So, let's talk about it, then.

[dreamlocket]

let's talk about s-e-x

So! You've got some questions, concerns, and comments about the deed. Is it a basic mechanics curiosity? Valid. What about a desire for more information about kink? Also valid. Hey, maybe you just want to know why sex is such a big deal, anyway. You guessed it, so valid. Get opinions on ANYTHING bedroom-related. Are you the only one that...? Probably not! How can you spice up your love life? Bakerstreet's got answers!

Consider this a safe space. Zero judgment. And it's Bakerstreet, so you can rest assured that we're giving you only the truth. Nobody would give you bad advice.

NEVER.

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eloise bridgerton | bridgerton

[aspirers]

[ooc: look, this is an actual conversation that has happened in canon:
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[aspolyhymnia]

[She hates the way women have been kept in the dark about so many things through the centuries. Men always deciding that women are lesser, or delicate.]

The knowledge will absolutely change the way you look at people, especially couples. But I am willing to tell you if you really want.

[aspirers]

I need to know, and no one will tell me. Colin asked me if I have ever been to a farm. [A roll of her eyes like that was not helpful at all.]

Completely useless.

[aspolyhymnia]

The farm suggestion isn't entirely off base.

Do you know the differences between men and women's bodies?

[Seems as good a place as any to start.]

Samata Mahto | original | ota

[les_magique]

More of a conversation starter than anything:

What's the strangest place you've had sex?

[reformedzombiecrimelord]

[Jason's answer is very short.]

Alleyway.

[les_magique]

Sounds grimy. Was it at least any good?

[reformedzombiecrimelord]

"Grimy" was the word for it. And it wasn't for my enjoyment.

[rainbow_angel]

[Here, Samata, have a literal angel answering. They're rather cute and blushing up a storm as they answer]

O-oh, um, it'd have to be the brothel run by Will o' Wisps. They are a type of light spirit, so they look human-like but are very brights. In a small, private room, they'd be blindingly bright. So instead it's a big... open floor. Most people can't see any of the other patrons... parts because it's so bright.

[Crim cover their blushing face.]

Except for angels, we don't mind the light at all. So I saw everything.

[les_magique]

That must have been quite a sight.

Did you, ah…partake?

[rainbow_angel]

Y-yes, but it was one of the most mortifying experiences in my life.

The women working there were very pretty and insistent, and my friend had already paid for us to go in...

Louis de Pointe du Lac 🪦 The Vampire Chronicles

[interviewwiththevampire]

How do you personally handle or answer to societal expectations and perceptions that are hoisted on you based on physical features or the color of your skin? Specifically, in this case, being a black, gay man who bottoms. People seem to have trouble reconciling personal preference with masculinity, and even then, it's seen as shameful to want it, or a given that I always top.

[coldsong]

Personally? I handle it badly, I suppose.

Where I come from, same-sex relationships are perfectly normal, but there's still a ridiculous standard of masculine behavior within them, which I have never been able to meet. I was defensive at first, then aloof, then vicious and now I've just run out of fucks to give, metaphorically speaking.

It's worth remembering that people in a society will inevitably find a way to other someone for some reason or another. That's just what social groups do, and sexual expectations are one of the easiest ways to do it, because people--humans especially--find sex inherently funny and embarrassing. You don't have to answer to it. Do what you want, as long as you're not hurting anyone.

Bai Lin | OC | ota

[fistsofchange]

Does anyone have any advice about picking out a good, um.

A good sex toy? Like a vibrator or something.

[i_will_live]

It depends. Do you want something portable to take with you, or do you want something you just have at home?

If it's at home, you have a lot more options.

[fistsofchange]

You know I never really thought about it? I was just picturing something like a rubber dick, but now I'm curious what the options are.

[i_will_live]

Well, even with just a vibrator, if you can plug it into the wall it'll be a lot stronger than the stuff that can run on batteries.

For stuff exclusive to inside... there are machines that'll thrust a toy for you so it feels more like you're having sex. Then there's stuff like the sybian, it's a machine you straddle and it has really strong vibrations and can even rotate.

Those are the most popular things, but there are a lot of other toys too.

OTA

[yakumo_yukari]

What's a kink you've always wanted to try but never had the opportunity?

wyll | baldur's gate 3 | ota 21+

[ridged]

Is it...Embarrassing, to aspire to a storybook romance? To hold one at arm's length until you're certain that you both want the same thing, and to wait? --Not that I think everyone else has to hold to my own standards, of course. But I didn't realise I was such a...Minority.

[it's almost like seeing his party's many varied takes on sex and romance is making him unsure about his own views! Damn.]

[telekinesis_kills]

I don't think so. If it's what you want and what makes you comfortable when looking for a romantic partner, then there should be no shame in that.

As a personal anecdote... I've had a lot of sexual partners and one night stands in the past. But I met someone who I really like, and he wants to wait... so I wait. Being with him is more important to me than pursuing sexual gratification.

[ridged]

That's a relief to hear, friend. Normally I'm not shaken at all by what others do in their own personal time, but I've been in close quarters with friends who don't typically share my opinions, and...

I think I was especially worried about what they'd think if I approached them, even if we didn't exactly align. Whether there was even a chance that I could be waited for, before the conversation was even had. Now, at least, I feel more able to face that head-on without expecting a thorough rejection immediately.

[everyone in his party is so beautiful and cool and he's in love with all of them a tiny bit, but also.......man..........being monogamous in a poly commune is rough.]

[telekinesis_kills]

I'm glad that I could give you some reassurance.

Ask for them to be open and honest when you discuss it, and be open and honest in return.

And... if they do reject the idea of waiting... don't agree to anything that you're not comfortable with. I've made decisions like that in the past, and it's never worth it in my experience.

[43753493457345]

No. There’s nothing wrong with ya. That kind of thing is…complicated. Your love’s just as good as any, I think.

[ridged]

'Complicated' is right. I didn't realise how much, but...That's alright, we're never too old to learn new takes on old scenarios, hm?

[It's just the culture shock of the silver spoon continuously being taken from his mouth, just as he manages to keep it in there on some aspect of his life. But that's the joy of travelling with such a bunch of ragtag babes; they're all so marvellously different, and it's fun to think about how they'd learn from each other!

In other news: Wyll please have a fucking drink of water.]

At any rate, it's good to hear that my love's as good as any, even to a stranger. I should've hoped so, but the reassurance is welcome all the same. Thank you for that, friend.

[43753493457345]

I'm still learnin' everyday. No shame in that. You'll figure it out.

[ adriel's head tilts, hand still rubbing at his chin. ]

No problem. I believe in your love. You got your eyes on anyone?

[ it's okay wyll... tell him about your thirst. his ears are perked attentively, curiosity brightening his eyes. ]