Nothing wrong with being a little possessive

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THE POSSESSIVE SEX MEME

In nature, animals can be territorial. This makes sense; it's a cutthroat world, and you have to keep what's yours just to survive. They keep a close watch on lands, food supplies, and even sometimes mates. Pet owners can tell you that this instinct doesn't just go away - try getting that chew toy from your poodle. But what about people? Aren't we just animals, too? But for us, possessiveness is not a good social trait to have. That's understandable. Nobody likes someone so hung up on owning things. Especially not owning their lovers, since you can't simply have another person like that.

Yet even the most benign, most monkish of souls have possessive streaks at some moments when it comes to the person they're sleeping with. It's only natural. Usually, it comes from jealousy. You like having what's yours (even if it's a cruel way to think about things, that's the reptile brain peeking through), and you'd want it to stay that way. That means you want to show up the competition and remind the object of your desires that you're the apple of their eye. Of course, possessiveness doesn't always come from jealousy. Some people are just very, very...how do we say it...protective of them and theirs. How can they help that they want to show that in intimate ways?

In relationships, possessiveness throughout isn't healthy; still, a little bit of it can be actually arousing, especially in the bedroom. Today, the hotel is awakening that side of characters: the part that wants to screw their partner mercilessly to show them that they are the ones to touch them, to love them, to fuck them.

But my character isn't the possessive type, you say? Really? Really? As we've mentioned before, even the most kindhearted types feel it every once and a while. This meme never mentioned that it had to be a HUGE show of possession. It can even be a playful attempt in order to get their partner going or try a new kink in bed. Or, you could say the "influences" made them do it.

After all, there's plenty of prompts here to influence you.

HOW TO PLAY
- Comment with your character and preferences. You also may want to include if your character is more or less likely to be the possessive or jealous party, but please note that all characters have the potential to be that in this meme. Otherwise, you'd get a lot of passive pillow queen characters to be fawned over so be mindful of that.
- Reply to others!

PROMPTS

HOW

1. Induced Jealousy: Whether by taunting or misunderstanding, one partner is jealous and wants to make sure their lover knows that they're the worthy - and only - one.
2. Insecurity: There's no outside source here, only self-worth issues that cause a need for possession.
3. Pushed by the Other: "Man up!" "Show me you want me!" "Grow a pair!" You can only take so much.
4. Making up for Losses: You can't be together outside the bedroom, so you have to make up for it here and you want the bed to be your domain.
5. Rivalry: People of a certain age will remember a certain song about rivalries. The boy/girl is yours.
6. Necessity: You live in a society where you must show a certain amount of possessiveness over your lover.
7. Nature: Breeding and mating urges, oh my!
8. In the Mood: No particular reason, you woke up feeling like a lion in their terrain.
9. Hate You...but Don't Want Anyone Else to Have You: What it says on the tin.
10. Virginity: You want to claim what no one else has, and that will be you and you only.
11. Playfulness: All this is simply fun between the two of you.
12. Cruelty: You want to humiliate your partner by reminding them that you're the one in charge here.
13. WILDCARD.

HOW

1. Intense, desperate sex (not necessarily rough).
2. Rough sex.
3. Marking - either discreet or in places that could easily be seen.
4. Clothing (jewelry, lingerie, slutty clothing, and in some cases, collars and other trappings).
5. Reminding your partner that only you can bring them this much pleasure (overstimulation).
6. Public or semi-public sex.
7. Cheating, cuckholding, or netorare - essentially showing your lover that they may not be with you, but you're the one who gets them off.
8. Orgasm or pleasure denial.
9. Non-consensual.
10. Making them say who they belong to / dirty talk.
11. WILDCARD.

Comments

John Watson | Sherlock | M/M

[ihadabadday]

[All of these are pretty much okay with me.]

genos | one punch man | castmates

[biomechanic]

Peter Pettigrew | Harry Potter/Marauders Era | M/M

[peterohpeter]

[All prompts are ok.]

[chocolate_tea]

((How does Remus - Not the one I want/But the one who is here - desperation sound?))

Greed | FMA | OTA

[wantitall]

[ooc: I mean, really.]

Kira Yoshikage | Jojo's Bizarre Adventure: Jojolion

[seasalthands]

[All prompts are ok~!]

Sam | Until Dawn

[conservationists]

Eugene Sledge | The Pacific

[dungarees]

Jamal Lyon | Empire | m/m

[heavythecrown]

[No cheating.]

Stiles Stilinski | Teen Wolf | m/m

[snarkycomments]

Rey | SW: TFA | OTA

[thesefirststeps]

[ooc: Most prompts open for discussion.]

Mikaela Hyakuya // Owari no Serafu // OTA

[reluctantvampire]

(ooc: I can write the starter.)

Ranmaru Mori | Samurai Warriors | M/M

[notgayfornobunaga]

(Pretty cool with all prompts.)

Jemma Simmons | Marvel's Agents of SHIELD | OTA

[technicallysmarter]

junko enoshima ( dangan ronpa )

[fauxtale]

( why NOT........ )

[lasthungrywolf]

[...maybe a continuation of the setup from the other thread where it turns into an ongoing battle of wills? Either she tries to seduce him into admitting defeat (maybe elements of Why-9/12 on her part and How-5/10), or she goads him into some Why-1/3 and How-1/6. I'm open to other ideas, too, of course!]

Hinata Hyuuga| Naruto| OTA

[shyhyuuga]

[She wouldn't be the possessive party, but I don't mind playing her as one. I'm up for everything besides non-con and cheating. Canon and cross canon welcome!]

Kamiya Tsurugi / Servamp / OTA

[shoelicking]

elena fisher | uncharted | m /f

[tearsinajar]

Edward Elric // Fullmetal Alchemist // M|M

[inexchange]

(ooc: Basic information can be found here (WIP). Permissions can be found here. Kinks can be found here (18+ only). I don't mind writing the starter.)

Sena Izumi // Love Stage!! // M|M

[doortodreams]

(ooc: Basic information can be found here (WIP). Permissions can be found here. Kinks can be found here (18+ only). I don't mind writing the starter.)

Stranger | Oddworld | M/F

[wrathofstranger]

Leanne | Fire Emblem | M/F

[song_princess]

yoosung kim . mystic messenger

[exp]

( can easily be the possessive one, open to all prompts! )

Nishinoya Yū | Haikyū!!

[checkit]

((no 12 or 9. def. possessive.))

stocking anarchy | PS&G | ota

[sonsie]

Tomari Shinnosuke | Kamen Rider Drive | m/m

[shin_niisan]

Krim Steinbelt | Kamen Rider Drive

[hotprofessor]

Krim is waiting inside the garage when the door opens and Shinnosuke carefully pulls his car inside. He makes a show of taking out his gold pocketwatch and looking at the time with a shake of his head.

"You're late, my boy," he chides as Shinnosuke steps out of the car. Krim holds up his hand to signal Shinnosuke to stay where he is, and walks down the garage steps towards him. "If you're going to insist on keeping your job, you could at least try to come home at a reasonable hour, hmm?" He reaches out to take Shinnosuke's tie in his hand and pull him gently down to his eye level. "I was starting to think you might have forgotten about me," he teases with a smirk.