist. Does this work for you?

[sexy_sha]

[ Their duplicates had been just like them, just as fast, and strong, and clever as they were. But in the end, the real ikkou had defeated the fakes through pure force of will.

In this world, however, the fakes were a little bit faster, a little bit strong, and just a tiny bit more clever than the real gang. Hakkai, Goku and Sanzo were all busy with their own duplicates as Gojyo's double drove him back, away from the others. ]

Takagi Keisuke | SMT: Devil Survivor | everything

[lonejudge]

Loki / Thor (2011)/Marvel (movieverse) / OTA

[sorcerous]

7

[how_i_tease]

[ ooc: So who gets to be in control? :3 ]

Jane Shepard | Mass Effect | anything goes!

[normandeering]

dalaigh o'keane / peacock | the menagerie ( original )

[fop]