I've got your possessive

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THE POSSESSIVE SEX MEME

In nature, animals can be territorial. This makes sense; it's a cutthroat world, and you have to keep what's yours just to survive. They keep a close watch on lands, food supplies, and even sometimes mates. Pet owners can tell you that this instinct doesn't just go away - try getting that chew toy from your poodle. But what about people? Aren't we just animals, too? But for us, possessiveness is not a good social trait to have. That's understandable. Nobody likes someone so hung up on owning things. Especially not owning their lovers, since you can't simply have another person like that.

Yet even the most benign, most monkish of souls have possessive streaks at some moments when it comes to the person they're sleeping with. It's only natural. Usually, it comes from jealousy. You like having what's yours (even if it's a cruel way to think about things, that's the reptile brain peeking through), and you'd want it to stay that way. That means you want to show up the competition and remind the object of your desires that you're the apple of their eye. Of course, possessiveness doesn't always come from jealousy. Some people are just very, very...how do we say it...protective of them and theirs. How can they help that they want to show that in intimate ways?

In relationships, possessiveness throughout isn't healthy; still, a little bit of it can be actually arousing, especially in the bedroom. Today, the hotel is awakening that side of characters: the part that wants to screw their partner mercilessly to show them that they are the ones to touch them, to love them, to fuck them.

But my character isn't the possessive type, you say? Really? Really? As we've mentioned before, even the most kindhearted types feel it every once and a while. This meme never mentioned that it had to be a HUGE show of possession. It can even be a playful attempt in order to get their partner going or try a new kink in bed. Or, you could say the "influences" made them do it.

After all, there's plenty of prompts here to influence you.

HOW TO PLAY
- Comment with your character and preferences. You also may want to include if your character is more or less likely to be the possessive or jealous party, but please note that all characters have the potential to be that in this meme. Otherwise, you'd get a lot of passive pillow queen characters to be fawned over so be mindful of that.
- Reply to others!

PROMPTS

HOW

1. Induced Jealousy: Whether by taunting or misunderstanding, one partner is jealous and wants to make sure their lover knows that they're the worthy - and only - one.
2. Insecurity: There's no outside source here, only self-worth issues that cause a need for possession.
3. Pushed by the Other: "Man up!" "Show me you want me!" "Grow a pair!" You can only take so much.
4. Making up for Losses: You can't be together outside the bedroom, so you have to make up for it here and you want the bed to be your domain.
5. Rivalry: People of a certain age will remember a certain song about rivalries. The boy/girl is yours.
6. Necessity: You live in a society where you must show a certain amount of possessiveness over your lover.
7. Nature: Breeding and mating urges, oh my!
8. In the Mood: No particular reason, you woke up feeling like a lion in their terrain.
9. Hate You...but Don't Want Anyone Else to Have You: What it says on the tin.
10. Virginity: You want to claim what no one else has, and that will be you and you only.
11. Playfulness: All this is simply fun between the two of you.
12. Cruelty: You want to humiliate your partner by reminding them that you're the one in charge here.
13. WILDCARD.

HOW

1. Intense, desperate sex (not necessarily rough).
2. Rough sex.
3. Marking - either discreet or in places that could easily be seen.
4. Clothing (jewelry, lingerie, slutty clothing, and in some cases, collars and other trappings).
5. Reminding your partner that only you can bring them this much pleasure (overstimulation).
6. Public or semi-public sex.
7. Cheating, cuckholding, or netorare - essentially showing your lover that they may not be with you, but you're the one who gets them off.
8. Orgasm or pleasure denial.
9. Non-consensual.
10. Making them say who they belong to / dirty talk.
11. WILDCARD.

Comments

Jamal Lyon | Empire | m/m

[heavythecrown]

[No cheating or anything of the like.]

Angela Moss | MR ROBOT | F/M

[insidejobs]

[redwheelbarrow]

[Hey there! Would you be up for something with Tyrell? I can imagine either of them being the more possessive one - particularly if we go with a post-season 2 canonpoint. If you haven't finished season 2, I can keep spoilers to myself!]

Stiles Stilinski | Teen Wolf | m/m

[snarkycomments]

MICK RORY ( HEATWAVE ) | DCTV | OTA

[burneverything]

Tohru Oikawa | Haikyuu!! | OTA

[secondface]

[Either role is fine,]

[ex_crowgirl624]

[Any prefs? I'll write the starter when I'll be on again in a day.

This could be a continuation of the sexting thread.]

Rey | SW: TFA | OTA

[thesefirststeps]

[ooc: Either / or. Most prompts are open for discussion.]

Asriel Dreemurr: God of Hyperdeath | Undertale | OTA

[justletmewin]

[Hypergod is 18+ for this meme! No breeding/mating or cheating/cuckholding/netorare. Please message me regarding noncon and dubcon.]

Stiles Stilinski - Teen Wolf - M/M

[runningwithwolves]

(Either works for Stiles)

Octavia Blake - The 100 - M/F

[porcelain_tosteel]

Arthur Kirkland | Hetalia | M/M (Amelias welcome)

[english_dignity]

[No cheating please.]

Kurama | Yu Yu Hakusho | M/M

[demon_rose]

[No cheating.]

1/6 & 3??

[jaganshi]

Mercy / Dr. Angela Ziegler✦ Overwatch ✦F/M - OTA Canonmates/ over 18

[watching_over_you]

*(OOC: No cheating but open to everything else.)

Leanne | Fire Emblem | M/F

[song_princess]

[No number 7]

andrew minyard, ALL FOR THE GAME.

[offhand]

( m/m. )

Isaac Lahey | Teen Wolf | OTA

[claustrophobic_beta]

Derek Hale - Teen Wolf - OTA

[sourwolf_hale]

.

Jessica Jones | MCU | f/m

[questionablemethods]

[no non-con or cheating]

Bigby Wolf | TWAU/Fables | OTA

[sheriffwolf]

Agron | Spartacus | m/m

[nichtstubenrein]

11/3-10-4 (since nasir has that necklace)

[homuncionem]

[ooc: I can always go with something else too!]

Nasir is not possessive by nature; perhaps it comes from being a body slave, from being told at an early age that he owns nothing. Unlike Agron, before his freedom cut from Spartacus, he barely remembered his days in Syria, in a life that was free.

Now that he has freedom, now that he has someone like Agron in his life, he can only thank the Gods that he has been so lucky. To have the older man slip through his fingers, only to return to him once more--only the Gods themselves could rip him from his arms.

Perhaps he is slightly possessive.

Still, as he arrives back to the small villa they have for themselves after market, he can't help but feel that feeling ownership like this is, perhaps, all right. Because it is for eachother, alone.

"Agron? I hope you have finished with the goats." He calls out, not seeing his lover as he puts the meager purchases away. They may not have much, but it is their own. All their own.

Possessions, ownership--all new things to him. He will not take any of it forgranted.

Natasha Romanoff|MCU|OTA

[msromanoff]

[ no 7 please]

Parker | Leverage |OTA

[imparker]

Abby Scuito | NCIS |OTA

[ijustknowthings]

Steve Rogers | MCU | OTA

[waypastasking]

Blake Belladonna | RWBY| OTA

[fade_to_black]

[myweightingold]

[My brain wants a cocktail of 1-5-9 where June's the flirty rogue huntress (muscle for Cinder or Torchwick, maybe) who's got a rivalry with Blake that's juuust this side of a crush, until she sees Blake on a date or what-looks-like-a-date, June gets hugely jealous, and their next tangle gets a little rough and steamy. But happy to roll with whatever you're feeling too!]

John Winchester | Supernatural | M/F

[failedparenting]

[No noncon or virginity!]

[ex_bossily211]

[It's not that they're in a relationship, exactly. Neither of them would say that. They have a sexual partnership of sorts, one where she's able to pop off and meet him wherever he is because of a certain best friend and his blue box. Not that John needs to know that, given what it is he does (she doesn't even know the full extent of it, really). They don't talk about his work as much as hers whenever they talk about work at all, somehow he always seems content to listen to her go on about teaching her seventh year students and how they drive her completely crazy.

Of course, they don't generally get around to talking until after they've worn themselves out. Each night she goes to him usually ends with the both of them tangled together and worn out, and her waking up in his motel room alone. She doesn't ever mind though, and always comes back for more. Tonight's no exception.

Whatever hunt he's been on, he's not in the best shape, and after helping him patch up the cut to his head she realizes just how bothered she is by the fact he could get killed. She feels a strong protective urge course through her, one that she tries to ignore in order to take advantage of the fact that they're making up for the fact they haven't seen each other in nearly a month. Wanting to make things feel light in order to lose some of the tension that she's sure they're both feeling, she looks over at him sitting on the edge of the dingy bed and arches an eyebrow.]

Your clothes. Take them off.

[She's tiny, but incredibly bossy, and although she doesn't necessarily pull out that side of her in the bedroom that often she feels the need to tonight. Her tone is firm and leaves no room for argument, and as she impishly smirks she saunters her way in over to the bed. Stopping right before him, the other eyebrow arches and she uses a tone of voice that leaves no room for argument.]

Now.

[Her smirk turns into an all out smile, letting him know that this is all for fun. Mostly. She hasn't quite figured out how serious she's going to be with the intensity of this just yet.]