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The (Anonymous) Find a Kink Partner meme!

There are a good number of us that have certain kinks and fetishes we'd like to try out. Unfortunately, even in areas where kink is welcomed, we still may fear or be wary of what other people think of our tastes. Here, we can talk about those kinks and maybe find someone who shares the same kink you do without judgment. Why? Because this is

The (Anonymous) Find a Kink Partner Meme!

The rules are simple:

1. Reply with kinks or scenarios you'd like to play, either anonymously, through a sock account, or if you give no fucks, any other journal you have.
2. Tag around and see if someone else's interests match up with yours.
3. Hopefully this leads to a PSL or plot to your liking that you can play out.
4. No kink shaming.
5. Profit.

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✔ Brother/sister incest (this would probably have to be handwaved, since the characters I play don't have siblings except for two)
✔ Size difference/ big guy, little girl. Bonus points if the girl is the dominant one.
✔ Daddy/girl
✔ Loving piercing aka a consensual showing of ownership or belonging to each other
✔ Innocent characters in slutty clothing
✔ Corruption of innocent characters/slutification
✔ Spanking
✔ Two young kids in ~love~ losing their virginities to each other
✔ A girl pegging the guy she loves with all sorts of romance and shit
✔ Sailor uniforms/school uniforms
✔ Hair brushing, playing with hair, then fucking
✔ A couple making a baby, possibly pregnancy plot?
✔ Pregnant sex
✔ Chubby girl and fit guy
✔ Roleplay within roleplay
✔ Loving, consensual couples having fluffy sex because I'm a sick fuck tbh
✔ Teaching someone how to improve their sexual technique
✔ Sex in public, with one of the people intent on showing off their partner's body
✔ Humanoid creatures/mutants/aliens with humans, but in the context of them being a couple who has to overcome their physical differences, with lots of awkward and angst.

✩ I play mostly female characters.
✩ I prefer F/M.
✩ I have no medium biases. Anime, live action, comics, animation, I'll take everything.

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who do you play

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Re: ❝ ᴋɪɴᴋ ᴡɪsʜʟɪsᴛ ❞ | Misc. Kinks, mostly F/M

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Re: ❝ ᴋɪɴᴋ ᴡɪsʜʟɪsᴛ ❞ | Misc. Kinks, mostly F/M

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Mind control and body alteration.

Magical, technological, whatever floats your boat probably turns my crank, iykwim.

Mind OC's, cause I got someone.

Also, what sort of alterations?

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Chicken-fucking, particularly when it's continuous.

/gooses

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- Doctor/Patient
- School uniform - on a female character
- Sex in public places
- Villain x Hero or Hero x Villain
- Xenophilia - to an extent
- Voyeurism

/interested

Do you play mostly male or female characters?

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Macrophilia/Giantess

Preferably as the small person.

I might be interested in that... what kinds of things are you interested in for this kind of a scenario? I usually use fandom characters rather than OCs if that's okay with you, and I also might like the idea of one of my characters becoming a giant through magical means. (Or your character being shrunk.)

What (If any) other kinks do you have involving Macrophilia/Giantess? For instance, crushing, feet, vore, and a few other things are pretty common to go along with this fetish.

I personally have a bit of an interest in vore, so I ask to make sure I don't have my character sticking yours in their mouth without your permission. (Wouldn't necessarily have to involve swallowing)

Soooo... let me know?

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m/m shower scene with mind control/hypnosis

I am probably all over this. Do you have a specific scenario in mind for the mind control, and are you more interested in being the controller or the controlled?

I love scenes in which a more experienced character leads another one through his first gay experience, shows him how to suck cock and get fucked (or do the fucking, I'm flexible.)

Though I'd enjoy it, there doesn't necessarily need to be an age difference or an experience difference. The second character can even be a huge playboy and very experienced with sex... with women. But this will be the first time he's ever tried with a guy, and he finds himself loving it.

(I'm going for M/M myself, but if you like F/F style feel free to piggyback on this comment.)

do you have a muse list?

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Orientation Play

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Due to mind control, drugs or just plain wanting it, a female character consents to being bred. Dirty/breeding talk a big plus. Human or nonhuman characters welcome, including animals.

I have several eligible ladies.

what exactly is breeding? /slow

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I'd like to play out a situation where a young woman is cross dressed as a man. I'm thinking the setting would be during the Renaissance or a pseudo-Renaissance setting. I am not seeking a history lesson for my smut. Perhaps no more detailed than the average historical fiction romance novel.

The young woman pretends she's a boy not for sexual reasons or different gender identity. The young woman becomes an apprentice to an older master/craftsmen who is a prodigy in their craft (painting, sculpture, architecture). The master wouldn't be extremely old, perhaps 10 to 15 years older than the apprentice. The master is bisexual (though the term will not be used since it's a relatively modern 'term') and strongly prefers males due to the notion women are not capable of the same mental feats as a man.

The master becomes infatuated with his apprentice due to their talent, intelligence, and appearance. The apprentice has an attraction towards her master, but she can't really do anything without fearing of being discovered. A few years into the apprenticeship the master is drunk or has a break up with another lover. He seeks comfort in their apprentice and discovers the young man is a young woman...

I'd love to play out a few bonding threads between the two characters before the master proceeds to have their world turned upside down. So? The basic list?

+Cross-dressing
+Hate/Angrysex (possible Dubcon, mun is open to this)
+Some themes of BDSM - However the dubcon will not be related to that, the apprentice wants to please her master since she can't physically be with him or risk her future
+Historical based but no more than the basic romance novel
+Feminist themes need not apply, the apprentice is focused on her life, rather improving the lives of others
+Mun prefers to be the F in this. While the 'f' would be submissive, the mun is engaging and dynamic and doesn't believe the term 'submissive' means the mun should be lazy
+OCs preferred, using canon characters or RPF would be a little off

Any takers? Please reply here or PM this sock. :

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RPF?

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Oh boy oh boy this just made my night.

Kinks/scenarios I'd like to play:
- I've wanted to play a situation where one of my characters ends up on the receiving end of some obsessive (http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Yandere) affections. Kidnapping, being bound, horrible things being done ~for love~, dubcon...
- Dysfunctional pairings in general, really.
- Also consenting fluffy sex because we can't have grimdark all the time, I think?
- Futanari
- Marking with tattoos, piercings, etc
- Size differences
- Mind control

I usually play ladies, though I am willing to try playing male characters - likewise with playing dominant ones as I usually play submissive ones.

I play a couple villain types who would be totally into the first one. Do you have a muselist or a list of fandoms you'd be willing to pick up characters from?

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I've always wanted to play out a M/M scenario where one guy is blackmailed into sleeping with another, as well as being forced to do kinky stuff they're not into. Bonus points if the victim is straight and extra bonus points if the blackmailer keeps upping their demands.

what side of that are you wanting to play?

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Primarily interested in M/M but femdom F/M would be alright in some cases:

- Humiliation, verbal degradation.
- Consensual BDSM relationships.
- Tickling.
- Forced nudity, public outings.
- Bathroom control/pants-pissing/bedwetting. Would be alright with light watersports but it's not my exact niche.
- Diapers, either used as a means of control by a dom or a source of humiliation for a sub character who needs to wear them.
- Kink-play between younger characters (14+-ish minimum).

I could do bathroom control and a bit of humiliation.

Would you prefer to play top or bottom?

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Primarily looking for m/m here but I could be talked into m/f or even f/f. It should also be noted that I tend to do better with sub roles than dom roles, though I am willing to play either.

+ focus on alien genitalia
>> I have a specific character in mind for this. He's an alien. ...obv. XD
+ rimming with come play
+ coercion/blackmail
+ enslavement (the process of/training, being sold, etc.)
+ symbolic/ownership piercings
+ knotting

More interested in the alien genitalia that the other things, though I'm not opposed to any of them.

Where do you fall on the top/bottom spectrum? My preference changes on scenario, honestly.

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Things I'm looking of:

Size Difference. (Big Guy/Small Girl, Big Girl/Small Boy, Big Boy/Small Boy)
Incest (Daddy/Daughter)
Transformations and Magic (Especially if involves costumes, alterations, and rule 63.)
Mind control by singing
Big Ass Fetishism

How big of a size difference?

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So happy this came back around.

* I would really love to do a psl with an older man acting as a father figure to my younger OC muse wherein, over time, they become attracted to one another and find themselves becoming sexual partners with the emotional part lagging behind greatly. For a darker twist the male character can be the more forceful/convincing one of the two. I would like to do a few fluffy/bonding threads to establish the relationship before getting into the touchy stuff.

* Forced breeding/re-population. Scenario A has the population at a dangerous low, two characters are shoved together in a controlled home setting to start a family as soon as possible. Alternatively, one or both characters are unique in some manner and breeding them would be scientifically interesting or otherwise beneficial. I'd prefer to play the female in this scenario, but I could also handle the male role. I'd also really like to incorporate mating, marking (cum marking or tattoos), playing out parts of the resulting pregnancy, and territorial behavior into this. They can both be upset about it or just one or the other. Extra points if you play the one who is getting off on the whole thing.

* Character A being attracted to Character B, even though he is not gay. Orientation play basically, with jealousy and awkward sex scenes, mixed signals and dubcon bits. This would be an M/M one obviously, and I don't have much preference for how it ends up specifically.

* The father left the family or died otherwise, and left the (now single and sexually frustrated) mother and son behind which has them pretty close with one another. The son develops a small obsession and the mother eventually gives in to that and later regrets it. After this it can go in a lot of directions, though I'm partial to a constant push and pull between the mother and son, even as she begins to date. I'd like a sizable age difference, the son 16-17 and the mother closer to 35, but whatever works. I have a preference for playing the mother, but I could do the son role too.

* Kidnapping and Stockholm syndrome - Character A has been obsessed with Character B for a while and finally decides to do something about it. They keep them on the move and running, occasionally getting into dangerous situations in order to facilitate Character B's trust in them. Bonus points if you'd be cool with doing this in a sort of apocalypse setting and if character A is more the rough, sort of cold shoulder type. M/F or F/F is cool for this.

* Fluffy/loving/romantic/domestic stuff in general.

Some other stuff to keep in mind:

- I play OCs as well as fandom characters, so I'd prefer a partner who doesn't mind my playing either.
- Any medium is completely fine. Video games, tv series, anime, manga, whatever.
- Wow, this is really long I'm sorry about the tl;dr.
- Most all scenarios are workable so that we both enjoy playing them. There are certain aspects I want to keep of course, but I'd really prefer we both enjoy what we're doing.

I've always had an interest in the whole breeding/repopulation setup.

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✔ Villain or morally skewed character rescuing another character who becomes captivated with them and sees them through rose tinted glasses. Rough M/M preffered for this with an element of coercion of the more innocent character at the start that turns unwavering, puppylike loyalty.

✔ Orgasm denial/pleasure control/begging for release

✔ Mild bloodplay

✔ Exhaustion, physical/sexual.

✔ Noisy, rough, possessive sex that is also affectionate.

answers on a postcard, please.

I like any and all of these things. Maybe a combo of #1, #2, and #4?

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f/f or f/m hair bondage. think a tarzan-and-jane like scenario, where one person is raised in isolation and brought back to society, but has difficulty distinguishing one person from another. the other has to physically wrap herself around him/her as a kind of pattern recognition tactic. i'd like to play the dominant female in this.

if you can recognize the fandom this comes from, you get a gold star.

- Mpreg/Pregnancy (with or without lacatation)
- Forced eating with weight gain
- Crossdressing for both genders
- Erotic photo modeling
- ... Possibly a schoolgirl romance PSL?

I have a preference for M/M and F/F but I'm willing to do M/F. Any medium is fine, including OCs.

What side of M/M force feeding and weight gain do you want to play out?

I have a guy who'd be suited for being fed, but I could play the feeder too if you'd prefer.

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M/M amputee kink. Not the actual amputation process, because that's not my thing, but one character taking care of another after they've lost a limb or two. Doesn't matter whether it's done for the fluff or the kinky sex. Both would be good.

f/m - a fully clothed girl fucking a guy with a dildo or other object, edging him and making him sob and beg for release without the slightest intention of actually letting him come.

Which character were you wanting to play? I have a guy who would totally get off on that.

-Brother/Brother incest
-A straight guy being pulled into having sex with another man or even a gay couple for the first time
-Mentor on person they're mentoring sex, either side being the one pushing for it
-Cock Vore

Obviously these would all be M/M

No cock vore for me, but I'd love to try the other three- especially the straight guy or the mentor thing. PM this account? :D

M/F come addiction and getting the point of come inflation.

Which side you wanna play?

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- Psychological conditioning situation. A captive with a useful skill is assigned a keeper that will recondition them to be completely obedient in order to keep make those skills usable. Sex is part of the 'bonding' process, along with operational conditioning to hardwire the captive into instant obedience. Think forced kneeling, deprivation to force obedience, etc. The captive is not happy or willing (potential for dubcon elements), but affection building over time (Stockholm syndrome). Willing to play either role, would particularly like a female training a male but open to the reverse. Looking to play the stuff between the kinky bits as well.

- Arranged/forced marriage. Duty or spoil of war, the bride's not happy to be there. Society assumes they're going to be creating the next generation and the groom is on board with that aspect if nothing else. Lots of flexibility in set up and society involved. Strong interest in playing out the interactions between them as well as the kinky aspects. Preference for the female role in this one. Dubcon a strong possibility.

Both of these ideas sound awesome, do you have a preference for which side you play(M/f, the captive/captor, etc)?

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Okay in general there are lots of depraved things I'd like to play

--Sibling incest
--Father/daughter
--Daddy/girl without actual incest
--Age kink, ranging from just roleplay-within-roleplay to actual loli
--Size kink in a similar vein
--Sexy/slutty clothing and naughty uniforms
--Mindfuckery/corruption/sluttification
--Chubby girls
--Non-penetrative sex like intercrual, buttjobs, footjobs, etc.
--Public sex, either for the thrill of it in secret, public humiliation, or a dominance/ownership display

And finally, the one thing I've never managed to play in RP but want to: mother/son. Or even incesty-overtoned stuff with a young guy and a hot milf. Can be doting, loving, housewife mama, or a sexy cougar, I don't care, I just want some.

I play largely/almost exclusively dudes, and am mostly looking for M/F for this.

Basically everything on your list is stuff I'm interested in, with the exception of the chubby girls part. Really, really interested in mother/son, too.

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- A consensual bdsm relationship, played out from first meeting, 'getting to know you' type thing. Both characters experienced at it, but enjoying exploring the new things in the relationship. Would love some proper safe, sane bdsm stuff e.g. kneeling, collar, restraints, painplay etc. Going from the sub POV here, with a guy who loves sex and has done a lot in his life, but who's going into a relationship for the first time in a long while. Exploring how the other person helps him break down the walls he's been using to keep everyone out, to keep himself safe, and helps him let go and learn to love again.

- My character is captured/kept as a slave by someone with a very powerful, dominant personality. It's non-con, but he loves sex and he loves to let go and submit when he can find someone strong enough to submit to, so he (at least mostly) enjoys being forced to obey, even being hurt. As kinky as you can make it. Pref. males, but he's happy being dominated by a strong woman too. Vampires or other characters with something special about them especially loved.

I might be interested in #1, unless you're only interested in m/m.

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