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50% fluffy shipping, 50% batshit insanity ([personal profile] whentheymeme) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2016-08-03 06:56 pm

The Size Difference/Size Kink Meme

The Size Difference/Size Kink Meme
Size kink is a kink or preference for a distinct difference in size, height, musculature or weight between two sexual partners.

It isn't too unusual for two people in a relationship to be of different sizes, be it height or weight or anything else of that nature; after all, it'd probably be more strange to see two people together with the exact same "specs," so to speak. What are the odds? Still, the difference isn't always pronounced.

Except, sometimes, when it is.

Some people find the difference cute or charming, while others are not such big fans. Whatever the case may be, there are benefits and drawbacks, all the same.

This meme is for playing out everything that comes with being in a relationship where one party is a different size than the other. All configurations are welcome!

How to Play
  • Comment with your character and your preferences. It will also probably be beneficial for you to include information about your character's size for those who aren't familiar with your canon (ie, saying "big" or "small" or "tall" or "short" in the subject line, then extrapolating in the comment). Remember, though, there may always be someone bigger or smaller!
  • Comment to others.
  • Use the RNG to determine prompts or just go with the flow.

Prompts
  1. Cute: The difference between you and your partner is adorable and fluffy, complete with big spoon and little spoon cuddling, carrying, and head patting.
  2. Awkward: In some couplings, especially in heterosexual ones, there is an unfair expectation for one party to be taller than the other. When it's the reverse, you can sometimes get stares and cruel comments. But don't let that get you down.
  3. Inadequate: Because of your size, you feel embarrassed and afraid that the person you love might not love you.
  4. Don't Want to Hurt You: If the size difference is great, there can be a fear on the part of the bigger half of the couple that they might hurt the smaller half - especially in sex. How can you work around this problem?
  5. Weight: Your size difference is in weight, not height.
  6. Not What You Expect: In fiction and pop culture, the bigger partner is usually the dominant one. What if that's not the case in this pairing, though?
  7. HUGE Difference: It's not just a foot or so difference; it's YARDS. One of you is really big and the other is tiny. No matter what, the way you care for each other is giant.
  8. Aren't You Too Young?: The smaller partners can get confused for kids next to their bigger lovers, and that can be embarrassing. You want to prove to your partner that they need not worry about what other people say - you're sexy and very much not a kid (unless you are, I suppose).
  9. Benefits: Having a size difference in your relationship isn't all downsides. There are perks to having a partner who can pick you up, carry you, press you against the wall...basically, this is the hot size difference sex option.
  10. WILD CARD
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[personal profile] something_else 2016-08-04 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
[Sure. Start us off?]
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[personal profile] chosenbylightning 2016-08-04 03:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Train, patrol, train some more. Lather, rinse, repeat. Barry had to admit, he was getting better but he was also getting tired of getting his ass handed to him every time Ollie wanted to spar. The bruises might heal quickly, but after three days Barry was flat out exhausted. Tired. Beat. Stick a fork in him he's done kind of tired.

But not once did he complain. Not once. Oliver insisted on the training to help him and it was nice every once in a while to tease a smile out of him.

One of Cisco's nutrition bricks in hand, Barry unzips his suit jacket and takes off his cowl and gloves. Just a quick snack and he'll be ready to go. Or so he thinks. The fact that he's sitting on a cot means that the lure of the pillow is too strong to resist.

He smiles sleepily when he feels a weight behind him and Oliver pressing up against his back. Barry yawns hugely. "Jus' a few minutes an' I'm good."
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[personal profile] something_else 2016-08-05 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
"No, you're not. You're exhausted." Oliver states, laying down beside Barry. He knows, because he's tired as well. Keeping up with the fastest man on Earth was considerably challenging, and training him was considerably more difficult. Ollie sighs, and reaches over Barry, trying to playfully snag the nutrition brick away for a bite.
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[personal profile] chosenbylightning 2016-08-05 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
He's right. They're both exhausted and in need of a few solid hours of rest if they were going to be worth a damn for the rest of the day. Or night. Yeah, it's not a good sign when things start to blur together like that.

A strong arm snakes over him and it's a sure sign that Barry is tired when he doesn't speed it away from Oliver. "Hey!" It's only a half-hearted protest delivered with a smile as he rolls over to face him and poke him in the chest. "You could just ask you know."

Not that he's going to complain too much. It's nice to simply lay close to Oliver, to feel an arm around him and know that he's safe. So many people have left him, but he has faith that Oliver won't be one of those. He won't abandon or betray him.
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[personal profile] something_else 2016-08-07 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
The archer smirks at the protest. "I'll keep that in mind for next time." He's protective of Barry, no doubt there at all. It's kind of Oliver's signature characteristic, to be protective. Despite that, he's lost many people he cares about, and he blames himself for all of them. Barry is full of great potential, and he has no intention of losing him too. While Ollie isn't a meta human, he and Barry share a bond, they both use their gifts to help others. So, Barry is one of the few people Oliver can confide in.

"You're getting better."
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[personal profile] chosenbylightning 2016-08-08 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Oliver is really the best thing that's happened to Barry in a long time. He's helped him keep his head, helped him stay grounded and focused. The only reason he was a decent hero was because of him. Barry gives a sleepy snort, nuzzling at his jaw in order to try and distract him from stealing any more of his snack. "See? I respond a lot better to direction when I'm not getting shot."

Nope. Not going to let him forget that one.
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[personal profile] something_else 2016-08-09 04:52 pm (UTC)(link)
"You healed just fine." Oliver states, rolling his eyes, knowing Barry would never let him live that down. The plan worked, Oliver doesn't eat anymore of the snack, handing it back to Barry. He sighs sleepily and stretches a bit. Unlike Barry, Ollie doesn't heal quite so fast, and is going to need some time to recharge. He lets his arm rest protectively over Barry as he closes his eyes, fully intent on getting some sleep now.
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[personal profile] chosenbylightning 2016-08-09 05:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Barry can't help but smile at the fond exasperation, leaning to brush his lips along Oliver's. "Yeah I did." He'll finish later, content to curl in against his chest and shelter in the warmth of the arm around him.

Since the coma, Barry doesn't sleep as long as he used to. Four, five hours tops and he was up again. Just awake. No sleeping in, no being lazy in bed. So when he wakes, it's well ahead of Ollie and that's just fine with him. He can run gentle fingers along his jaw, across his arm and down his hand, mapping him out with touch alone.

Oliver would never leave him, would never abandon him like so many people had in his life. Eobard was wrong. He was happy. He was going to be happy as long as he had Ollie in his life.
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[personal profile] something_else 2016-08-09 05:46 pm (UTC)(link)
"Mmm..." Ollie woke a couple hours later, Barry of course was already awake, he wondered for how long. He felt Barry's hands and fingers move over him, across his arms and chest. He shifted and smirked sleepily, "That tickles." Barry might not have that initial sleepy feeling, but Oliver definitely did. His hair was messy now, and his eyes were squinting as they adjusted to the light.
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[personal profile] chosenbylightning 2016-08-09 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)
These were the moments Barry liked best. A sleepy, unguarded smile out of Ollie as he woke up. Untroubled and peaceful. So he can't exactly resist stealing a slow kiss. "Can't help it. You're nice to touch."
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[personal profile] something_else 2016-08-10 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
Oliver sighed happily with the kiss from Barry, and kissed back eventually. He wrapped his arms around Barry, pulling him on top of him. "Did I keep you waiting for long?" He knows well that Barry needs less sleep than him.
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[personal profile] chosenbylightning 2016-08-12 02:34 pm (UTC)(link)
For the record, the surprised squawk at being manhandled is completely and totally manly and Barry settles against him, a laugh bubbling out of him as he rearranges himself. Legs tangled together, resting his hands on Ollie's chest and his chin atop his hands.

"Not long. I was amusing myself while I waited."