THE POSSESSIVE SEX MEME

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THE POSSESSIVE SEX MEME

In nature, animals can be territorial. This makes sense; it's a cutthroat world, and you have to keep what's yours just to survive. They keep a close watch on lands, food supplies, and even sometimes mates. Pet owners can tell you that this instinct doesn't just go away - try getting that chew toy from your poodle. But what about people? Aren't we just animals, too? But for us, possessiveness is not a good social trait to have. That's understandable. Nobody likes someone so hung up on owning things. Especially not owning their lovers, since you can't simply have another person like that.

Yet even the most benign, most monkish of souls have possessive streaks at some moments when it comes to the person they're sleeping with. It's only natural. Usually, it comes from jealousy. You like having what's yours (even if it's a cruel way to think about things, that's the reptile brain peeking through), and you'd want it to stay that way. That means you want to show up the competition and remind the object of your desires that you're the apple of their eye. Of course, possessiveness doesn't always come from jealousy. Some people are just very, very...how do we say it...protective of them and theirs. How can they help that they want to show that in intimate ways?

In relationships, possessiveness throughout isn't healthy; still, a little bit of it can be actually arousing, especially in the bedroom. Today, the hotel is awakening that side of characters: the part that wants to screw their partner mercilessly to show them that they are the ones to touch them, to love them, to fuck them.

But my character isn't the possessive type, you say? Really? Really? As we've mentioned before, even the most kindhearted types feel it every once and a while. This meme never mentioned that it had to be a HUGE show of possession. It can even be a playful attempt in order to get their partner going or try a new kink in bed. Or, you could say the "influences" made them do it.

After all, there's plenty of prompts here to influence you.

HOW TO PLAY
- Comment with your character and preferences. You also may want to include if your character is more or less likely to be the possessive or jealous party, but please note that all characters have the potential to be that in this meme. Otherwise, you'd get a lot of passive pillow queen characters to be fawned over so be mindful of that.
- Reply to others!

PROMPTS

HOW

1. Induced Jealousy: Whether by taunting or misunderstanding, one partner is jealous and wants to make sure their lover knows that they're the worthy - and only - one.
2. Insecurity: There's no outside source here, only self-worth issues that cause a need for possession.
3. Pushed by the Other: "Man up!" "Show me you want me!" "Grow a pair!" You can only take so much.
4. Making up for Losses: You can't be together outside the bedroom, so you have to make up for it here and you want the bed to be your domain.
5. Rivalry: People of a certain age will remember a certain song about rivalries. The boy/girl is yours.
6. Necessity: You live in a society where you must show a certain amount of possessiveness over your lover.
7. Nature: Breeding and mating urges, oh my!
8. In the Mood: No particular reason, you woke up feeling like a lion in their terrain.
9. Hate You...but Don't Want Anyone Else to Have You: What it says on the tin.
10. Virginity: You want to claim what no one else has, and that will be you and you only.
11. Playfulness: All this is simply fun between the two of you.
12. Cruelty: You want to humiliate your partner by reminding them that you're the one in charge here.
13. WILDCARD.

HOW

1. Intense, desperate sex (not necessarily rough).
2. Rough sex.
3. Marking - either discreet or in places that could easily be seen.
4. Clothing (jewelry, lingerie, slutty clothing, and in some cases, collars and other trappings).
5. Reminding your partner that only you can bring them this much pleasure (overstimulation).
6. Public or semi-public sex.
7. Cheating, cuckholding, or netorare - essentially showing your lover that they may not be with you, but you're the one who gets them off.
8. Orgasm or pleasure denial.
9. Non-consensual.
10. Making them say who they belong to / dirty talk.
11. WILDCARD.

Comments

[nukeoleptic]

Doesn't saying how kind of defeat the purpose, Stiles?

[ She leaned in, lips to his chin. ]

[teenyoda]

No? You want me to do something, you kind of have to tell me what it is.

[nukeoleptic]

[ She rolled her eyes, leaning in to sharply nip his ear, breaking character to whisper: ] Just say yes, Stiles.

[teenyoda]

Oh. Okay. Uh, yes.

[Shh, he was slow, Jade.]

[nukeoleptic]

[ She grinned, maybe a little more wolfishly than usual, before leaning up to press a hard and hungry kiss against his mouth. She backed up, then, snagging his t-shirt from where she'd dropped it onto the floor with one hand and taking his hand with the other. ]

Not too attached to this shirt, I hope.

[ Idly, as she led him to the bedroom. ]

[teenyoda]

Um...

[It was off him, so why would she do anything to it? But he was curious, dragged along behind her into the bedroom and sporting the weirdest confusion boner ever.]

[nukeoleptic]

[ She gave him a push toward the bed after releasing his hand, drifting into the bathroom and reappearing a few moments later wielding a small pair of scissors. And then, without so much as a glance his way, she sliced the shirt, from bottom to neck hem. ]

[teenyoda]

[He felt the shove, moving over to sit on the bed and watching her disappear. Then reappear with scissors. Okay, confusion boner fading, fear rising.]

Hey! What the hell?

[nukeoleptic]

I'm not tearing up one of the sheets just to make a blindfold.

[ Said cheerfully. She finishes cutting a wide strip, tugging on the fabric to test its strength, and bites her lip again to keep from laughing at his expression. ]

[teenyoda]

Why are you making a blindfold?

[He's watching what used to be his shirt get reduced to rags.]

Why couldn't you have used a towel?

[Sulk.]

[nukeoleptic]

[ The look she shoots him is level. ]

If you keep asking questions I'm gonna make a gag out of it, too.

[teenyoda]

[Why was the confusion boner back? God, he was so... confused.]

But...

[nukeoleptic]

[ She rolled her eyes, moving over to kneel next to him on the bed. ]

Shhhh. Gimme a kiss.

[teenyoda]

[She was in a weird mood and he really didn't want to be the one to point that out to her. But hey, a kiss was something he could do. So he did.]

[nukeoleptic]

[ Jade grinned a little into the kiss; he didn't need to point out that she was in a playful and possessive mood, because she was entirely aware. But he'd hardly ever spooked with it came to anything intimate, and she nudged her nose against his and bit softly at his lip, before leaning back and fashioning the strip of shirt like a blindfold over his eyes.

She pushes her lips to his ear again, fond, and asked quietly: ]

Still trust me?

[teenyoda]

[It was easy to forget about any weirdness when she was kissing him like that. But then the strip of cloth was over his eyes and he felt his pulse pick up a bit. He wasn't really afraid, but he was wondering where this was all going.

And he was still incredibly turned on.]

Yes.

[nukeoleptic]

Good. 'Cause I'm gonna tie your hands up next, okay?

[ She nipped quickly and lightly at the front of his throat, humming pleasantly as she did. ]

So don't move. I don't wanna accidentally make it too tight.

[teenyoda]

But... then I can't touch you?

[Not that it didn't make his dick jump in his pants. Okay, something was clearly up. And why was it still so hot?]

[nukeoleptic]

Poor baby.

[ Her weight was shifting on the bed as she crawled behind him, reaching to grab and tug at his arms. ]

[teenyoda]

[There was a brief moment of hesitation, then he let her move his arms, seeing where this went. If all else failed, he could burn through the ties, so...]

Yes, I am.

[nukeoleptic]

You act like a baby sometimes.

[ She leaned in as she finished binding his wrists, nuzzling against the back of his neck before sliding off the bed. ]

Will you stay here for a second while I go finish getting ready?

[teenyoda]

Do not.

[Did too. He moved his head, trying to see if he could, well, see anything.]

Uh, what are you, ah, planning on doing? If you're jugglign chainsaws, I'm not sure I should be here for this.

[nukeoleptic]

[ She sounded exasperated from the doorway. ]

Remember that trust thing? Stay there.

[teenyoda]

I can't exactly go anywhere all blindfolded and tied up, can I?

[nukeoleptic]

You might find a way.

[ And Jade is gone for a good three minutes. There's an odd sort of clinking as she sets something onto the bedside table, but then it's not long before her weight settles into his lap. ]

Hey.