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A Softer Meme ([personal profile] asoftermeme) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2017-10-22 09:03 pm

We can communicate in our own way

ways to show affection


When it comes to the way affection is shown, everyone has a different way they go about it. That means that there's a pretty good chance, with regards to couples, you could end up with two people who have two varying approaches towards how they prove they care...sometimes radically varying, which can lead to more than a little confusion or hurt feelings if there's not proper communication. But when both people are on the same page, they can tell each other how they feel with few words.

☄ Comment with your character, info, prefs, and how your character will likely show affection.
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WORDS: Sweet affirmations, pet names, even
CUDDLES: Hugs, nuzzles, the works.
KISSING: On the check or on the lips.
KINDNESS: Always there for them.
PROVIDING: Providing care, providing protection, providing financially.
GENTLE...ER: Your only weak spot.
MEANNESS: Straight up tsundere.
GIFTS: All the pretty things.
ACTIONS: Visits, taking care of their problems, taking them out, and more.
SUBTLE: A distant sort of affection, but they know.
[ WILDCARD ]
assholic: (Ooh - 1)

[personal profile] assholic 2017-11-01 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
That's because you're a worst case scenario type of guy. You're always looking for and expecting it before it happens. I just know it's going to and try to ignore it until it does.
badluckwithplanes: (yet i feel i've won)

[personal profile] badluckwithplanes 2017-11-01 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I like to be one step ahead. Can you blame me?
assholic: (Look - 2)

[personal profile] assholic 2017-11-01 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
No, but it has to be exhausting. Can't you just... be in the moment?
badluckwithplanes: (in a long time now)

[personal profile] badluckwithplanes 2017-11-01 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
It's easier when I'm with you.
assholic: (Smile - Cute 1)

[personal profile] assholic 2017-11-01 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Good. Then come be with me. Let's just forget that the world is shit and just stay here in bed today.
badluckwithplanes: (what i shouldn't do i will)

[personal profile] badluckwithplanes 2017-11-01 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
The whole day? That sounds like an intriguing promise...
assholic: (Profile - 1)

[personal profile] assholic 2017-11-02 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
The whole day. Maybe a few breaks for showers or a bath. Or bath or shower sex. I'm game for both.
badluckwithplanes: (ive seen the streets you're walking down)

[personal profile] badluckwithplanes 2017-11-02 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
Do you think we could both even fit into your dingy little tub? Might have to get creative, with that one. [He sounds like he's interested in trying to see.]
assholic: (Smile - Up 1)

[personal profile] assholic 2017-11-02 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, don't crap on my tub. It's the only one I have. But...

[She smiled as she pressed in against him invitingly.]

I'm up for the challenge.
badluckwithplanes: (i'm gonna fly)

[personal profile] badluckwithplanes 2017-11-02 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
[He cupped both hands on the sides of her face, fingers spreading as they worked their way upward through her hair. He met her smile with a grin of his own.]

Then so am I.

[He leaned it for yet another heated kiss.]
assholic: (Down - 5)

[personal profile] assholic 2017-11-02 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
[She smiled into it, but that smile turned into that needy, greedy kissing as she held him to her. God, would she ever get tired of him? Would she ever not get hot and bothered just because he touched her, or looked at her a certain way from across the room?

She hoped not.]