the notches on my bedpost have ptsd

[setlist]

intimacy issues

Since we're airing dirty laundry

how to play:
➬ comment with your character and info, then list any and all intimacy issues/sexual dysfunctions they might have.
➬ others help out...or laugh.

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«baphomet» （i used to be a boss）

[based]

I don't get it. Any of it.

[heartspans]

Oh? And yet you are called Baphomet the Sabbatical Goat? The Devil himself?

No... I have yet to feel that aura from you now.

Well then.

An oddity that is lonely by nature is tragic. But a human who cannot feel desire? [A flash of sharp teeth.] Haha! That's just sad.

Young-One Oh | Mignon | M/M for ships, OTA for gen

[dontknowhow]

It's been so long, that I don't remember how to let anyone that close anymore.

I don't know if it's worth it, either.

CS-RU-02 | OC | OTA

[ruruisms]

[ He’s not particularly embarrassed about the matter, someone more alive would probably be, though. ]

I am eight feet of muscle, feathers and unbridled killing prowess. I can butcher a hundred men a minute!

That said, I was and still am a prototype, unfinished. Among the things that weren’t finished is my … err, equipment. It wasn’t exactly a priority.

Don’t get me wrong, it works perfectly fine, but it’s substantially big enough that it requires a lot of blood to acquire firmness.

Sometimes that means that if I don’t manually redirect blood there, it may take quite a bit of manual work from a partner to get it to its peak. It’s troubling for … hasty company. I’ve heard having such a big, floppy tool for a little while longer than usual can be fun for the right kinds of people, though.

…Does this even count…?

[killed]

[ that's... certainly honest. ]

Sexual incompatibility is fairly common, and it's nothing to be ashamed of... In fact, people moving too fast is a common complaint in relationships!

[ For the rest... Well. Anyway, the important thing is - ]

I'd say the former statement has the potential to be more concerning... Do you make a habit of killing your partners? There are plenty of creatures like that, you know, with insects being most known for cannibalizing their mates...

[ The murdering part is probably more of a concern than the need for foreplay. Probably. ]

Is literally a rotting corpse piloted by a demon.

[watchthethrone]

[ Not her hangup, granted, but some people might take umbrage.

Pussies. ]

The Swede | Our Flag Means Death | OTA

[ourlittlenordicangel]

[ Very shy! B-but he is doing much better now he is married. ]

Okiie Shogo | Paranormasight | M/F

[lightbeckons]

It's not that I wouldn't like it, but...

[There's a massive amount of baggage he comes with, he's not sure if he'd be willing to put someone through that kind of investment.]

[catleaping]

You just haven't met the right person, right?

[ That's usually the reason, right? She gets it. Not the baggage part, but the whole, not meeting someone part. ]

kanou aogu | cell of empireo | m/m 21+

[vivisectio]

🧪 will kill you if you do a background check on him or even think about it
🧪 possessive
🧪 fuck it probably could go full yandere if you let him near you
🧪 always wanted to try strapping someone down on an operating table and going to town
🧪 legally qualified as insane enough to avoid a death sentence

[cinnamonbun]

...What's wrong with a background check?

Zelgadis Greywords | Slayers | OTA

[gathersnomoss]

Let's see... I would call 'stone skin and metal hair' a pretty large 'con', even if someone thought I didn't look like a monster.

[Also, in addition to his severe issues with his appearance and body, Zelgadis had bunch of psychological trauma regarding trust and that people might actually like him.]

[pale_elf]

Always remember: one man's ew is another man's wow.

I made out with plenty of people looking less 'human' than you.

Sylvain Gautier | Fire Emblem: Three Houses | F/M preferred

[casanopea]

[Kind of have a problem getting it up due to trust issues.]

Cinnabar | Houseki no Kuni | OTA

[tsuncury]

[Tfw you are constantly producing mercury, and are dangerous to both organic and inorganic things...]

Libra Sforza (MBCC Chief) | Path to Nowhere | M/F, OTA gen

[shackledandbound]

There are a few....concerns.

[People finding out about the monster inside of him, for one, if he lets them get close enough for intimacy, and thus never ever looking at him the same way after that.]

Junko Konno | Zombieland Saga

[legendaryshowaidol]

I was touch averse before I became a zombie. Now I’m touch averse and have to worry about parts of my body being knocked off.

[re_yourbrains]

Ooof, sounds to me like you need someone better at stitching. Or some tape.

When your parts fall off can you still feel through them?

[To demonstrate she casually takes off her own hand and it skitters around up her arm and onto her shoulder like a pet spider.]

Hermes | Final Fantasy XIV | OTA

[epimelios]

[Hard to love someone when you can't even begin to love yourself.]

I... I just haven't had the time for ah... I'm busy.

[And awkward. Hard to get down when you suck at socializing.]

[hotheadwarmheart]

[Yeah Lea knew that sort of 'busy'. He stretched a bit as he stepped out to meet his new friend properly, turning to face him.... and instead coming face to face with a black-robed knee. What he'd been about to say in reply was lost in the moment of surprise as he backed up several paces, craning his neck to look up at Hermes.]

Okaaaaaay... was not expecting this...

integra hellsing / hellsing

[sirintegra]

Hmm. (you'd think she'd be celibate for religious reasons but actually just can't risk getting ghouled and someone else controlling alucard or worse, alucard bring freed entirely. that being said, sometimes she really wishes she didn't have to be.)

Donatello Hamato - Rise of the TMNT - OTA

[soft_shelled]

... The touching, why is it so much touching?

Stelle | Honkai Star Rail | OTA, F/M preferred

[rip_homerun]

....

[Many having ulterior motives aside--She's got her own share of abandonment issues that she's not sure she entirely wants to address, since acknowledging it means it exists.]

Fu Hua | Honkai Impact 3rd | OTA

[pearlofshenzhou]

....Because I'll just forget eventually, and they'll forget me.

Aether/Abyss Prince | Genshin Impact | M/F, OTA gen

[stationaryviator]

I...haven't really had the time lately, I guess.

[Too many things on his mind, too many matters to attend to. Keeping busy lets him forget he's feeling lonely and that it's a need that must be fulfilled.]

Uramichi Omota | Life Lessons with Uramichi-Oniisan | M/F & OTA gen

[benchdepress]

Well, you see--There comes in a time in your life as an adult where you just don't have the time even if you're completely affection starved and craving just a girl holding hands with you and every couple holiday ad starts to send you into a fit of apathy instead of a fit of rage.

[Uramichi, please sit down.]

Li Kohran | Sakura Taisen | OTA

[koubu_mama]

… because machines are better and cooler!

[ Yeah, Kohran likes people enough buuuuuuuuut ]

[onewithwater]

I can get behind enjoying machines.

Hibiki Tachibana (Another) | Senki Zesshou Symphogear XDU

[lostsunshine]

I-It's not that I don't want it! I'm just... not used to it...

[ Scared feral cat not used to affection. ]

Sister Imperator, Prime Mover (1969) | Ghost

[sisterimperator]

The physical aspect of it is the least problematic in my [ life ] opinion.

[ It was the emotional part that truly crippled her. ]

yukari takeba 💘 persona 4AU.

[snipers]

[ muffled laughtrack doesn't stop ]

Heh, where do I start?

[killed]

At the beginning, of course!

[ which is of course a very helpful answer to a rhetorical question. ]

lapis de fiore | original | ota

[crisantemo]

My job doesn't really let me... get to know people.

[ With all the ghosts and demons and things in-between she deals with... Also self worth issues ahoy, but she's not talking about that. ]

[killed]

And what of your hobbies? Surely you must have some free time...?

[ hiyori ain't know nothing about that except the self-worth issues but.... anyway, this ain't about him. ]

Erichthonios | FFXIV

[aetherialshackles]

How do you know when it is appropriate to... hug a close friend?

[Not that kind of intimacy, Erich... but then again the man never even got to hold hands with anyone.]

[apestalmenos]

Personally, I would ask that friend?

[ He has no business at all trying to help anyone with intimacy issues. ]