Please. if you had ever been caught, it would not have been in the stories you tell, so I cannot provide that list I'm just making sure you can't blame my advice if it happens this time
Understanding you've been slighted is a piece of knowing your own worth. Remembering those who have wronged you so you can spend only necessary energy on them is as well.
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in case it isn't obvious that that is always part of my advice
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Name five times I've been caught.
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I'm just making sure you can't blame my advice if it happens this time
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I will seek to limit the extent to which I toss you under the bus if things turn sour.
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that's good
it would be so much work to have to hold a grudge against you
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Really? You must be doing it wrong. Grudges should be like breathing.
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You think so? Why?
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But anger is still a necessary energy to spend on those instances, for me.
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I am making up for years of not being able to be angry.