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The Forced Family Unit Meme
The Not So Happily Married Meme
(or the FORCED FAMILY UNIT meme)


Let's get one thing straight. Not all marriages are happy. They don't start with love, and they don't end with it. In fact, some marriages are more arrangements that anything. Whether it be through the will of an iron-fisted totalitarian government or something as ancient as tradition, people end up stuck. And now, you're one of them. Maybe you were assigned you partner. Maybe your parents picked them out. Maybe it's something different all together. But no matter what, you're going to be with them in some shape, fashion, or form.
So, what can you do? Do you just deal with it? Try to find a way out? Or worst of all, do you blame your so-called "spouse" for all this? You'll have to do something.
HOW TO PLAY;
1. Comment with your characters, putting any preferences you have in the subject. These are your OOC preferences, however. Remember, in meme your character's preferences won't matter.
2. Reply to others! You can use the RNG to roll for the WHY (why are your characters in this mess), the WHEN (what stage are they at), and the HOW (how do they feel about their partner). Or just wing it.
3. The fun of this meme is putting together characters who would normally never be together or have no business getting married, whether it be cross-canon, enemies, or strangers. But feel free to do what you want. Unlike your characters, you're never forced.
4. This is not a smut meme, nor is it a romance meme. There is a smut option and a romance option, but neither are required. The focus here is on CR and coping with situations that might be fairly unpleasant.
5. Have fun! And by that, I mean be miserable.
WHY;
1. GOVERNMENT: You live in a world where all aspects of life are controlled by the government. This includes who you're matched up with. Take "government" to mean anything you want it to, whether that be actual government or something like gods.
2. ARRANGED: Due to your culture, status, or family, you have an arranged marriage. Your significant other was picked out long before now.
3. SOLD: One of you belongs to the other in some way. At any rate, it's not a completely consensual arrangement.
4. KEEPING UP APPEARANCES: You don't particularly care for this person, but you have to look good for some reason. They'll do for that.
5. SHOTGUN WEDDING: Because of outside circumstances (read: an unplanned child), you're stuck together.
6. CURSED/POTION: At least one of you is under the effects of a curse or potion that binds you both.
7. THE BEST I COULD GET: Either one of you or both of you are settling. This is just a marriage of convenience.
8. Wildcard/free space.
WHEN;
1. JUST MET: You've never seen this person that you're engaged, intended, or assigned to. This is your first meeting.
2. JUST MARRIED: Ceremony or knot, you've just tied it.
3. CONSUMMATE: What's a married live without consummating the union? Whether it's for some kind of ritual, a fulfillment of a contract, or the need to produce offspring to become workers, you have to come together.
4. IN THE FAMILY WAY: Congratulations! You're about to bring a child into this (potentially loveless) family. Are you proud?
5. MARRIED WITH CHILDREN: You have kids already. They might be biological, or they might be state-assigned. How's the family life going?
6. FILLING YOUR ROLE: The two of you have a job or purpose, such as starting a business.
7. TRYING TO ESCAPE: You have to get out. You can't take this life anymore.
8. THERE'S SOMEONE ELSE: Since you didn't ask for this marriage, one of you has a lover on the side. Do you tell your spouse upfront, or do they find out themselves?
9. Wildcard/free space
HOW;
1. STRANGERS: You hardly know this person. Getting to know them is important (since you're only going to be spending the rest of your lives together) , but are you willing to put forth the effort for that?
2. HATE: They've ruined your life. Maybe not directly, but they're there and that's enough.
3. LOVE: There might be a light at the end of the tunnel. Perhaps you do love each other, or you're at least learning to do so.
4. IN THIS TOGETHER: It may not be perfect, and you might not be be in love, but you're making it work for yourselves or for any children you might have. And hey, sometimes friendship like that can be a strong enough bond.
5. Wildcard/free space
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Look, I'm sorry, Johanna. He's your friend. I get that. From the way you're reacting, I gather he's a good man and... That helps. Since Elan had to die, I'm glad it could be so a good man could live.
[He scrubs at his face with one hand.]
I'm sorry if you wish it were him in here with you instead of me.
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I don't want to marry Finnick, I'm marrying you. [She just leans over and kisses his cheek, and then starting to kiss up his jaw line up to his ear before whispering into it.] I can't tell you more here, jut just fucking drop it.
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I'm sorry, darlin'.
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See you at the alter. (She blushed and played cute.)
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Finally. I've been waiting too long for this.
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Oh, totally Snow. Eliot will be so in over his head...
heh X3
Hey, calm down. Jut think of them as dolls you have to put up with.
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I think my sister's doll looked more human. It was certainly saner.
[He tenses again, though, as he catches the strong scent of roses. So much for calming down. Is the man trying to make this impossible?]
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got it!
Dear, you're so funny~ [Johanna says as she plays with his tie.]
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Oh, that's what you think, huh? We'll just have to see about that.
[He kisses her lightly.]
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You too look so happy. (snow comes over, his sweet smile on and rose in his lapel.) It's so nice to see a Victor finding love.
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Yes, it is, isn't it? [He smiles down at the woman hanging on his arm.] She's earned it.
(Snow kisses Johanna's forehead.) I'm so happy you've found a new family, my dear.
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Thank you, President Snow. I couldn't have done it without you and the Capital. [She smiles up at Eliot like a love sick girl.] I have no idea why anyone would want to rebel from it. [What? Johanna couldn't help herself?]
Yes, I can't think of a reason at all. [He narrows his eyes at her.] After all, there are just so many people in district 7 that might miss you. (or might go missing if she talked again.]
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I don't, either.
[He has to think about his family to make it sound sincere. They're the only reason he isn't hunting this man like a deer.]
[The old man's gaze drifts to Eliot.]
See that you keep it that way. I would hate to see Kane end up like his father. Elan, I think his name was.
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I see. Perhaps, after the births.
[Shit. She didn't think of that angel.]
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Aw, crap! I forgot I hadn't tagged back yet!
[FACECLING] I missed you ;-;
I missed you, too. And then I realized it was my fault bc I hadn't tagged back!
[nuzzles]
May/can I enable you to a game?
you can try 83
\o/
You just tagged my Snow
That's you?! *flails*
yep
You wanna do another time skip after this?
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Time skip...
woot
Man, I don't have the right icon for this!
X3 It's not really an expression that Eliot does though
Think the expression from the pilot where Parker strips on the elevator
lol, sorry for my all around fail
Done mu own share of failing lately
(hugs)
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sorry for the late! My computer died and i had to buy a new one
My sympathy! I've been there...