Belong

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In nature, animals can be territorial. This makes sense; it's a cutthroat world, and you have to keep what's yours just to survive. They keep a close watch on lands, food supplies, and even sometimes mates. Pet owners can tell you that this instinct doesn't just go away - try getting that chew toy from your poodle. But what about people? Aren't we just animals, too? But for us, possessiveness is not a good social trait to have. That's understandable. Nobody likes someone so hung up on owning things. Especially not owning their lovers, since you can't simply have another person like that.

Yet even the most benign, most monkish of souls have possessive streaks at some moments when it comes to the person they're sleeping with. It's only natural. Usually, it comes from jealousy. You like having what's yours (even if it's a cruel way to think about things, that's the reptile brain peeking through), and you'd want it to stay that way. That means you want to show up the competition and remind the object of your desires that you're the apple of their eye. Of course, possessiveness doesn't always come from jealousy. Some people are just very, very...how do we say it...protective of them and theirs. How can they help that they want to show that in intimate ways?

In relationships, possessiveness throughout isn't healthy; still, a little bit of it can be actually arousing, especially in the bedroom. Today, the hotel is awakening that side of characters: the part that wants to screw their partner mercilessly to show them that they are the ones to touch them, to love them, to fuck them.

But my character isn't the possessive type, you say? Really? Really? As we've mentioned before, even the most kindhearted types feel it every once and a while. This meme never mentioned that it had to be a HUGE show of possession. It can even be a playful attempt in order to get their partner going or try a new kink in bed. Or, you could say the "influences" made them do it.

After all, there's plenty of prompts here to influence you.

HOW TO PLAY
- Comment with your character and preferences. You also may want to include if your character is more or less likely to be the possessive or jealous party, but please note that all characters have the potential to be that in this meme. Otherwise, you'd get a lot of passive pillow queen characters to be fawned over so be mindful of that.
- Reply to others!

PROMPTS

HOW

1. Induced Jealousy: Whether by taunting or misunderstanding, one partner is jealous and wants to make sure their lover knows that they're the worthy - and only - one.
2. Insecurity: There's no outside source here, only self-worth issues that cause a need for possession.
3. Pushed by the Other: "Man up!" "Show me you want me!" "Grow a pair!" You can only take so much.
4. Making up for Losses: You can't be together outside the bedroom, so you have to make up for it here and you want the bed to be your domain.
5. Rivalry: People of a certain age will remember a certain song about rivalries. The boy/girl is yours.
6. Necessity: You live in a society where you must show a certain amount of possessiveness over your lover.
7. Nature: Breeding and mating urges, oh my!
8. In the Mood: No particular reason, you woke up feeling like a lion in their terrain.
9. Hate You...but Don't Want Anyone Else to Have You: What it says on the tin.
10. Virginity: You want to claim what no one else has, and that will be you and you only.
11. Playfulness: All this is simply fun between the two of you.
12. Cruelty: You want to humiliate your partner by reminding them that you're the one in charge here.
13. WILDCARD.

HOW

1. Intense, desperate sex (not necessarily rough).
2. Rough sex.
3. Marking - either discreet or in places that could easily be seen.
4. Clothing (jewelry, lingerie, slutty clothing, and in some cases, collars and other trappings).
5. Reminding your partner that only you can bring them this much pleasure (overstimulation).
6. Public or semi-public sex.
7. Cheating, cuckholding, or netorare - essentially showing your lover that they may not be with you, but you're the one who gets them off.
8. Orgasm or pleasure denial.
9. Non-consensual.
10. Making them say who they belong to / dirty talk.
11. WILDCARD.

Comments

Yosuke Hanamura | Persona 4 | OTA

[nohomomura]

[Welcome to all.]

[redmare]

[ooc: It's been a while since I've played persona, but from what I can remember of Yosuke's personality I think it'd be fun to play him against Chinatsu! Would you be up for that? She's more likely the possessive/easily jealous one. I'm also down for any of the prompts if you have a pref]

Ignis Scientia | Final Fantasy XV | M/M

[fairygodspecs]

[Cast mates and cross canon welcome.]

Brigid Finn | OC | M/F

[bostonhowler]

Foggy Nelson | MCU

[devilsadvocato]

[18+ only. No non-con.]

Mary Crawley | Downton Abbey | M/F

[thequitecontrary]

[Prefer to be the "possessed", but nothing too extreme, no non-con, etc.]

integra hellsing » hellsing

[fairbrook]

( she'll be the 'possessed' party here. slight preference towards f/f for this, but open to m/f. looking for threads more on the dub/noncon side of things. not interested in ntr/cuckoldry, underage, or alucards. kinklist here!! feel free to shoot me a pm if you have any questions. )

Caitlin Snow | The Flash

[snowandfrost]

[OOC: No non-con, please.]

barry allen (earth-2) | the flash

[commanderspecs]

[No non-con; most likely the possessed.]

Hawke | Dragon Age | M/F or previous CR

[questionablewit]

[Either the possessive or the possessed. No humiliation or non-con.]

1, 2, 3, 6 (kinda), 8, 10

[undwarfy]

As if he needs more reasons to hate Orlais. Honestly. They were doing fine being hateable on their own, they didn't need help from this absolute shitshow of a mission, or a lying Qunari shit of an elf.

The only reason Varric doesn't regret coming along to Chateau Haine is that he doesn't trust Tallis as far as he could throw her. In fact, he could probably throw her a lot farther than he trusts her. Not just for the "lying Qunari spy" thing, but for the... flirting. Jealousy might not be the most attractive look for a dashing dwarf like himself, but after over a week of having to look at and listen to Tallis's non-stop flirting with Hawke, even he has to admit to feeling it. Even the reminder that this is partly his own fault (oh, let's keep our relationship secret, Marian, we don't need the nobles prying, Marian, you deserve some privacy, Marian-) doesn't help.

His mood takes an especially sour turn when they have to split up at the party. At first it's relaxing- without Tallis's face in his face, he can chill out, have a drink, shmooze with some douchebags who pretend not to adore his scandalous, usually-banned books. But then Merrill spots Hawke going into a dark room with a very handsy nobleman, and Varric sees her leave that room with swollen lips and a red mark on her neck. It's hard to tell who's more upset- Varric or Anders. The mage balls his hands into fists and mutters something dark into his drink (that they both know will do nothing), and spends the next hour asking Varric advice on how he should try to make his move on Hawke. Varric miraculously doesn't punch out his best friend, and heroically grinds his way through giving Anders shit advice on how to hit on his own girlfriend. Then there's Merrill, whose mostly-innocent comments about how Hawke deserves to kiss someone and how very pretty Tallis is and do you think Hawke likes elves? and oh my, Tallis is very friendly with her isn't she-

-It's a miracle he lasts as long as he does, really.

The shitshow with Hawke and Tallis getting captured- that's bad. That twists fear in his gut and sends the three of them on a wild goose chase to find Hawke, and all they fucking manage is getting lost while the mages bicker about demons or Andraste or something. Varric doesn't snap at them because Varric Tethras wouldn't do that, and he's trying to act like he's just another friend in the group with no special dog in this fight. It gets harder when they find her- safe, unharmed, already goddamn escaped, and unsettlingly... close to Tallis. Too friendly. The elf keeps touching her, and Hawke doesn't shrug her hand away, and Varric can't help noticing.

Noticing the bruise on her neck. Noticing how Anders looks at her like he's hungry. How Merrill keeps watching the two women's dynamic with a no-longer-adorable spark of hope in her eyes. How all he wanted, when they reunited, was to go to her and kiss her stupid in front of everybody, and he couldn't- because.

Then some stupid shit happens, and there's a chance to leave Tallis, and Hawke... doesn't. Hawke follows the damn elf, and the way Tallis smiles at her makes him want to zap her with one of those Qunari rod thingies until she backs off.

At some point, there's a fork in the tunnels. Several forks, actually: they have to split up to find the right way. Varric casually declares that he and Hawke are going down that tunnel - the one that, conveniently, looks like it probably goes nowhere. He waits until they reach a nice little cave- a place with moss thick enough for knees and bare skin - and then he strikes.

"You know, I can't remember the last time we were alone together," he remarks, incredibly casually. His arm winds possessively around her waist.

Zarya | Overwatch | OTA

[dontbeshy]

[cross-canon welcome!]

Alec Hawke | Dragon Age | OTA

[theredhawke]

[He's probably the possessive one. Seriously.]

backflips into hell (1 and 10, possibly others)

[purple_af]

Marian isn't stupid enough to miss that what she and Alec have is... different. They've always been different, ever since they were kids. It came from moving around so much, being secretive by necessity, keeping to themselves and confiding only in each other. There was a magnetism, a way they orbited around each other. They're everything to each other: twins, best friends, confidants, comrades in arms... lovers. Of course, they've always insisted that because they hadn't crossed every line, that what they did was still alright. They save some things for the marriage bed, they tell each other, and since they aren't engaging in those particular actions, there's no sin or vice going on between them.

Still, their plan was always to someday find people to marry- to try and build the dream of a life with a family and children. They haven't talked about it in years, but it's just assumed. It's why she talks to Anders the way she does- why she lets his eyes rake over her, why she doesn't discourage the naked hunger she sees in his face.

She hasn't pulled away from Alec - much - but she still feels more attracted to Anders than she's ever been to anybody else in her life, except Alec, and it's not a feeling she wants to ignore. When he starts at her half-desperately, reaches for her, puts a hand to her cheek and says, "I would drown us in blood to keep you safe," a startled breath catches in her throat. It's over the top and weird as hell, but there's a passion there that she can't look away from. Even after her next smartass, deflecting comment, something about him lingers.

In the end, she walks away thoroughly unsure of what to think. Anders is obviously unstable, but the situation in Kirkwall is so fucked that she'd be shocked if he wasn't. There's attraction, maybe even some feeling? But Marian has never been sure of how to approach caring for anybody- except Alec.

Alec, who she hasn't noticed in a while. They're walking together, of course, but Marian is following him essentially on autopilot. She's too deep in thought to pay attention to where they're going.

natasha romanoff | mcu

[nyets]

( the possessive one. cross-canon preferred, no iw spoilers because i live in a hole. )

Kylo Ren | Star Wars | OTA

[obumbravit]

[ Open to most things. ]

Adam Parrish ( The Raven Cycle )

[unaffluent]

Gamora | MCU

[alittlegreen]

Jamal Lyon | Empire | m/m

[heavythecrown]

Athelstan ( Vikings )

[pietistic]

Rin Tohsaka | Fate/ | OTA

[bossymaster]

Kylo Ren • r63!Star Wars • ota

[umbraeternam]

[ Definitely the possessive party, but also open to mutual possessiveness. Canon and cross canon equally welcome. ]

Jyn Erso | Rogue One | OTA

[wherehopegoes]

Sebastian Vael | Dragon Age | OTA

[prevaeling]

just spitballin here but maybe 1/2, 3, 5/8, 10??? idk halp

[purple_af]

Marian Hawke is bored as fuck. A deliberate choice of words- ever since some commoner threw pig's blood on her in the streets of Starkhaven, and it became clear the public hated their alleged-blood-mage new Princess too much for her to leave, she's been confined to the castle.

And climbing the bloody walls.

Entertainment comes where she can take it: practicing weird magic in odd places (the better to keep her skills sharp AND freak people out), enchanting tomatoes and other household items to follow her guards around bothering them (serves them right for being former templars), redecorating Sebastian's embarrassing shit of a room, almost getting the kennelmaster eaten for trying to muzzle Ox... she finds ways to entertain herself. Some of them are even interesting enough to almost distract her from her husband.

Almost.

Still, even she can't ignore this forever. "This" being the fact that her husband is the same man she once very much had feelings for, back in Kirkwall. Unacted-on feelings, true, but still- feelings, gross and squishy, and burned to ash in the rubble of the Chantry.

Only one hobby proves distracting enough: the old game of Flustering Sebastian. It was her favorite back in the Kirkwall days. Simplicity itself: see how many times she (and Isabela, generally) could make Sebastian turn interesting colors and start praying, in the span of one day. It's a bit less dynamic without Isabela around to bounce filth off of, but Hawke is a survivor- she makes do.

Eventually, though, the cockteasing she does to him starts to stoke an actual frustration in her, and an undeniable truth. It's been forever since she got laid. Hawke then proceeds to pursue an end to her dry spell with her characteristic zeal, by propositioning no less than four people in a week. Seneschal Granger is especially fun: as he flees in a tizzy, Hawke inwardly marvels that she will never tire of asking uninterested men for mustache rides. Her next prey is a member of her so-called 'personal guard' that Sebastian assigned her- all former templars, of course, to corral the mage. That one is just for fun, as Hawke is pretty sure the man is gay as the ace of spades, and scared of her to boot. Then there's a visiting dignitary from Cumberland, who has enchanting tanned skin and incredibly blue eyes and is honestly beautiful. When he demurs and excuses himself, she actually feels a frustrated surge of disappointment. She always heard that nobility was a big mess of intrigue, backstabbing, and secret sexy affairs. What does a gal have to do to get a secret sexy affair going?

So, in a fit of pique, she goes for someone else. One evening, she's reading in her room (their room), in the thin, insubstantial thing she usually wears as a nightgown, since she's pretty sure Sebastian wouldn't approve of her old habit of sleeping naked. A knock on the door turns out to be Fenris, looking for the Prince to discuss some guard-captain shit. She invites him in to chat and he agrees, simply because they've known each other for so long, and is unpleasantly surprised when she suggests that they relight the old flame. It was one night, she purrs, but a good night, wasn't it, and how long has it been since someone touched him?

She realizes her mistake when he spits witch! at her and storms off. Not the 'witch' part, that's normal these days, but the storm-off rings alarm bells in her head. Hawke knows Fenris's many storming-off variants, and that right there? That's a walk of purpose. He isn't just going away, he's going to something. Something important. Probably something Princely and her husband.

Oops.

Marian Hawke | Dragon Age

[purple_af]

[theredhawke]

Alec stared.

It was a strange feeling, to be sure, and some detached part of him watched, cataloguing his emotions and the effect they had on his body. He could feel his face growing redder, his blood flashing first cold and then scalding hot. His jaw flexed. His fingers flexed. His hand curled around the balcony's railing as he imagined it to be the hilt of his axe. He strongly considered picking up the heavy glass bottle of spirit that Aveline had bought them as a housewarming gift and throwing it, bouncing it hard off the skull of the damned guttermage, and dropping the dead apostate in the Gallows courtyard before asking for a reward.

He thought about clutching the hilt of his eating knife in his hand as he punched Anders' cheek again and again, bloodying him with the solidity of bone and the weight of metal.

He thought about many, many such things as Marian spoke to the man, saying words he couldn't hear before sending him away, and he...

He took a breath, closed his eyes, and walked away from the desk where he'd been carefully tending the household business, through the library, and down toward the greatroom where he knew Marian would be. "Sister?" he called as he opened the door. "Can you come here a moment?"

His tone was brittle. It would sound calm and even jovial to most. Marian surely heard more than that.