heavypetting ([personal profile] heavypetting) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2016-06-23 06:17 pm

Absence makes the heart grow fonder or something along those lines

Long-Distance Relationship Meme

a romantic relationship between two people who live far apart and so are unable to meet on a frequent basis.


What to do if the person you're with...isn't with you? They could be living a town over, across the world, or even across the universe. However, living with you may not be off the table for them; instead, it possibly could be a time to time affair. Most of the time, though, they're off somewhere else and quite busy: working hard to advance their career, playing with their band, leading a revolution, whatever their passion of choice may be. You've come to terms with the distance between you, no matter its origin. And on that note, you're determined to do your best and make this work, despite how much you have to rely on any sort of communication aside from face to face.

Of course, what this all means is that you've got to make up for lost time and make every second you do have when they drop by count. What exactly that entails is up to you. Romance? Fun? Sex? Just being close or hanging out together? In your almost constantly parallel lives, any intersection is good enough.

  • You know what to do. Comment with your character, info, prefs, wishes, desires, limits (serious only, fluffy preferred, no smut, humor encouraged, etc.)
  • What aspects of a long-distance relationship do you want to play: the communicating between far-flung parties or the times spent together? Leave that in your comment too.
  • Reply to others and do a thread.
sketchycharacter: (sketchy)

Nathan Drake | Uncharted | m/f

[personal profile] sketchycharacter 2016-06-23 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
thesefirststeps: (Default)

Rey | SW:TFA | OTA

[personal profile] thesefirststeps 2016-06-24 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Up for most things, really (serious, fluff, smut, humor, communications or meetings. I'm into it all.]
jrey: (Chillin)

Jessie Reynolds/OC/OTA pref F/F

[personal profile] jrey 2016-06-24 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
((She's up for almost anything))
imahologram: (twelve.)

leia organa | star wars | ota

[personal profile] imahologram 2016-06-24 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
[esp. interested in navigating time apart, either when it's about to happen or already going on, but time spent together is welcome, too!

gen relationships also welcome, because leia is a busy woman, lmao. no matter who you are, you probably have a ldr with her part of the time.]
unlikelycalamities: (☀ we ran through the graveyard)

Beau Swan || Life and Death: Twilight

[personal profile] unlikelycalamities 2016-06-24 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
[OOC: Good with whatever.]
morally_cryptic: (Default)

Anakin Skywalker | Star Wars | OTA

[personal profile] morally_cryptic 2016-06-24 06:53 am (UTC)(link)
[gen or shipping is okay. AU or canon is fine. ]

Shimizu Kiyoko || Haikyu!

[personal profile] ex_crowgirl624 2016-06-24 12:31 pm (UTC)(link)
[OTA for gen, m/f for ship.]
upadly_aniol: (so that's a Mouri)

Mitsunari Ishida | Sengoku Basara | ota

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straw_girl: (pic#10381482)

Farah Oersted | Tales of Eternia | OTA

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generalginger: gazgraphics (011)

General Hux | Star Wars | ota

[personal profile] generalginger 2016-06-24 05:03 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc: fine with canon or au, gen and shippy things okay too]
forcefullyunstable: (remorseful)

Long distance relationship via holo-recordings?

[personal profile] forcefullyunstable 2016-06-24 05:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Incoming message:

Sorry I haven't written in two weeks. Supreme Leader Snoke sent me to an ancient temple to find a powerful dark side amulet. Something to aid in my training. Reception is terrible in those places. Don't think anything's been alive down there in centuries. Except the vines. Which I'm now pretty sure were poisonous.

... I miss you.

Do you miss me?
generalginger: gazgraphics (012)

yes, excellent!

[personal profile] generalginger 2016-06-24 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
[It's late and a reasonable person would be sleeping, but Hux always has too much work to do, and that's more true now than ever. Receiving a holo-recording from Ren is actually a pleasant surprise, enough that he takes a break in his work to respond:]

I know you're busy with your training, so I don't expect to hear from you every cycle. Have you had any success? I hope your training is going well. A couple more worlds recently swore their allegiance to the First Order, and our focus as of late has been squashing the small pockets of the Resistance supporters there.

I do. Miss you.

It's too quiet around here as of late.

[It takes a lot to admit that, but at least there's been no issues with destroyed consuls in Ren's absence.]
forcefullyunstable: (falling)

[personal profile] forcefullyunstable 2016-06-25 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
[fortunately, Ren was far from a reasonable person as well. That, and sleep deprivation was expected more often than not. So Hux would get a fairly quick reply message.]

Exhausting. I succeeded in retrieving the amulet, but he does not feel I have earned the privilege of using it. Not yet... I fear it may be some time before I am permitted to return. You may have to endure the quiet and the empty bed for a little while longer.

If you find the scavenger girl among the sympathizers,leave her for me. I have a personal score to settle.

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Marie Kreutz l The Bourne Series l OTA

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Sofia Sinclair l OC l OTA

[personal profile] esatru 2016-06-25 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
[Likely a video/phone call between worlds/countries, but open to other means of communication too! Relationship can be romantic or platonic, even. Run it by me if you're unsure]
bountifully: (026)

[personal profile] bountifully 2016-06-26 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
( A romantic relationship between people whose responsibilities keep them worlds apart for months at a time is not an easy thing. Idunn may not have trouble pouring herself into her research for days at a time without a regret, but the moment she returns to whatever lodging she is using during her stay, she feels a gloomy sense of loneliness. The nightly video calls are all that keep Idunn from sulking all evening, even if they fail to squash the feeling of longing.

Unfortunately for her tonight, she is running late by almost half an hour. Idunn normally takes time to make herself presentable before singing in to see Sofia, but not tonight. As the program logs on, she takes the few moments to get her hair under control after sprinting here after realizing how late she was. That is the best she can manage for now, she thinks...but she quickly undoes the top few buttons of her blouse.

Idunn crosses her fingers as the program finishes connecting, hoping that Sofia is still there waiting. She doesn't doubt the woman is, but...well, if Sofia gave up, then it would serve Idunn right for being late. She is feeling guilty.
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Sofia?

[personal profile] esatru 2016-06-29 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
[Sofia wasn't so different in how she felt about the way she's always apart from Idunn. Sometimes it is even difficult to sleep without the reassurance that the woman she loves is doing okay, wherever she is. It doesn't help that Sofia is often sent to dangerous places. The thought of worrying those close to her makes her feel a little guilty as well. When Idunn was running late, Sofia briefly wondered what kept her partner from showing up on time. Nagging thoughts begin to flood her conscious mind, making Sofia feel antsy. She tried to calm her mind as she waits, hoping Idunn would log in sooner rather than later. Minutes pass and Sofia feels herself being lulled to sleep by the hurricane winds and muffled rain trickling against the tent she's staying in.

But when a familiar sound blared from her tablet's speakers, Sofia felt a jolt from within her self, prodding her awake and stare at the screen with weary eyes. Once she realizes it wasn't a dream, she drives her finger to press the "Accept Call" button on the screen, even clicking her tongue twice when the program was being sluggish. Sofia's first reaction was a wide and bright smile across her cheeks, having her spirits lifted by the sight of her girlfriend. Sofia wasn't wearing anything fancy. Rather she's wearing her favorite baggy shirt, her reading glasses, and have her hair up in a little messy bun. Just how she looks like whenever they're home together
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H-Hey! Idunn! You're here!

[That wasn't what she intended to say. In fact earlier, Sofia was thinking of more charming things to say to Idunn, just to make the other woman smile or laugh. But her joy and stresses of the day made whatever ideas she cooked up fly out the window]

Can you hear me alright? The storm is pretty bad where I'm in...
bountifully: (029)

[personal profile] bountifully 2016-07-02 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
( Seeing Sofia's face, even through a screen, is all Idunn needs to smile. There is an ache as she thinks of being there to drag the exhausted woman to bed or having Sofia's head in her lap while on the couch. But she still feels a warmth knowing Sofia hadn't given up or fallen asleep. Seeing Sofia so...normal charms Idunn more than anything clever could. )

Oh...Yes, I can hear you fine for the moment.

( It seems tonight is going to be the perfect combination of things conspiring to interrupt their call. She hopes the storm doesn't interrupt the call, not after running late and keeping Sofia awake. )

You look exhausted. Did you have a long day or is the storm scaring you that much?

( She teases Sofia in hopes of getting herself to relax a bit after worrying all the way here. )

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Rey || Star Wars: The Force Awakens || OTA

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[ooc: OTA for gen, F/M for shipping.]
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Tony Stark | MCU | OTA

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Re: Tony Stark | MCU | OTA

[personal profile] feels_taller 2016-06-26 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
The phone sitting on Tony's desk rings. "Back in Black" blares in a tiny tone and the screen says one name. STEVE. What Tony does next is up to him.
hisgreatestcreation: (Default)

Re: Tony Stark | MCU | OTA

[personal profile] hisgreatestcreation 2016-06-26 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
What is Tony supposed to do? Not answering is always an option, and let's be real avoidance should be Tony's middle name. The problem is.... it's Steve.... he should be royally pissed, and oh man was he ever. There was a kernel of a though niggling in the back of his mind. What if Steve was in trouble.

"Dammit," He pushed the button to answer but didn't speak.

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Miles Upshur | Outlast | OTA

[personal profile] milesupshore 2016-06-26 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
[Ota for gen and shipping yo. Also he probably disappears over long stretches of time. Life of an investigative journalist man.]
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[personal profile] ex_grower692 2016-06-27 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
They never knew when they were going to find each other; that sort of tension was fine by Chris - he kind of liked the subtle ache in his chest whenever he wondered where Miles was and what he was up to and when they would finally meet face to face. Maybe it wouldn't happen, though; he had started flirting with Miles in a chat room when he was seventeen, and he'd only come clean about that on his nineteenth birthday, when he realized he liked Miles more than his flirtations gave away.

He'd been initially bored, but once Chris dropped out of school and took to wandering, Miles proved to be one of his few connections to the social world. Miles's schedule made it hard to stay consistently in touch, but Chris liked to surprise him with little messages now and then.

Today, he was sending Miles a selfie of himself in the grass with a St. Bernard, a bright grin plastered on Chris's face.

What do you think? Is he handsome or is he handsome?
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[personal profile] milesupshore 2016-06-27 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
It had all started because Miles had been investigating someone. Snooping around their every day life, part of which consisted of frequent visits to a certain chatroom. Chris actually had nothing to do with the guy, as far as he was aware, but he had talked to everyone who visited chat at least once to glean some information. It just so happened that Chris was the only one he spoke to more than once. Even after shameless flirting back and forth (and Miles was big on shameless flirting) he never told Chris that, mostly to keep things from getting complicated. He went about his job in unconventional ways that got him fired from a reputable company - the reason he went into freelance. The things he did in the name of "truth" weren't always legal.

Point being, as far as Chris is concerned Miles is just an extraordinarily busy investigative journalist, which was the truth really. Some feelings complicated things more than he cared for, though. He would disappear for weeks at a time, even a month at one point, unable to take his mind off his work long enough to send a message. There was also that whole incident at Mt. Massive that he kept to himself. He didn't even tell Chris that he's missing two of his fingers. Nope, as far as he's concerned he gets wrapped up in work and eventually resurfaces unchanged.

There's a smile tugging at his lips as he sees the text, lowering the screen of his laptop so as not to distract him from answering.

Completely handsome. The dog isn't so bad either.

It wasn't like Miles didn't want to meet Chris. He just didn't want Chris to meet him. The worn, tired, usually at least half drunk, mess of a man he's become was sure to be a disappointment to the "put together" journalist he pretends to be. It's easy to maintain that when you're not face to face. His often dark humor comes across as just that over text and the phone. In person it just shows the depressing, bitter mess he grew to be.

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