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¢αℓℓ ιт α ¢υяѕє ([personal profile] celebratory) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2016-10-16 07:25 pm

Kept A P A R T

Long-Distance Relationship Meme

a romantic relationship between two people who live far apart and so are unable to meet on a frequent basis.


What to do if the person you're with...isn't with you? They could be living a town over, across the world, or even across the universe. However, living with you may not be off the table for them; instead, it possibly could be a time to time affair. Most of the time, though, they're off somewhere else and quite busy: working hard to advance their career, playing with their band, leading a revolution, whatever their passion of choice may be. You've come to terms with the distance between you, no matter its origin. And on that note, you're determined to do your best and make this work, despite how much you have to rely on any sort of communication aside from face to face.

Of course, what this all means is that you've got to make up for lost time and make every second you do have when they drop by count. What exactly that entails is up to you. Romance? Fun? Sex? Just being close or hanging out together? In your almost constantly parallel lives, any intersection is good enough.

  • You know what to do. Comment with your character, info, prefs, wishes, desires, limits (serious only, fluffy preferred, no smut, humor encouraged, etc.)
  • What aspects of a long-distance relationship do you want to play: the communicating between far-flung parties or the times spent together? Leave that in your comment too.
  • Reply to others and do a thread.
leadrole: (pic#10656588)

Zen | Mystic Messenger | OTA!

[personal profile] leadrole 2016-10-17 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
[chat with him! everything is game but msg if you want smutty stuff! thanks!]
theonlycaptain: (Coldwave skeptical of the plan)

LEONARD SNART ( CAPTAIN COLD ) | DCTV | OTA

[personal profile] theonlycaptain 2016-10-17 01:10 am (UTC)(link)

Jackson Whittemore | Teen Wolf | OTA

[personal profile] ex_prick866 2016-10-17 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
hands_and_eyes: (57)

Adam Parrish | The Raven Cycle| m/m

[personal profile] hands_and_eyes 2016-10-17 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
talentedscavenger: (Default)

Rey || Star Wars: The Force Awakens || F/M

[personal profile] talentedscavenger 2016-10-17 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
thesefirststeps: (Default)

Rey | SW: TFA | OTA

[personal profile] thesefirststeps 2016-10-17 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
deadlyhairpin: (Default)

Billy Rocks | Magnificent Seven | M/M

[personal profile] deadlyhairpin 2016-10-17 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
[I am just throwing Billy on everything. I had a thought for a reincarnation AU here? But I am open to pretty much anything anyone has in mind.]
noassgardian: (Default)

Billy Kaplan | Marvel | m/m

[personal profile] noassgardian 2016-10-17 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
kosu: (Default)

spock (rule!63) | star trek aos

[personal profile] kosu 2016-10-17 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
rainbowflavored: (Default)

Kenny Al-Bahir | The War At Home | m/m

[personal profile] rainbowflavored 2016-10-17 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
mightbenargles: (Default)

Luna Lovegood | Harry Potter

[personal profile] mightbenargles 2016-10-17 07:00 am (UTC)(link)
[She travels a lot in her job post-war so this is canon. Could also do some things during the war, if want, though they'll be harder to thread out.]
starling_sidekick: (Pensive)

Roy Harper/Arsenal | Arrow | OTA

[personal profile] starling_sidekick 2016-10-17 09:07 am (UTC)(link)
eyeofthehawk: (Yeah... about that)

Clint Barton/Hawkeye | MCU | OTA

[personal profile] eyeofthehawk 2016-10-17 09:09 am (UTC)(link)
nothisfather: (Trust me Bones)

James/Jim T Kirk | Star Trek: AOS | OTA

[personal profile] nothisfather 2016-10-17 09:11 am (UTC)(link)
meltyourface: (sassy hero pose)

Kara Danvers ▽ Supergirl ▽ OTA

[personal profile] meltyourface 2016-10-17 10:14 am (UTC)(link)
[not interested in smut, cross-canon is love esp as alternate universes is a Thing and i mean, she's supergirl. a long distance relationship on the same planet isn't gonna be a big deal.]
incorporealpryde: (Default)

kitty pryde | x-men: evolution/mcu | f/m

[personal profile] incorporealpryde 2016-10-17 10:38 am (UTC)(link)
no smut but everything else is fair game. fluff and fun especially = love
barre_none: (side)

Grace Ford | OC | m/f

[personal profile] barre_none 2016-10-17 12:51 pm (UTC)(link)
[No smut, but fluff is always loved! Also a fan of reunion prompts]
wasabi_peas: (target a specific brain)

Bennett Halverson (Rule!63) | Dollhouse | m/f

[personal profile] wasabi_peas 2016-10-17 03:10 pm (UTC)(link)
[OTA but the prompt is for [personal profile] starches]

text;
I have a new theory. Concerning neuroplasticity. Would it be possible to get your input?

If you're around. If you're busy, this is unimportant. Not important.
starches: (would it sound ott if i said)

[personal profile] starches 2016-10-18 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
Lay it on me. I'm pretty much never too busy to listen to you.
wasabi_peas: (building magic bullets)

[personal profile] wasabi_peas 2016-10-18 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
At a cellular level, the hippocampus and amygdala have opposite reactions to repeated stress. This has often made long term engagements difficult at best.

With a trycyclic antidepressant, I think we could reverse it. Make the imprints stick better. Though I am reluctant to employ another drug. Was wondering if you could possibly come up with a more elegant solution.
starches: (occasionally i swashbuckle)

[personal profile] starches 2016-10-19 08:48 am (UTC)(link)
Huh! Can I take a couple days and think it over? Make sure you're getting the very best of my ideas and not just the first crap that comes to mind.
wasabi_peas: (I didn't think it was -- omgiloveyou)

[personal profile] wasabi_peas 2016-10-19 04:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think your ideas would be that. Even the first ones. Though I can understand your reluctance.

I will send you some of my notes.
starches: (let me show you mine)

[personal profile] starches 2016-10-20 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
But great ideas to most people could be crap to you, since your version of great ideas is kinda... super-great. It's a lot of pressure. :)

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utulien_aure: loneliness (Five)

Fingon | Tolkien | OTA

[personal profile] utulien_aure 2016-10-17 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
[Not that this isn't a working description of most of his relationships by the end, both romantic and platonic]
oenophile: (must be joking)

Eliot Waugh | The Magicians (books) | m/m

[personal profile] oenophile 2016-10-18 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
[[Stepping back into the character after some time away, why not. He's honestly probably a better long-distance boyfriend anyway, not that he'd use awful words like that.]]