Bring Your Own Kinks

[pippilongsockings]

The B(ring)Y(our)O(own)K(ink)Meme

Everyone has a favorite kink or scene or prompt they love to play out - and even if you don't, there has to be something you've always wanted to try, right? A kink? A premise? A prompt? While memes these days are doing great at covering fetishes and coming up with great premises, you can't expect them to cover everything anyone could ever want. There are just too many unique ideas out there! This meme tries to solve that problem by being a catch-all and hinging on a very simple premise: bring what YOU want to play and focus on that! It puts the power of choosing the direction of threads entirely in your hands. Find other people who will be totally down with playing what you want to play, and let them know just what you're interested in. Simple, right? It's just like a BYOB barbecue, only a lot sexier. How To Play: - Comment with your character. DON'T LEAVE YOUR COMMENT BLANK. Instead, copy and paste the information below and fill it out to suit your needs. Or use your own ideas. kink name/scenario here information goes here. wax poetic about titfucking or be sparse as you see fit. <SPAN STYLE="font-size: x-large"> <font face="georgia">kink name/scenario here</font></span> <blockquote><small>information goes here, your most secret desires</small></blockquote> - Be as specific or as vague as you want. You can put a kink and the definition (i.e., paizuri), or go all out with a scenario description ("I want my character to get fucked by his brother, who is an alien octopus"). Include pictures to serve as prompts if you'd like, but please link to anything that could be considered triggering instead of embedding it. Otherwise, all ideas, kinks, AUs, prompts, and scenarios welcome. - Comment to people whose ideas and kinks are relevant to your interests. - Thread those puppies out!

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Oliver Queen / Green Arrow | Arrowverse | m/m

[something_else]

Size Difference
Would love to play out a scenario about size difference, focusing on power and dominance, with Oliver (or some of my other muses) being the smaller of the two. The size difference can be anywhere from realistic of a couple feet between them, or extreme unrealistic height differences.

[panzersoldat]

I don't know how you feel about cross canon or age differences, but I adore size differences. It's part of why I play this massive man here. Reinhardt is canonically 7'4" and made of pure muscle. He is 61, though I would be willing to play him from his younger years, when he was 30 something and blond if that's better for you.

carrie white ; carrie ; f/m

[prayercloset]

I just made this comment on another meme, but now I realize how much I want to play it out.

I'm into the idea of Carrie sending erotic psychic images, presumably on accident, to a crush or something. Oh, the joys of being sexually repressed. Of course, this leads to the poor object of her desire being left with some persistent and confusing boners. Whether or not he's eventually into it and/or her or not is up to you.

Otherwise, I want to play Carrie against a character who'll assist her in opening up to a healthy, happy teen romance and exploring her desires. Really, she just needs people in her life who are not toxic, giving her a chance to follow another path aside from the doomed one we see in canon. To that end, I can play her with powers or without, and if the former, with control or without. Another option is to throw her up against another fellow outsider and have them learn about the brighter side together as they go.

[kidpocalypse]

If you're willing to put up with another teenager with Persistent Issues, I think there's the possibility of really cute shippy stuff as a result.

A quick overview of Evan: for the first however many years of his life (probably around 14, but it's not made completely clear), he grows up on a Kansas farm with parents he calls Ma and Pa and an Uncle Cluster who comes to visit him on the regular. Eventually, he ends up going to a boarding school for mutants, as you do, where the other kids keep comparing him to a super-villain he's never heard of before, Apocalypse. He's determined not to let it get him down, though, because he knows in his heart that he's a hero.

...Knows, at least, until he's kidnapped and finds out the truth about himself. Turns out he's a clone of that villain, made after his beloved uncle shot a different clone in the head, and his entire life before boarding school was one big virtual reality simulation. Lots of horrible, traumatic things happen, mixed in with normal school stuff and the usual saving-the-world bullshit. Eventually, he goes from wide-eyed Clark Kent expy to sulky teenager to sixteen-year-old superhero who tries desperately to come off happy as much as possible, in hopes of keeping his peers from looking at him and seeing a monster in waiting. When he's not grappling with the concept of destiny, he buys shoes, goes dancing, and keeps an eye on the internet.

I think they'd have some good foils for each other: he's visibly different on a biological level, she isn't; he desperately misses a family that never existed, she's been trapped in the grip of a mother who's all too real; it's hinted vaguely that he's moved from a semi-conservative semi-religious outlook to something much more apathetic, and Carrie's, uh, Carrie. And of course, they're both in situations where they have completely bananas powers and all kinds of issues around them.

I don't know what would be best as far as getting them to meet, whether we should AU one into the other's canon or jamjar it, and this has already gotten way too long, but defs. consider it. :)

april o'neil ; tmnt 2k14!high school au ; f/m

[schoolnews]

femdom

While I'm not into leather, whips, and chains style domme action, girls in charge are amazing. Girls on top and getting what they want, ass/pussy worship, breast focus, abrasions, even light slapping are all #goals.

loss of control

...or we can go in the opposite direction. My interpretation for teen!April is that she's very type A, always needing to be in the driver's seat and absolutely collected lest she be viewed as nothing but a pretty face. Exploring her letting loose and having someone else, someone she trusts and cares for (whether it's a boyfriend or just a best friend) take the reigns is appealing.

sex tape/dirty pictures

She's always associated with media of some sort in pretty much every iteration of her character. I'm interested in taking a spin on that and having her and her...whoever decide to either make a sex tape or some dirty photos. Not for distribution, obviously, but just a naughty thing between the two of them. Can be either of them solo (guided masturbation kink?)
or together. This can be done via them sexting/sending nudes, if that's more your preference.

fooling around

Really, I just like characters learning about themselves, what they like,
how much fun making out is, etc.

I'd prefer comparably aged characters for this April (I'm open to playing similar prompts with jumpsuitless against adult characters); special love for fellow teen sleuths, reporters, photographers, heroes, meddlers, etc. All prompts are available for memes here or in PSLs.

Various Monster Girls | Monster Girl Encyclopedia | OTA

[monstrousmaidens]

Profiles/kink lists of the girls are here. For all the monsters some things stay the same (corruption, transformation, a focus on pleasure/sex, etc). For the individual monsters, here are some kinks I'm feeling lately. Other things like body mods, fertility, and the like are also on the table if you want.

Nekomata

Voyeurism

Nekomata often pretend to be cats so maybe someone who has a pet cat gets a sudden visitor during something they'd rather be kept private.

Somnophilia

For the same reasons above, someone finding that they're being fondled/caressed while they sleep or maybe they don't even wake up at first. Maybe it's not even the first time it's happened but it's the first time that Nekomata hasn't had a chance to go back to being a cat.

Heat/Rutting

What it says on the tin.

Werewolf

Animalistic Urges

Basically, both parties being so caught up in things that they don't act as intelligently as they normally do.

Multiple Partners

Werewolves are social creatures so, I'll be willing to play the pack from being just one to maybe about four/five strong. It could be an orgy or more one on one play while the others watch.

Violence

Probably more than the other monsters here, at least in myth werewolves can get on the rough side. Probably no death but some roughing up would be nice. It could just be bruising/cuts for turning the other person or it could just be for fun during sex. No major injuries, either, but biting and clawing and the like.

Echidna

Breast Kink/Lactation

Since the Echidna is obsessed with fertility, it's not a wonder she's into having her breasts focused on or sucked.

Mother Kink/Age Play

While the Echidna generally just wants children, it's not out of the realm of the possibility that she'd try to mother her victims as well whether they'd want her to or not. The Echidna can transform herself to a human form to explore the world outside her dungeon so she could be a role model to an adventurer who finds out her true self later. If you don't mind mental age regression (someone thinking they're younger than they actually are), I wouldn't mind that as well. Maybe even actual age regression. (If you go this route, I wouldn't say no to unbirth either.)

Worship in General

Humans sometimes form cults around Echidnas. So a possible recruit trying to get in close with their goddess or maybe just someone trying to get rid of a heretic cult.

Arch Imp

Master/Servant

Imps are often summoned to be minions but an especially strong arch imp could turn that master/servant relationship on it's head. Could play it normally or have it turn into a major reversal.

Mind Control/Hypnotism

In particular, I want to play that with the Arch Imp due to her charm spells. Could run the gambit of just basic sluttification/submission or pet or family member or anything, really.

Shrinking/Size Play

Since the Arch Imp is smaller than the other monsters, I want the imp to use her magic to shrink her partner. It could just be a few feet or down so she can fit them in the palm of her hand.

My no's are mainly just bathroom play. I'm not against death but not this time around. I would also like the monsters to at least start in control. They can lose it or willingly give it up later but I'd like for them to at least start in a more dominate place; the Arch Imp, of course, is an exception.

[sockembot]

I'd love to do something with the Arch Imp. Maybe involving the Master/Servant scenario where she gets summoned, but ends up turning the situation around by shrinking down her master until he relinquishes control.

Re: Various Monster Girls | Monster Girl Encyclopedia | OTA

[thesockhop]

oh my goodness where to begin there are so many things here I'd really like...

The mother kink/regression would be super interesting, prefer mental to physical for age but I'm not adverse to other types of transformation, and up for the lactation in there as well. Definitely looking for there to be a smutty/sex angle to it as well as the mothering part but would love that. Probably go for a male character for this as that's my jam

For the imp I LOVE mind control/hypnotism and would love to do a sort of sluttification/submission/bimbofication thing with this, additional shrinking would be awesome too, in fact could probably throw together all of these, start with the imp being summoned and then the summoner losing control and the imp taking over and all of the above. Probably would play female for this but also would be okay with playing male getting transformed (I actually have a male demon character that might be perfect for that)

So...yes I would like many things if you are interested? XD

[not_yet_screaming]

As Lydia's her universe's chew toy, I'm going to suggest the Arch Imp, summoned by a would be queen bee to torment Lydia (hypnotism and shrinking both work) ending in role reversal.

[greatperspective]

I'd be very interested in playing off Echidna, either having them run into each other while she's exploring the outside or even having Fuyuhiko stumble into her dungeon while doing some adventurous exploring himself. The mother and age play kink would be great and I'd be up for age regression as well (both mental and physical, though I'd skip on the unbirthing), and anything that goes along with those like the breast/lactation kink! He's called "baby face" and "baby gangsta" in canon, so I've been eager to play with these sorts of kinks.

[dontneedscales]

If you're not overwhelmed already, fancy something with Alph again?

[thaumaturgardening]

I'd love to do something with Echidna, especially mothering and physical/mental age regression, with lactation and possibly transformation into another monster if you'd be up for it. Perhaps an infatuated Nina thinking she's found an adventuring partner and lover in a disguised Echidna, and being too far gone by the time she realizes what's happening?

varge ( original character ) ota

[somniarius]

Breeding (M/F)

Varge here is a slave with some potent magical abilities, so I'd like playing out a scenario where his master has either been paid to use him as breeding stock or his master is using him, either to breed more magical slaves or breed stronger magic into their own family.

Corruption/Mind Control (OTA)

It's part of Varge's eventual story, that as his powers grow, his personality starts getting darker. He starts using illusions to lure his master's children (teenagers/early 20s) or fellow slaves out for late night sex rituals that they don't remember the morning after.

Healing Sex (OTA)

After Varge's gone dark/fully wolfish in personality, he gets brought back somewhat to his normal self with (repeated) rounds of magical sex from the right person.

[healthedead]

[I like the idea of him slowly corrupting Suzume into someone who loves the late night rituals - what sort of kinks are you looking for on there specifically? Do you have any limits? Did you want to play out the rituals or her finding out about them?]

mavorio anaksosidera ( original character ) ota

[intellectus]

Public Fertility Ritual (OTA)

Mavorio's family line is tied to a sacred tree, and through the tree, the vegetative life of the empire. Fertility/sex rites may be needed to keep everything properly balanced, either in exceptional circumstances or as part of some periodic cycle.

Plant Magic (OTA)

Mavi's magic is plant-based, so incorporating plants into sex is the idea: tentacle vines, flowers that can act as orifices or phalli, etc. There can also be recreational drugging too.

Arranged Marriage (M/F)

Pretty inescapable as an emperor, so this would be consummating the marriage.

Re: mavorio anaksosidera ( original character ) ota

[storiesfromhome]

Ohai there. I have a character who could work for the arranged marriage option! This lady here is Ardan and she's an original character too. She's the eleventh daughter of an emperor and as such has the extreme privilege to be allowed to pursue a career rather than being married off to the first young royal who presents her father with a huge dowry. She's studied to become something like a shaman and uses magic and real-world medicine to heal injuries, disease, or mental illness. Buuuut by now all of her sisters have been married off and if Mavorio's empire comes knocking at her father's door, he won't think twice before arranging a marriage. Does that sound interesting to you?

avery garrett ( original character ) ota

[saetta]

Tiger Sex (OTA)

Avery's a shapeshifter, so I'd be interested in him sleeping with his partner in either a bipedal or quadruped tiger form. This would also include things like increased muscle mass, a considerable size difference, a tail, animal senses and instincts. We could include things like the barbed cock if you're into it, but I'll default to not going for it.

Sex Parties/Anonymous Sex/Orgies (OTA)

I'm thinking something along the lines of meet-and-greets for all sorts of supernatural creatures, kind of as a neutral meeting/bonding event. It could also be a place for nonsupernatural characters who are in the know to get to know their special neighbors.

Gangbang (OTA)

Avery's a sucker for being on the receiving end of these. If you have just the one primary character, we can both NPC the rest.

[summerorange]

((if you don't mind this young woman, maybe a mix of the first two prompts? Natsumi here could be new to both that kind of lifestyle and the supernatural world, and thus runs into him during a meet-and-greet and ends up being with his bipedal tiger form? Not interested in the barbed cock, but definitely interested in everything else.))

steve rogers ( mcu ) ota

[clipeifer]

Corruption/Mind Control/Transformation (OTA)

This could be magical, scientific, or just a pure personality change through torture. Steve could end up with his body changed or just his mind, but I'd like to go with something along the lines of him ending up wilder/amoral or evil. The sex could be part of the process, a way of checking the process is complete, or an unintended consequence.

Xenokink (OTA)

Steve being surprised with alien customs and alien anatomy; this could also apply to supernatural/magical creatures.

Humiliation (OTA)

Steve's been defeated and captured, and whoever's done it has decided to humiliate him sexually.

*For all of these, my pairing prefs are on my profile.

[justdun]

Xenokink, you say. Would a centaur do? I'm thinking Marvel opens up plenty of possibilities for time/universe displacement shenanigans, and while customs wouldn't be crazy different (Rafael's canon is basically wild west, but half of the people are actually centaurs), time displacement can be really fun to play with.

I also have an actual alien in my roster, although I don't meme with that character very often, but I could bring him out if centaurs aren't to your taste.

peter quill ( marvel comics ) ota

[starbuckslord]

Pegging (M/F)

Peter getting fucked by a woman with a strap-on or maybe if she has some kind of shapeshifting ability.

Sluttification (OTA)

This kinda comes out of the differences between v2 of Guardians of the Galaxy and v3+: Peter's always been kind of oblivious to people's sexual interest in him and sex in general. I'd like to play out scenarios where he's basically turned into an utter horndog through brainwashing, technology, magic, biological agents (symbiotes/parasites/sex pollen), and maybe having it become some sort of permanent or long-lasting condition.

Forced Breeding - Heat/Rut/Peacocking (OTA)

Two different, but related ideas:
1) Peter being held prisoner and used for reproductive purposes; 2) An AU where the fact that Peter is half-alien results in him going into heat/rutting, and basically strutting like a peacock for his partners along with getting very domestic. This could include things like knotting and either option could be tied into the sluttification kink.

King Quill & Black Vortex AUs (OTA)

The first is an AU I have written over here where Peter has invaded the Earth and taken it over for the Spartoi Empire. Not a harem kink, but sex mixed with political intrigue? The other option involves the Black Vortex, with people turning into space gods who've gone mad/horny with power.

[scarlettwin]

[ooc: If you're up for a Wanda...either Peter going into heat/rut, or possibly Black Vortex? Any preference to which one?]

Fuyuhiko Kuzuryu; Danganronpa

[greatperspective]

Pet Person AU

M/M preferred, but open to F/M or Futa/M. Everything that goes along with the typical pet person au/scenario (think the pet person meme). I'd like to play Fuyuhiko as the rebellious but loyal pet, either as a shiba inu or an orange tabby. He could have been bought from a prestigious breeder and turned out not to be as well behaved as advertised, or found on the streets and still on the feral side. Competition/showing and everything that goes along with that (training, discipline, learning tricks, caging etc) is one of my favorite scenarios, but being kept as a companion animal is also good. Possessive and jealous of his owner to the point of trying to do human things with them so they won't look at other pets (kissing, romance, sex, etc) or going along with an owner who wants those things from him are great, but I'd be open to other ideas as far as that's concerned as well.

Escort Service

M/M. Fuyuhiko working for a Love Hotel/other escort service owned by yakuza, rather than being the yakuza heir. Of course any servicing of clients is good here, but I'd really love him having to service some of his yakuza bosses, or hotel personelle (members assigned to kick out problem customers, etc.)

Full kink list is here with other bits of info. These are the two kinks/scenarios I'm really craving, but anything from my Fave list would be amazing too. Open to most kinks aside from my hard No's being included in these.

"Marie" | OC | OTA (F/F pref)

[onewithwater]

The Vanquished

Always in the mood for trouncing some wanna-be hero/heroine and making them their own. Bonus points for non-super slutty costumes and wearing masks. A-OK with them defeating her.

Mind Control

Oh, what fun it could be to take control of someone and let them do what they want!

Water Sex

As a water creature, spending time underwater is fun for her.
Having sex in it just as much, if not more. Breathplay can be a thing.

Debug Mode

The ultimate bit of control for Marie - transforming anyone and anything to what she pleases and their victim unable to do anything to stop it!

Futa

Something I'm slowly getting into with her. Either with tendrils or an actual cock.

Re: "Marie" | OC | OTA (F/F pref)

[havinalark]

Hello yea I am always a fan of mind control and/or the debug mode stuff, do you have any other kinks you like to go with those?

Viola Avelide | OC | OTA

[ebony_wings]

Monstergirl

More of a note, but Viola is a harpy, often in disguise depending on setting. She can outwardly appear human or just be fully human for the duration of the rp to taste. I am mildly interested in playing out someone discovering her form somehow leading to sexytimes.

(Responsible) Power Play

I have recently figured out a few threads I really enjoyed, so I wanted to bring that to a byok. I'd like a thread where Viola is under the control of someone who equally pampers but dominates her, kind of like a spoiled princess being disciplined, or someone slowly becoming more and more submissive to their partner while said partner rewards them with affection and tests them through pleasurable torment and discipline. It can be enforced by bondage, hypnosis, decree, etc. Lifestyle alterations to suit this being played out would be a bonus.

Clothing Sex/Sexy costumes

Viola being the object of affection and enjoys dressing up for her partner, ideally in ways that they have sex without removing any top clothing entirely (but exposing privates/erogenous zones helps and removing undergarments is fair game). Or Viola noticing someone (a woman likely)
and desiring to dress them up similarly to herself (she likes goth/gothic lolita).

Bondage

Anything more involved than handcuffs but not too extreme, ideally for squirming in and any variety of positions.

Agent Washington | Red vs. Blue | M/M

[agtwashington]

Noncon, Kidnapping, Blackmail

Wash could be the one that's kidnapped. It'd be even better if the others decide to break him sexually just for the kicks, not for any special reason. Blackmail could be used to get him to do whatever the kidnappers want.

Mind-break

Separate, but would go well with the above. Wash gets used to his new life as a sex toy and starts acting like it, even enjoying himself in the process.

Multiple cumshots

Can be from the same person or in a gangbang (I could play different NPCs), consent optional. I'd like to play Wash as the one taking it, though I can also play a couple of other characters to help spur things along.

Unhealthy

Doesn't have to be sexual. Wash isn't the type of character who would go after people, but he IS somebody who would be easily manipulated if the other party knows the right thing to say. Though, unhealthy + coercive sex is kind of my jam, with Wash being the coerced party. If you have a trashy character that you'd like to dust off, now's the time.

Forced impregnation

In a setting where it's normal to do so (eg. milking factory), as a "claim" for unrequited love, revenge, use-and-toss-away, everything's fine. With Wash as the one who's impregnated.

C-boy

^ in combination with all of the above, or separate. What can I say, there's zero C-boy porn out there and I'd like to make my own water, but i don't feel like writing fanfics. Other C-boy characters welcome, and I know it's not necessarily related to position, but honestly I lose interest writing dominating characters. Also, Wash isn't super dominant, though he'll order people around when he sees a need, but I'm not sure sexuality is one of those situations. I can do service top, and no, he's not just going to lie there and take it.

We can use toys, transformation devices, magic, or whatever's available. Make it interesting.

Multiple characters on offer for M/F and M/F+

[the_sock_market]

A number of characters that can fit into these categories. A list is on this journal.

Mind Control/Sluttification/Bimboification

Got a couple of characters with more or less the ability to control minds and warp perceptions or just massively up their charm/charisma, who just love turning the sweet and innocent or the tough and gruff into their playthings.

Threesomes and Moresomes

Of the one male, multiple female variety. I'm good with sharing or writing an NPC (or NPCs) if you're not good with multiples. An especially favored sub-kink to this is cum swapping.

Reverse Lolita

Interested in having one of my older fellas seduced (in a romantic/sexual way, not necessarily in a predatory way) by a younger/underage female.

Futa/F

I've got one futa lady (and could easily throw together an OC)
and have had some fun with her, but rarely get to finish out a thread. Particular love for a more petite/younger partner for her.

All the May/December

A blanket description for more or less all the usual older male and younger/underage female(s) scenarios. Student/teacher, father/daughter,
big brother/little sister, parent/babysitter, cheerleaders, schoolgirls, incest... you all know the type.

Full disclosure: I'm not your person for boomerang tagging, as much as I'd like to be. My work and life schedule just doesn't permit it. But I can average one tag a day during the week and sometimes the weekends, and if a thread is really good, I'll hang in there for months. Hit me up if anything sounds good.

Hiroshi | Ao Oni | OTA (aged up if want)

[all_onis_are_true]

Male Futanari/Cuntboy

Guys with dicks AND vaginas. Or maybe just a vagina. Is it normal? Is it imposed? Who cares, but let's stick a dick into 'em.

Fluid Inflation

Maybe it's cum, or milk, or some other solution. Pour it down their mouth, inject it into their ass, just something goes in and fills them up but good.

Center of Attention

Current status: they all still want me. Whether I like it or not. Yanderes? Chikan? Gangbangs? Go for it.

Obligation Sex

Stuff where Hiroshi consents to sex out of some obligation or need. Maybe he's protecting someone, maybe it's part of a deal, maybe it's a maintenance thing for the greater good. Whatevs. Go nuts.

Science Experiments

Xenophilia, sex machines, egg laying, breeding, go go go. Nothing involving altering Hiroshi's mind or breaking him, though. Now if YOUR character wants to break, I ain't stoppin' ya.

Also offering Phoenix Wright if that would be preferred.

Re: Hiroshi | Ao Oni | OTA (aged up if want)

[withyourcockout]

(The thing we were discussing, Hiroshi and Kyouko as roommates or siblings, your call, and her goading him into 'doing his part' to keep her from making so many messes. Basically acting as her cumdump and cleaner. Anything else you'd like to go into it? I'll start us up but I just wanted to confirm first)

General Account Here | Assume OTA

[anon_jigen]

INTIMATE/PERSONAL CARE

Anything from shaving, bathing/showering, rubbing lotion on the body, combing hair, anything that involves the daily rituals of caring for one's self, only done with a special someone.

PIERCINGS/TATTOOS/BODY MODIFICATIONS

Either for BDSM style ownership, or merely done on a lark. This includes visible/intimate placings of tattoos/piercings and can go as extreme as surgical augmentation or taking a part off or replacing it with another. (The latter, of course lends itself to a warning of dark themes.)

FEMDOM

Anything from a daily dictation of a persons everyday routine, goddess worship, gender-play, servitude, to pet play, to pegging, actual paid dominatrix work, to actual ropes, chains, and other fun stuff. The key is the person that is dominating is female or female identifying. Open to dommes and being one.

HYPNOTIZATION

I have a few people that lend themselves to be hypnotized, anything from stultification to outright gender transformation is possible.

SEXUAL THERAPY/MANIPULATION

I do have a character that isn't the most... open to sex, however he is open to slow, steady sessions of learning about sex with a patient person willing to accept that sometimes he clams up. Of course for the darker among us, there is the option of manipulating him to whatever you wish under the guise of 'helping' him.

SLOPPY SECONDS/GANGBANG/BUKKAKE

I do have the hankering for a F/multiple males/futa situation where everyone takes their turn coming inside or on the woman and making no attempts to clean up after the next one. You can the imagine the mess.

AU'S

Anything as common as high school/coffeeshop/noir to people AU'ed to be in each others canon. I am always a sucker for a good AU, especially if it leads to sex.