promenades: (「birdseeds」)
promenades ([personal profile] promenades) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2021-01-31 01:48 pm
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Pining. Painful pining, despair, misery, agggggoooonnny.



The Painful Secret Pining Meme


You've been with them for a long time - years, perhaps, maybe even their whole life. More than that, you served as a true friend and supporter. No one could be as dedicated as you are, and you're content to stay in the shadows and let them shine if it just means you can stay by their side a little longer.

But you're not a perfect saint or a martyr of friendship. There are somewhat selfish undertones to your loyalty. You love them.

You feel like you’ve loved them forever, yet while it’s a great affection - no, “great” is probably not enough - in your heart, these feelings are your secret, kept away from everyone…possibly from the object of your desire themself! After all, you couldn’t burden them with anything like that. So, you’ll allow your own emotions to come in second place.

Of course, you haven’t allowed yourself to figure out how this could come back to haunt you in the end, could you? What about when your love moves on to someone who’s “more than a friend?” They won’t need you as much any more. Can you take into account the moment when you snap and can’t hold back the truth any more? And even if you’re really “together,” others won’t know if you keep your relationship under lock and key, and you’ll have to endure others approaching your lover.

Then again, the shoe could be on the other foot. You could be the side being pined after. Will you ever realize your friend’s feelings; if you do, can you return them? After you are certain that you do, will it be too late? Can one burst of passion lead you both to something that changes your relationship forever?

  • Basically, it’s a meme about (one-sided) love one friend has for another over a long time. Devotion, angst, all that.
  • Thread out withheld desires, stoic facades, attempts at leaving this all behind, anger, awkwardness, breaking down, confessions, and all that.
  • Comment with your character and preferences. You might want to include your smut/no smut status.
  • Mention if you’d like your character to be the pining or the pined for.
vaderstan: am i the third wheel? (074)

ben k̶y̶l̶o̶ ̶r̶e̶n̶ solo. STAR☆WARS. ota

[personal profile] vaderstan 2021-01-31 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
hidden_fragrance: <user name=huaxiang> (come now...)

Jin Guangyao (Meng Yao)| The Untamed|m/m

[personal profile] hidden_fragrance 2021-01-31 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)
versigny: 𝕔𝕦𝕡𝕟𝕠𝕠𝕕𝕝𝕖𝕤 || 𝔻ℕ𝕋 (Default)

margaery tyrell | got

[personal profile] versigny 2021-01-31 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
[ can be either or. ]
made_of_stars: (Default)

jyn erso || rogue one || ota

[personal profile] made_of_stars 2021-01-31 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc; either role]
rebellionbuilt: (Default)

cassian andor || rogue one || ota

[personal profile] rebellionbuilt 2021-01-31 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc; either role]
see_the_stars: by recadreuse (Default)

rey || star wars || ota

[personal profile] see_the_stars 2021-01-31 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc; either role]
in_the_grey: (Default)

ben solo || star wars || ota

[personal profile] in_the_grey 2021-01-31 08:26 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc; either role]
dyseuphoria: (Default)

Tony Stark | Marvel

[personal profile] dyseuphoria 2021-01-31 08:29 pm (UTC)(link)
[Oblivious/in denial Tony can be either. 30+ please.]
eyried: (Default)

sansa stark | asoiaf/got | ota

[personal profile] eyried 2021-01-31 08:29 pm (UTC)(link)
adultflash: (:|b)

Barry Allen | DCTV | OTA

[personal profile] adultflash 2021-01-31 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
[he's basically the king of painful secret pining]
something_else: (Arrow 2)

[personal profile] something_else 2021-02-01 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
[Oblivious grump?]
lorule_shopkeeper: (pic#14573708)

Ravio | The Legend of Zelda | OTA

[personal profile] lorule_shopkeeper 2021-01-31 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
[Let him have one sided feelings for someone...]
Edited 2021-01-31 20:33 (UTC)
standardprocedure: (looking up / name)

Maria Hill | MCU | F/M (30+)

[personal profile] standardprocedure 2021-01-31 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
[Could be either/or, esp with Rogers.]
innkeeper: (GGS4_20 - can see her face 16)

lorelai gilmore ☕ gilmore girls.

[personal profile] innkeeper 2021-01-31 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
( can be either! story of her life, etc. 30+ please. )
notgoingtobeokay: (Default)

Martin Blackwood || Magnus Archive

[personal profile] notgoingtobeokay 2021-01-31 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
((Always the one pining.))
orderthrupain: (Default)

Brock Rumlow | MCU | OTA

[personal profile] orderthrupain 2021-01-31 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
jamesbucky: (Default)

Re: Brock Rumlow | MCU | OTA

[personal profile] jamesbucky 2021-02-02 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
[do you have a piner or pinee preference?]

(no subject)

[personal profile] orderthrupain - 2021-02-02 10:22 (UTC) - Expand
game_boi: (Default)

kenma kozume | haikyuu | m/m.

[personal profile] game_boi 2021-02-01 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
[ he is very experienced at pining. ]
Edited 2021-02-01 01:00 (UTC)
headwitchbitch: (Default)

Zelda Spellman | Chilling Adventures of Sabrina | OTA

[personal profile] headwitchbitch 2021-02-01 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
[ either! ]
bloodyblade: (Default)

felix fraldarius | fire emblem: three houses | m/m

[personal profile] bloodyblade 2021-02-01 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
[ either role ]
nailpolished: ᴏғғɪᴄɪᴀʟ ᴀʀᴛ → (Default)

Kashuu Kiyomitsu | Touken Ranbu | OTA

[personal profile] nailpolished 2021-02-01 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
[ Slight preference for pines for but I can roll with either! ]
lethechained: (Sketchy looking up)

Naminé | Kingdom Hearts | f/m

[personal profile] lethechained 2021-02-01 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
trenchcoatbaby: (sad)

Castiel | Supernatural | ota

[personal profile] trenchcoatbaby 2021-02-01 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
gekiken: (saddened ♙ the cultivation of oneself)

peko pekoyama | super dangan ronpa 2 | m/f

[personal profile] gekiken 2021-02-01 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
( likely the one pining. )
sympathizer: (√ thoughtful)

kazami tachibana | root double | m/f

[personal profile] sympathizer 2021-02-01 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
( either. )
gentleblossom: (❀ neutrality)

iris | ace attorney | m/f

[personal profile] gentleblossom 2021-02-01 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
( either. )
germione: (Default)

hermione granger (hp, ota)

[personal profile] germione 2021-02-01 03:21 am (UTC)(link)

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