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the aftercare meme

"Aftercare is the process of attending to one another after intense feelings of a physical or psychological nature, usually relating to sexual and/or BDSM activities.

Some sexual experiences can be exhausting, and drain the participants of mental, emotional or physical energy. As a result, one or all participants may require emotional support, comfort, reassurance, and/or physical tenderness."

HOW TO PLAY:

1. comment with your characters
2. include preferences
3. roll and respond to others!

You can start in the beginning or middle of the experience/scene, but aftercare should be included in the scenario at some point. Although the meme is BDSM-based, other experiences that take some kind of heavy psychological/physical toll work, too.

WARNING: this meme includes sexual scenarios that may be triggering for some people. Please be aware of other people's preferences, and ask if you're unsure!

1. Hug it out. After a particularly rough tumble, sometimes the first thing you need is a good cuddle. Remind your significant other that you're there in the most simple yet sincere way.

2. Talk about it. Are there things you want to tell your lover about what just happened? Were you uncomfortable about one part of it, or maybe you want to try and go further next time? Or maybe you want to resume to normal and just talk about the weather. Whatever sets you most at ease.

3. First aid. It can be a whole lot of fun to be physically stimulated while having sex, but once its done, those red and blue marks might be a literal pain to deal with day-to-day. Rub some soothing creme onto those red welts, apply bandages or gauze for more severe wounds, and take care of your lover in any other way that might be necessary.

4. Massage. Work out those tight and tender muscles that got all wound up during intercourse. Besides, no one knows your lover's body like you do, so you should do your best to make them feel good and relaxed.

5. Clean up. Another great way to relax is to let water run over your sore skin. Whether in a shower or a bath (maybe you decided to up the romance and put candles all over the bathroom to make the aftercare even more intimate), it's a great way to come down from a sexual high together.

6. Praise. Some experiences can be tough mentally as well as physically. If you just went through a punishment scene together, it's important to let your lover know how proud you are of them, and that all is forgiven. Make it clear in no uncertain terms that once the sex is over, you still love them.

7. Take Care. Make them their favorite tea. Turn on their favorite song, or read to them from their favorite book. If they hadn't gotten their release during sex, take care of them physically, as well. You know what makes them feel better, so do it.

8. Together. Sometimes, all a person needs is to not be alone for a while after such intense sexual encounters. Watch some feel-good TV, eat some junk food together, or just stay under the sheets with your significant other for the rest of the night.

9. Other. Mix and match, or do something else you've been wanting to try.

Shamelessly reposted from an earlier meme. ♥

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[Being choked on another guy's cock should not make Osamu this hard, but he's pretty sure he's the hardest he's ever been in his life. He's only barely aware of his cock as is, his head swimming with the lack of oxygen and the smell of Yuki's sweat. But he doesn't want Yuki to pull back or hold off; Osamu only wants more. His fingertips dig into the scant exposed skin at his waist.]

[ Ahh, it's so good, having a mouth ready and willing to take him as deep as possible. Yuki doesn't exactly struggle to find sexual partners, but most of them are less eager when it comes to getting rough - unless Yuki's the one on the receiving end, anyway.

So, since it doesn't look like Osamu's going to start complaining anytime soon, Yuki keeps going. He thrusts in deep and holds himself there, waiting until he can feel Osamu's fingernails scratching at his bare hips, before sliding out all the way without warning. ]

Fuckkk...

[ Grinning wide and sharp, Yuki takes hold of himself and smacks Osamu on the cheek a couple of times, his saliva-slick cock making a loud, wet sound as it connects with the skin. ]

Tell me what you want, baby. Should I keep fucking your throat? Or do you want this somewhere else?

[Osamu coughs on his first wheezing breath with his mouth unoccupied, nearly choking on his own spit. He blinks tears down his face and actually whimpers when Yuki cock slaps him.

Whatever you want. [He croaks.] Use me.

[ Shit. Yuki's grin turns wicked as he watches Osamu react, his dick twitching with every little sign of weakness. The coughing, the choking, the tears, the fucking whimper - they turn him on more and more and more.

And then Osamu goes and says that and ]

Fuck, babe --

[ Yuki doesn't wait, doesn't warn the other boy of what's coming next. Instead he grasps Osamu's hair once more, harder than before, and yanks his head back; then, lining himself up, Yuki shoves his cock back into Osamu's mouth ferociously, fucking back into him like he needs it to live. ]

[Osamu very nearly gags as Yuki's cock is shoved down his throat, and barely manages to hold it together, though he does make a real loud noise as his body protests the intrusion. And yet, he's not actually turned off in the slightest. Yuki smells so musky after his performance, and his cock is thick and addicting as it fills Osamu's mouth.

He fishes Yuki's nuts out of his tight jeans to fondle them while trying to keep his throat as relaxed as possible.]

[ The noises are even better like this, with Yuki's dick filling Osamu's mouth so much that each little sound comes out distorted. He can feel the other boy's body attempting to resist, but at the same time he can tell that Osamu isn't actually trying to get him to stop, and that alone is enough to make Yuki groan long and low. ]

Fuckin' christ, 'samu --

[ He curses as he feels a calloused hand press over the sensitive skin of his balls, hips jerking out of rhythm momentarily. His hand slides to the back of Osamu's skull, nails digging into his scalp, and he starts fucking himself deeper into the other's throat. ]

Gonna make me come like this, fuckkk...

[Osamu moans, goading Yuki on. Yes, please, come down my throat, he says without words, with only the working of his body as he keeps sucking him down. Tears start streaming down his face, but Osamu persists despite the discomfort.]