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★ ([personal profile] hydrates) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2016-05-22 08:34 pm

Nonsexual Romance Meme

NONSEXUAL romance


Romantic relationships, under most circumstances, have a sexual component to them. That's just another level of connection many desire with the one they love. Not so the case with you. You're with someone, and both of you very much acknowledge it's some sort of relationship, but you're not with-with them - not sexually. Whether you're just unexperienced and not ready to move to that level yet, believers in romantic friendship (or that situation is more convenient, given your time and place of residency), unable to consummate anything due to physiological differences or other issues, celibate, or simply content with the intimacy that you do have, it's a mutual decision...isn't it? But is this the way you two see yourselves continuing, without wanting more? And what about other people? If they know you're together, do they see your arrangement as "strange" or "less?"

Even if they do, though, it may not matter; you have each other.

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fleshydisguise: (Default)

Alice/Pretender {} Transformers films

[personal profile] fleshydisguise 2016-05-23 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
[Hello, I am an evil alien space robot masquerading as a human through cleverly applied nanites and other technobabble. Sex is unadvised. Perhaps we can talk about your world domination schemes or Rupaul's Drag Race.]
seeingscarlet: (witch; 009)

Wanda Maximoff | MCU | f/m

[personal profile] seeingscarlet 2016-05-23 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
[can be CW compliant]
thesefirststeps: (Default)

Rey | SW:TFA | OTA

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unslaves: (it's not a piece of cake)

Carina | Guardians of the Galaxy

[personal profile] unslaves 2016-05-23 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
[can AU as necessary, but she's very ace so this is perfect for her; also, f/f]
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fleshydisguise: (Cracked mask)

[personal profile] fleshydisguise 2016-05-23 01:02 pm (UTC)(link)
[Ace headcanons make me happy on principle, would Carina like a somewhat evil electively-female fashion-loving space robot to be ace with?]
fleshydisguise: (Interested)

[personal profile] fleshydisguise 2016-05-25 02:40 pm (UTC)(link)
She went by Alice on Earth, and hasn't had much motivation to switch it up since. 'Pretender' in organic-speak has the wrong connotations, less about super secret spy stuff and more about being an unreliable poster, and is hard for organics to pronounce in shrill Cybertronian. So it's Alice with skin and hair and constantly fabulous jewelry that changes with her whims, and no giant metal assholes watching over her shoulder to make sure she's doing a job she stopped caring about a thousand or so years ago.

Earth had been lovely, but there's so much out here that the Cybertronian race had never been interested in. So many people with so many different skins and clothes. Fantastic. When an ill-considered venture leaves her with a crushed arm Alice ventures out to Knowwhere looking for something to replace the dulled prosthesis she'd had welded onto her last month. The God Primus gave the Transformers life, makes sense that another God could at least help encourage living metal to regrow. Right?
unslaves: (take the edge off this big black cloud)

[personal profile] unslaves 2016-05-26 05:15 am (UTC)(link)
What she'll find first is no god but instead a slight pink girl, trained to act like a living mannequin. She approaches with hands joined, head tilted just slightly, and surveys the newcomer.

Nobody she was told to expect, certainly.

"Greetings," she says, a note of caution in her voice.

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wastelanded: (the soul that you used to be)

Toast the Knowing | Mad Max: Fury Road

[personal profile] wastelanded 2016-05-23 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
[ota with f/f preference; gray-ace, so]
consanguineal: (your voice is like silver)

Myrcella Baratheon | GOT/ASOIAF

[personal profile] consanguineal 2016-05-23 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
[ota age-appropiate; inexperienced and young, so]
iwanttounderstand: (I'm running out of ways to say clod)

Peridot | Steven Universe | f/f

[personal profile] iwanttounderstand 2016-05-23 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
[Here's another alien chick, have at.]
favorisieren: (i've been painting it with gold)

Ana Jarvis | Agent Carter

[personal profile] favorisieren 2016-05-23 06:45 am (UTC)(link)
[ota within reason; quite ace]
suaveandspectral: Jim holding up a key (Key to the Tower)

[personal profile] suaveandspectral 2016-05-23 12:59 pm (UTC)(link)
[Would she care for a friendly ghost who is sorta evil but not in the creepy way?]
hismanfriday: (5)

[personal profile] hismanfriday 2016-05-28 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
[I would love to thread with you. Any preference for when in their relationship this is?]
favorisieren: (Default)

[personal profile] favorisieren 2016-05-28 05:44 am (UTC)(link)
[No preference! I'm very interested in anything.]
hismanfriday: (pic#10305917)

[personal profile] hismanfriday 2016-05-28 08:17 am (UTC)(link)
Mr. Jarvis was buzzing around Mr. Stark's California mansion more so than his normal habit. Mr. Stark was away in New York with Doctor Wilkes and the menagerie was being quieter than usual. Mr. Jarvis was fussing over things in the kitchen, albeit quietly, to not disturb his resting wife. She musn't awake so soon, he thought. Everything wasn't nearly in place.

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hatesimprovising: ([Project] look back)

Agent Washington | Red vs Blue | ota

[personal profile] hatesimprovising 2016-05-23 07:54 am (UTC)(link)
[both m/m and m/f are fine. he's gray-ace. previously established ships work for me! especially with cross-canon. ]
stabilises: (pic#9887494)

Here goes

[personal profile] stabilises 2016-05-23 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
Shore leave was generally the nights when they all went out together, but that didn't happen every time, obviously. The team had been splitting up more recently and while it didn't really bother North at this point, it was definitely something he was aware of.

And he'd kind of stopped going to the bars once he got Theta, anyway, since it tended to raise questions he wasn't really ready to answer. Instead he usually wandered the city or settled somewhere quiet.

At the moment, he was sitting on the beach, watching the waves roll in and talking to Theta about the adventure they'd had that day.
hatesimprovising: (pic#9752479)

[personal profile] hatesimprovising 2016-05-23 09:40 am (UTC)(link)
Shore leaves kind of sucked lately. Everyone split off, whereas they all used to hang around in a bar and have lots of fun, just talking and drinking. Wash misses those days. He'd gone to the bar on his own for a while, but he didn't drink anything, not finding it particularly fun without anyone else to drink with. So, once it became clear that he was bored and needed some company, he took to going for a walk outside, just in hopes that he might come across one of his teammates.

Fortunately, he didn't have to look too far, since as he passes the beach, his eyes settle on the man sitting in the sand. It's easily recognizable as North, which brings a faint smile to Wash's face. Altering his course, he leaves the street and walks out onto the beach quietly, staring out at the water as he moves. He only stops once he reaches North's side, and then he plops himself down into the sand beside him, sitting close enough that he can then casually lean against the other freelancer.

"Hey," he greets from where his head now rests on North's shoulder, his eyes still staring out at the water. "What're you doing out here?"
infailtration: (pic#10119114)

[personal profile] infailtration 2016-05-23 09:47 am (UTC)(link)
"Waiting for me," York says as he comes up behind them. He and North had decided to skip the bar scene this leave, but he'd gone for drinks anyway. They needed the help unwinding. He leans over and sets a six pack in Wash's lap, then takes a seat on North's other side. "And three makes this a party." From the pocket of his cargos a fifth of whiskey appears and he opens it and takes a sip, then leans back on his elbows in the sand.

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scarlet_devil: (Neutral)

Remilia Scarlet | Touhou Project

[personal profile] scarlet_devil 2016-05-23 08:02 am (UTC)(link)
[ Mentally, she is capable. Physically, though... Well, canon!Remi this time, so she kind of... abstains. ]
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amiexpelled: (Woah)

Scott Summers | X-men Age of Apocalypse | OTA

[personal profile] amiexpelled 2016-05-23 09:26 am (UTC)(link)
suaveandspectral: Jim holding his cane with the skull pommel pointing forward, glowing in preparation for a spectral attack (Swordstick)

Gentleman Ghost {} Batman: BatB {} M/F

[personal profile] suaveandspectral 2016-05-23 01:00 pm (UTC)(link)
[He's a ghost so that particular area of marital bliss is locked off to him, but he will steal you all the shiny objects. And then make you tea. Because he can't have physical intimacy but by golly he can and has broken the laws of ghost physics so he can drink tea.]
dreamguardian: (Joy of Flight)

NiGHTS | NiGHTS into Dreams/Journey of Dreams | OTA

[personal profile] dreamguardian 2016-05-24 07:55 am (UTC)(link)
[Here, have a renegade Nightmaren! Haven't wrapped my brain around how sexual relations would work with this character yet. However, they are more than capable of having strong emotional bonds and attachments with others. As a result, this meme is perfect. Some physical affection is okay (like snuggling for example), just not actual sex. :)

Here is a navigation post with some info for anyone that's curious!]
Edited 2016-05-24 08:01 (UTC)
infatyuated: (pic#9984781)

mikaela hyakuya → owari no seraph

[personal profile] infatyuated 2016-05-25 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
[ canonically, mikaela is asexual because vampire bodies are essentially dead and they don't experience sexual desire. but they do long for romantic relationships. so hey, this works for him /o/ ]