Size kink is a kink or preference for a distinct difference in size, height, musculature or weight between two sexual partners.
It isn't too unusual for two people in a relationship to be of different sizes, be it height or weight or anything else of that nature; after all, it'd probably be more strange to see two people together with the exact same "specs," so to speak. What are the odds? Still, the difference isn't always pronounced.
Except, sometimes, when it is.
Some people find the difference cute or charming, while others are not such big fans. Whatever the case may be, there are benefits and drawbacks, all the same.
This meme is for playing out everything that comes with being in a relationship where one party is a different size than the other. All configurations are welcome!
How to Play- Comment with your character and your preferences. It will also probably be beneficial for you to include information about your character's size for those who aren't familiar with your canon (ie, saying "big" or "small" or "tall" or "short" in the subject line, then extrapolating in the comment). Remember, though, there may always be someone bigger or smaller!
- Comment to others.
- Use the RNG to determine prompts or just go with the flow.
Prompts- Cute: The difference between you and your partner is adorable and fluffy, complete with big spoon and little spoon cuddling, carrying, and head patting.
- Awkward: In some couplings, especially in heterosexual ones, there is an unfair expectation for one party to be taller than the other. When it's the reverse, you can sometimes get stares and cruel comments. But don't let that get you down.
- Inadequate: Because of your size, you feel embarrassed and afraid that the person you love might not love you.
- Don't Want to Hurt You: If the size difference is great, there can be a fear on the part of the bigger half of the couple that they might hurt the smaller half - especially in sex. How can you work around this problem?
- Weight: Your size difference is in weight, not height.
- Not What You Expect: In fiction and pop culture, the bigger partner is usually the dominant one. What if that's not the case in this pairing, though?
- HUGE Difference: It's not just a foot or so difference; it's YARDS. One of you is really big and the other is tiny. No matter what, the way you care for each other is giant.
- Aren't You Too Young?: The smaller partners can get confused for kids next to their bigger lovers, and that can be embarrassing. You want to prove to your partner that they need not worry about what other people say - you're sexy and very much not a kid (unless you are, I suppose).
- Benefits: Having a size difference in your relationship isn't all downsides. There are perks to having a partner who can pick you up, carry you, press you against the wall...basically, this is the hot size difference sex option.
- WILD CARD
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bakerstreet2016-08-03 06:56 pm
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[Things seemed to change so fast between Tanaka and Noya. It felt like one moment he was joking with Noya as usual in his room then the next they were kissing. Not that he minded very much. He wasn't sure when he started to notice Noya more than usual. When he took a cold shower after their practice matches or spent nights with his hand in his pants while Noya lingered in his mind. Even when he picked Noya up like he normally did it took a lot not to think about how good he felt in his arms. That day when Noya kissed him back he was happy to know that he wasn't alone. However, he came upon another problem. He didn't want to be too rough with him.
It's not like they didn't rough house before, but he could get carried away when they were together. He didn't want to do something that could hurt Noya. He wanted to pick him up and press him against the wall, but that wouldn't be too rough would it? It stayed on his mind even after practice. It wasn't until Noya poked his side that he looked down at his libero in his lap.]
What's up Yuu?
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but it felt like ryuu was treating him a little more... delicately when he never used to before. he had a pretty good feeling it was because he's small. (so immediately he was annoyed, since his small stature and slight frame gave him endless grief,) and he noticed it happening again- they start out rough and then it always ebbs into something softer.
soft was nice during the right time, but this was nishinoya and thus was ryuu- the least soft member on the karasuno team!
he wanted something wild!!
so it was time to approach this in the only way he knew how. once he got the other teen's attention he reached up to smoosh ryuu's cheeks between his palms.]
Ryuu.
[and in all seriousness.]
Why do you treat me like I'm a girl?
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[He knew Noya caught on, but how could he tell him that he didn't want to hurt him. Not like Noya couldn't handle when they were rough, but he didn't want to accidentally do something.]
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Look, I can handle anything! I feel you hesitate a lot when we're together- you never used to do that.
You don't need to hold back when we do... y'know. Intimate stuff.
I'm not gonna break, Ryuu.
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Yeah I know Yuu I just...I mean...[He hated the heat inching across his cheeks as he tried to get it out.]
I know you can handle it and that you're not going to break or anything. I just don't want to hurt you by mistake because I really care about you, you know? I guess I don't want to mess things up. [He quickly mumbled as he looked away. Man was that embarrassing to say out loud! At least it was out now.]
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You're bigger than I am sure. But that don't mean nothing, Ryuu.
[a slow and mischievous grin forming on his lips as he presses in closer, breath warm on ryuu's cheeks as he leans in to whisper hotly against the curve of his ear.]
...I like when we play rough.
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Oh? Really? You like when I'm rough, huh? [He nearly growled in a low tone as he pulled Yuu close to him. He moved to nuzzle Yuu's neck while his hands rubbed his hips. Ryuu hummed as he looked up at him.] I don't want to lose control though...