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the aftercare meme

"Aftercare is the process of attending to one another after intense feelings of a physical or psychological nature, usually relating to sexual and/or BDSM activities.
Some sexual experiences can be exhausting, and drain the participants of mental, emotional or physical energy. As a result, one or all participants may require emotional support, comfort, reassurance, and/or physical tenderness."
1. comment with your characters
2. include preferences
3. roll and respond to others!
You can start in the beginning or middle of the experience/scene, but aftercare should be included in the scenario at some point. Although the meme is BDSM-based, other experiences that take some kind of heavy psychological/physical toll work, too.
WARNING: this meme includes sexual scenarios that may be triggering for some people. Please be aware of other people's preferences, and ask if you're unsure!
1. Hug it out. After a particularly rough tumble, sometimes the first thing you need is a good cuddle. Remind your significant other that you're there in the most simple yet sincere way.
2. Talk about it. Are there things you want to tell your lover about what just happened? Were you uncomfortable about one part of it, or maybe you want to try and go further next time? Or maybe you want to resume to normal and just talk about the weather. Whatever sets you most at ease.
3. First aid. It can be a whole lot of fun to be physically stimulated while having sex, but once its done, those red and blue marks might be a literal pain to deal with day-to-day. Rub some soothing creme onto those red welts, apply bandages or gauze for more severe wounds, and take care of your lover in any other way that might be necessary.
4. Massage. Work out those tight and tender muscles that got all wound up during intercourse. Besides, no one knows your lover's body like you do, so you should do your best to make them feel good and relaxed.
5. Clean up. Another great way to relax is to let water run over your sore skin. Whether in a shower or a bath (maybe you decided to up the romance and put candles all over the bathroom to make the aftercare even more intimate), it's a great way to come down from a sexual high together.
6. Praise. Some experiences can be tough mentally as well as physically. If you just went through a punishment scene together, it's important to let your lover know how proud you are of them, and that all is forgiven. Make it clear in no uncertain terms that once the sex is over, you still love them.
7. Take Care. Make them their favorite tea. Turn on their favorite song, or read to them from their favorite book. If they hadn't gotten their release during sex, take care of them physically, as well. You know what makes them feel better, so do it.
8. Together. Sometimes, all a person needs is to not be alone for a while after such intense sexual encounters. Watch some feel-good TV, eat some junk food together, or just stay under the sheets with your significant other for the rest of the night.
9. Other. Mix and match, or do something else you've been wanting to try.
Shamelessly reposted from an earlier meme. ♥
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[ yuki's voice is low, raspy, worn out from screaming into the microphone all night. the show had been a good one, and it had been easy enough to sidle up to osamu afterwards, fingers sliding through grey hair, whispering into his ear about going back to yuki's place for some fun.
yuki's fingers are in his hair again, but the scenery is much different. they're alone, for one thing, and yuki's room is a lot messier than the backstage area at the venue. still, some things have stayed the same between there and here, then and now: yuki's still shirtless, his nipple piercings glinting in the low light, and osamu's still dressed as well. one key difference, though, is that the other boy's on his knees, with yuki's cock deep in the back of his throat. ]
Just like that...
[ yuki grins, loose and eager, hips rocking as he fucks himself in and out of osamu's mouth. he hasn't even bothered to take his jeans off, just unzipped them and shoved them far enough down his hips to give osamu some room to work with. ]
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thankfully, it seems as though osamu is pretty into is, considering the way he's practically shoving his face into yuki's crotch. ]
You like this, huh?
[ a hint of domination slips into his tone and yuki smirks downwards, eyes bright as he watches his dick slide past the wet tightness of osamu's lips. ]
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He grabs Yuki's hips instead, squeezing tight, and raises his gaze to look up at him from behind wet lashes. Sucks in his cheeks and relaxes his throat. Osamu really hopes he looks and feels good for Yuki like this.]
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Such a good boy. [ The words fall from Yuki's lips without conscious thought or effort, his attention entirely concentrated on the beautiful face below him. ] You love sucking cock, don't you? Bet no one woulda guessed a pretty boy like you would be such a little slut.
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So, since it doesn't look like Osamu's going to start complaining anytime soon, Yuki keeps going. He thrusts in deep and holds himself there, waiting until he can feel Osamu's fingernails scratching at his bare hips, before sliding out all the way without warning. ]
Fuckkk...
[ Grinning wide and sharp, Yuki takes hold of himself and smacks Osamu on the cheek a couple of times, his saliva-slick cock making a loud, wet sound as it connects with the skin. ]
Tell me what you want, baby. Should I keep fucking your throat? Or do you want this somewhere else?
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Whatever you want. [He croaks.] Use me.
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And then Osamu goes and says that and ]
Fuck, babe --
[ Yuki doesn't wait, doesn't warn the other boy of what's coming next. Instead he grasps Osamu's hair once more, harder than before, and yanks his head back; then, lining himself up, Yuki shoves his cock back into Osamu's mouth ferociously, fucking back into him like he needs it to live. ]
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He fishes Yuki's nuts out of his tight jeans to fondle them while trying to keep his throat as relaxed as possible.]
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Fuckin' christ, 'samu --
[ He curses as he feels a calloused hand press over the sensitive skin of his balls, hips jerking out of rhythm momentarily. His hand slides to the back of Osamu's skull, nails digging into his scalp, and he starts fucking himself deeper into the other's throat. ]
Gonna make me come like this, fuckkk...
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