baitings ([personal profile] baitings) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2016-07-05 08:33 pm

Dominating, possessive


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❝ᴍʏ ᴡᴏᴍᴀɴ, ᴍɪɴᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴍɪɴᴇ ᴀʟᴏɴᴇ❞


In nature, animals can be territorial. This makes sense; it's a cutthroat world, and you have to keep what's yours just to survive. They keep a close watch on lands, food supplies, and even sometimes mates. Pet owners can tell you that this instinct doesn't just go away - try getting that chew toy from your poodle. But what about people? Aren't we just animals, too? But for us, possessiveness is not a good social trait to have. That's understandable. Nobody likes someone so hung up on owning things. Especially not owning their lovers, since you can't simply have another person like that.

Yet even the most benign, most monkish of souls have possessive streaks at some moments when it comes to the person they're sleeping with. It's only natural. Usually, it comes from jealousy. You like having what's yours (even if it's a cruel way to think about things, that's the reptile brain peeking through), and you'd want it to stay that way. That means you want to show up the competition and remind the object of your desires that you're the apple of their eye. Of course, possessiveness doesn't always come from jealousy. Some people are just very, very...how do we say it...protective of them and theirs. How can they help that they want to show that in intimate ways?

In relationships, possessiveness throughout isn't healthy; still, a little bit of it can be actually arousing, especially in the bedroom. Today, the hotel is awakening that side of characters: the part that wants to screw their partner mercilessly to show them that they are the ones to touch them, to love them, to fuck them.

But my character isn't the possessive type, you say? Really? Really? As we've mentioned before, even the most kindhearted types feel it every once and a while. This meme never mentioned that it had to be a HUGE show of possession. It can even be a playful attempt in order to get their partner going or try a new kink in bed. Or, you could say the "influences" made them do it.

After all, there's plenty of prompts here to influence you.

HOW TO PLAY
- Comment with your character and preferences. You also may want to include if your character is more or less likely to be the possessive or jealous party, but please note that all characters have the potential to be that in this meme. Otherwise, you'd get a lot of passive pillow queen characters to be fawned over so be mindful of that.
- Reply to others!



PROMPTS

HOW
1. Induced Jealousy: Whether by taunting or misunderstanding, one partner is jealous and wants to make sure their lover knows that they're the worthy - and only - one.
2. Insecurity: There's no outside source here, only self-worth issues that cause a need for possession.
3. Pushed by the Other: "Man up!" "Show me you want me!" "Grow a pair!" You can only take so much.
4. Making up for Losses: You can't be together outside the bedroom, so you have to make up for it here and you want the bed to be your domain.
5. Rivalry: People of a certain age will remember a certain song about rivalries. The boy/girl is yours.
6. Necessity: You live in a society where you must show a certain amount of possessiveness over your lover.
7. Nature: Breeding and mating urges, oh my!
8. In the Mood: No particular reason, you woke up feeling like a lion in their terrain.
9. Hate You...but Don't Want Anyone Else to Have You: What it says on the tin.
10. Virginity: You want to claim what no one else has, and that will be you and you only.
11. Playfulness: All this is simply fun between the two of you.
12. Cruelty: You want to humiliate your partner by reminding them that you're the one in charge here.
13. WILDCARD.


HOW
1. Intense, desperate sex (not necessarily rough).
2. Rough sex.
3. Marking - either discreet or in places that could easily be seen.
4. Clothing (jewelry, lingerie, slutty clothing, and in some cases, collars and other trappings).
5. Reminding your partner that only you can bring them this much pleasure (overstimulation).
6. Public or semi-public sex.
7. Cheating, cuckholding, or netorare - essentially showing your lover that they may not be with you, but you're the one who gets them off.
8. Orgasm or pleasure denial.
9. Non-consensual.
10. Making them say who they belong to / dirty talk.
11. WILDCARD.
murdocksboy: (build their castles with your blood)

[personal profile] murdocksboy 2016-09-15 06:55 pm (UTC)(link)
[ If anyone ever asked Matt to describe how he 'sees' the people he's acquainted with, it would be a struggle to explain. Each indiviual is a combination of sensory knowledge -- sounds and smells sometimes even tastes -- mixed in with memories and emotional response. They may have a physical shape, provided for him by the unique way his visual mind interprets the world around him now, but they're so much more than just an image.

Bucky isn't tall and brunette, he doesn't have blue eyes and a dimpled chin. He's power and quick fists, leather-scent and metal, the taste of blood and the sound of boots and a beating heart.

And now he's also heat and dominance and the smell of arousal and sweat. He's scraping teeth and ripped fabric and anticipation. And all Matt can think about is hot breath on his skin.

Matt's hands are still tangled in Bucky's hair, although he's nothing to try and impede his movement. Now, his fingers flex involuntarily before one hand drops to the soldier's shoulder, his palm skimming over unforgiving metal. ]


God, please don't tell me you're stopping there.
missionreport: (shortHair 016)

[personal profile] missionreport 2016-09-18 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
[The weird thing is he thinks he likes Matt's fingers curled in his hair, nails scrapping at his scalp. It goes against everything he was taught - don't let the enemy close enough to get a grip like that being the big one - and maybe it's because of that he doesn't jerk his head away. ]

I could and see how you like it. [Something that's almost a slow, amused smirk appears for a moment on Bucky's face, something that's his only - Matt can only hear whatever his heart is doing, his voice. But the expression on his face is his and only his in this one room, with this one man] What if someone comes at you and does this?

[His hand suddenly travels down to fondle Matt's cock through his sweatpants; rough, probably isn't too fun, but he isn't squeezing to incapacitate either. His middle finger presses along the underside of his balls, applying a steady pressure]

Maybe someone wises up one day and figures out just how sensitive you are. What then, Murdock?
murdocksboy: (pic#10346055)

[personal profile] murdocksboy 2016-09-19 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
You've got to be kidding me.

[ The words come gasping at the rough handling, a touch that manages to stay right at that edge of uncomfortable, that ought to have him retreating but doesn't quite. Matt's hips twist as he tries to find a way get the kind of stimulation he wants, his hands clenching on tangled hair and far less forgiving metal.

Maybe it shouldn't have come as a surprise that Bucky would turn even this into a lesson, seeing as they never technically stopped the lesson he had been teaching. So there's three that Matt's learned now, in the space of a few short minutes. Stick's methods have nothing on the way HYDRA's techniques keep you off balance. ]


I think I'm willing to trade a stabbing for a handjob. [ It's almost embarrassing how impossible it is to keep his voice steady. Is the point for him to fight back again? Is it even possible to catch the soldier off guard a second time? Because what he'd really like is to go back to where Bucky's mouth was on his skin. ]
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[personal profile] missionreport 2016-09-21 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
I know I don't sound like I'm kidding.

[A few trainees had tried it back when he was with HYDRA, thinking they could catch the Winter Soldier off-guard. Mostly they got broken noses and fractured ribs for the trouble and those were the ones he'd been ordered to go easy on. It's a tactic that could be used if someone decides to get creative and with Matt's sensitivities showing their true colors, it'll be plenty effective. His hips turn and buck, Matt trying to maneuver himself and he's not exactly thinking with his upstairs brain as much as he wants.

Bucky's scalp burns as the lawyer's grip tightens on his hair, pulling now, brief spots of pain popping up here and there in clumps
]

You got a better chance of fighting back with a handjob.

[At least he won't be bleeding out all over the place. Bucky's eyes lock on Matt's face, watching discomfort warring with pleasure, the lawyer's jaw clenching. His finger strokes with even more pressure than before, his palm gliding along his limp shaft. He uses his other hand to tilt Matt's chin, head to the side as if he's appraising what he sees]

Go on. Figure out how you'd get out of this. [Matt should be prepared for all scenarios. The thing is, he almost catches himself hoping the guy fails and he could show him how far this could go. From Matt's reactions, it seems like he's curious, too]