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lookatthatslut ([personal profile] lookatthatslut) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2013-10-26 03:50 pm

The Size Difference/Size Kink Meme

The Size Difference/Size Kink Meme
Size kink is a kink or preference for a distinct difference in size, height, musculature or weight between two sexual partners.

It isn't too unusual for two people in a relationship to be of different sizes, be it height or weight or anything else of that nature; after all, it'd probably be more strange to see two people together with the exact same "specs," so to speak. What are the odds? Still, the difference isn't always pronounced.

Except, sometimes, when it is.

Some people find the difference cute or charming, while others are not such big fans. Whatever the case may be, there are benefits and drawbacks, all the same.

This meme is for playing out everything that comes with being in a relationship where one party is a different size than the other. All configurations are welcome!

How to Play
  • Comment with your character and your preferences. It will also probably be beneficial for you to include information about your character's size for those who aren't familiar with your canon (ie, saying "big" or "small" or "tall" or "short" in the subject line, then extrapolating in the comment). Remember, though, there may always be someone bigger or smaller!
  • Comment to others.
  • Use the RNG to determine prompts or just go with the flow.

Prompts
  1. Cute: The difference between you and your partner is adorable and fluffy, complete with big spoon and little spoon cuddling, carrying, and head patting.
  2. Awkward: In some couplings, especially in heterosexual ones, there is an unfair expectation for one party to be taller than the other. When it's the reverse, you can sometimes get stares and cruel comments. But don't let that get you down.
  3. Inadequate: Because of your size, you feel embarrassed and afraid that the person you love might not love you.
  4. Don't Want to Hurt You: If the size difference is great, there can be a fear on the part of the bigger half of the couple that they might hurt the smaller half - especially in sex. How can you work around this problem?
  5. Weight: Your size difference is in weight, not height.
  6. Not What You Expect: In fiction and pop culture, the bigger partner is usually the dominant one. What if that's not the case in this pairing, though?
  7. HUGE Difference: It's not just a foot or so difference; it's YARDS. One of you is really big and the other is tiny. No matter what, the way you care for each other is giant.
  8. Aren't You Too Young?: The smaller partners can get confused for kids next to their bigger lovers, and that can be embarrassing. You want to prove to your partner that they need not worry about what other people say - you're sexy and very much not a kid (unless you are, I suppose).
  9. Benefits: Having a size difference in your relationship isn't all downsides. There are perks to having a partner who can pick you up, carry you, press you against the wall...basically, this is the hot size difference sex option.
  10. WILD CARD
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[personal profile] dorothied 2013-11-04 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
[She could say that this is still pretty public of them, but the has enough trust in the crew members working in the Shatterdome at this hour to know that they won't be needing the showers at this hour, and will know better than not to turn around and leave once they hear the two of them. Because for some reason, she doesn't find the strength or focus to keep silent now, not unless he's kissing her, and sometimes not even then.

It's a miracle they don't trip over anything. She leaves him to guide the two of them, blind trust letting her busy herself with other things. Their boots and bos and jackets are left behind in the kwoon, and Mako's shirt dropped on the floor halfway to the showers. She bites at his lower lip, at his chin, leaning back to strip him of his shirt and leave their own line of breadcrumbs.

She doesn't even need to tell him how much she wants him right now, or how she wants him, because the way they look at each other makes it clear that they both know exactly what the other needs. She hooks her fingers into the waistband to his pants, stopping them in their tracks so she can pull them down to his ankles, even if she has to squat to do it; before rising again, she presses an open-mouthed kiss against the thin line of hair leading down from his bellybutton.]