ryann comes in jars ([personal profile] cornichaun) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2017-04-22 08:32 pm

Aftercare Meme

THE AFTERCARE MEME


Sexual play can be intense. It can be emotional - it can be exhausting. It's essential to take time after to reaffirm, cuddle and comfort, apply any first aid, and relax.

PROMPTS:
1: ROUTINE. This is how you always do it; maybe it's complicated, maybe it's simple, but it has the comfort of ritual.
2: BROKEN. You're proud, you're confident, you're cocky, but this has cracked through the shell and left you open and needing.
3: SUB DROP. Withdrawal from the endorphins leaves you exhausted and unhappy. Someone needs to help with that.
4: DOM DROP. Dominating has really taken it out of you - maybe it's the submissive's turn to give some comfort.
5: SAFEWORD. You got interrupted in the middle: everything became too much, and someone used the safeword. Time to talk it out.
6: NONE. Your lover is cruel, and doesn't give you the aftercare you need.
7: WITH SOMEONE ELSE. You seek your comfort and your affirmation from someone besides your lover.
8: FIRST TIME. You've never done this before. The experience, the sensations - it's all new, and it leaves you all the more disoriented.
9: SECOND ROUND. Time for another go?
10: WILD CARD. For everything else!
commandor: (020)

cassian andor | rogue one | ota

[personal profile] commandor 2017-04-23 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
[ could be either submissive or dominant; more likely to be submissive, but service dom is possible. he is very willing and daring in the moment, but after sex drops into fuzz and exhaustion pretty fast. men or women (or robots or aliens) all good; femdom and pegging are good; crossovers/AUs fine; dub-con is a-ok; pm if you have questions. ]
drunk_ish: (79)

sinjir rath velus | star wars: aftermath | m/m

[personal profile] drunk_ish 2017-04-23 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
[ ex-imperial loyalty officer. character canonically gay, so anything consensual requires dudes. non-consensual is fine, so long as you ask about it first.

if he was in charge, sinjir has a tendency to push away people he doesn't care about and cling to people he does.

if his partner was in charge, it means sinjir Cares A Lot or was seeking out someone to punish him for his life of being an Imperial torturer. sinjir has a very confused desire both to be punished and rejected, and to be cuddled and told it's okay. he can't really have both of those the way he wants at once, so be prepared for a complicated emotional reaction, either way. ]
newts: (Default)

tharja ( fire emblem )

[personal profile] newts 2017-04-23 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
shieldborne: (Uniform)

Steve Rogers // MCU // M/F or M/M

[personal profile] shieldborne 2017-04-23 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
((Available in canon or pre-serum flavor. Can be either dom or sub and would probably be a great service top tbh. If M/F, I prefer that he have been subbing. Although it would also be fascinating to play prompt 7 with him being the 'someone else' taking over.

Any prompt except 6 is fine with me, but I would be especially interested in 2, 4, or 8. PM me if you have questions or idea you want to run by me.))
dysmania: (Default)

max rockatansky I mad max

[personal profile] dysmania 2017-04-23 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
m/f. sub pref, but open.
doles: (Default)

frank castle ☠ mcu

[personal profile] doles 2017-04-23 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
ota mcu, m/f otherwise. either role.
dweomer: (082)

davy jones ( oc ) ota

[personal profile] dweomer 2017-04-23 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
( Dom, even if he's a familiar or something of that nature. )
lebeau_diable: (Default)

Remy LeBeau/Gambit | Marvel | OTA

[personal profile] lebeau_diable 2017-04-23 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
bossmandiavolo: (Default)

Diavolo | JoJo's Bizarre Adventure: Vento Aureo | OTA

[personal profile] bossmandiavolo 2017-04-23 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
[ Dom, definitely, though may make exception for canon-mates. ]
biochemistry: (before i ever thought to feel the need)

Jemma Simmons | Agents of SHIELD

[personal profile] biochemistry 2017-04-23 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
[ota with strong f/f preference; she's the sub, and no 6-8]
ungentle: (bright branches of lovely moments)

Daenerys Targaryen | GOT/ASOIAF

[personal profile] ungentle 2017-04-23 04:46 am (UTC)(link)
[ota, modern also available; either role, no 6-8]
seedings: (we'll glow like the night sky)

The Dag | Mad Max: Fury Road

[personal profile] seedings 2017-04-23 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
[f/f; she's the sub but let's talk out details, no 6-8]
meadowesy: (eyes are sparkling with teenage fire)

Dorcas Meadowes | Harry Potter

[personal profile] meadowesy 2017-04-23 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
[f/f; either role, no 6-8]
rhymeswithcannibal: sways (serious: tender)

Hannibal Lecter :: NBC Hannibal :: m/f or m/m

[personal profile] rhymeswithcannibal 2017-04-23 06:35 am (UTC)(link)
[Prefer characters no younger than 25ish. No 6 or 9 please.]
snarkycomments: (Default)

Stiles Stilinski | Teen Wolf | OTA

[personal profile] snarkycomments 2017-04-23 08:18 am (UTC)(link)
[ ota, sub pref. ]
for_the_fallen: (Default)

Sheva Alomar | Resident Evil

[personal profile] for_the_fallen 2017-04-23 08:21 am (UTC)(link)
[She will not bottom/sub. Not only does she not trust anyone enough for that except Chris and even then only maybe but she could seriously hurt her dom if things go bad.

Scene =/= sex. If her bottom needs that release she will offer it as part of aftercare but sex is not a requirement or even a preference for her. She will not include it in the scene itself unless it's asked for.

Absolutely no dub/non con. Would be happy to work out the specifics of the negotiated scene OOCly beforehand.]
mastodonut: (Default)

Zack Taylor Ϟ Power Rangers Ϟ OTA

[personal profile] mastodonut 2017-04-23 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
[He's too young to have experience with this kind of thing (though I do play him as 18). He could be a dumb reckless idiot and get in over his head and end up utterly shattered if he bottoms. If he tops he'll be very careful about how far he pushes things, to the point of possibly not giving his sub what they really need because he's too worried about hurting them in a bad way.

Topping will only happen as unpowered AU or with his fellow Rangers because... he'd break a normal human.

Absolutely no dub/non con. Would be happy to work out the specifics of the negotiated scene OOCly beforehand.]
wicked_and_unnatural: (Default)

Credence Barebone | Fantastic Beasts

[personal profile] wicked_and_unnatural 2017-04-23 08:43 am (UTC)(link)
[I am not usually one for mixing dub/non-con with BDSM because that's not what it's about but...

Well Credence is a special case. Please, break him, use him, abuse him however you'd like. He'll be more "willing" guilt-ridden and turned on with men but women are welcome too. The more he likes something the more broken he will be.]
Edited 2017-04-23 08:44 (UTC)
mund: DO NOT TAKE. (Default)

percival graves | fantastic beasts

[personal profile] mund 2017-04-23 04:13 pm (UTC)(link)
urite_mala: ([witch] working)

Sean Parrish | OC | OTA

[personal profile] urite_mala 2017-04-23 05:04 pm (UTC)(link)
[ dominant. very attentive with aftercare, no #6. ]
fieryknowledge: (Glasses)

Ignis Stupeo Scientia || Final Fantasy XV || m/m

[personal profile] fieryknowledge 2017-04-23 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
[Both sides work for Ignis, though would prefer sub.]
asksawkwardquestions: (Default)

Bill Pots | Doctor Who | F/F

[personal profile] asksawkwardquestions 2017-04-23 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
adultflash: (^^;)

Barry Allen | DCTV | m/m

[personal profile] adultflash 2017-04-23 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
[Preference for subbing, but he can definitely be an attentive sub if you're interested in 4. Likely not 6 or 7. Assume he's either not with Iris or they have some sort of arrangement. Cross-canon also okay if I'm familiar! PM if you want to plot.]
flybybirdie: (Default)

Dick Grayson | DC | m/m

[personal profile] flybybirdie 2017-04-23 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
(( sub ))
questionablewit: (Default)

Hawke | Dragon Age series | M/F

[personal profile] questionablewit 2017-04-23 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc: She's a switch but more likely to sub. Or to fight against her dom and enjoy it. No 6.]

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