asoftermeme: (Default)
A Softer Meme ([personal profile] asoftermeme) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2026-06-10 07:53 pm

That boy is a bottom



top or bottom | a high-concept, highbrow meme



don't front. you know exactly what this is.

the rundown
1. for numerous, cosmically complex reasons that form a domino effect — or just because it's fucking hilarious — an unknown force has compelled your character to admit if they're top or a bottom. some will try to lie and immediately be corrected (humiliation is probable). others will be honest. all will be revealed.
2. others express their interest, disinterest, shock, awkward downward spiral. have a casual conversation. hook up! live, laugh, love!
3. if you leave a blank top comment i will literally come piss on your computer.
4. switches are important and valid.

denyingit: (We're shattering the silence)

Rumi | KPop Demon Hunters | OTA

[personal profile] denyingit 2026-06-11 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
Neither. I'm a switch.

[Or at least she confidently thinks so??? It's true too, might deny anything about enjoying being the bottom a bit more... ANYWAY.]

Sometimes [or fine, maybe more often than sometimes] even a bossy switch.

[She's 23-24, so 20+ OTA. Castmates (especially JINUS), crosscanon, crossmedium, assumed CR, AUs, OCs etc all always welcome!]
commingle: <lj user=gradschool> (pic#18484696)

Christopher "Kip" Grady | Heated Rivalry

[personal profile] commingle 2026-06-11 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Switch.

But if someone told me I had to pick between the two, I kind of prefer topping.
againstheboards: (uh oh)

[personal profile] againstheboards 2026-06-11 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
I do not think I wanted to know this about Hunter. But good for you.

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thequeenofdragons: (Image357)

Daenerys Targaryen | Game Of Thrones | OTA

[personal profile] thequeenofdragons 2026-06-11 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Switch but you'll do what I tell you to do.

[Whatever the term for that is, she doesn't know it, but sure sounds bossy and confident as hell. No incest but otherwise castmates, crosscanon, crossmedium, assumed CR, AUs, OCs etc all always welcome!]
lost_and_foundry: (headtilt)

Barcus Wroot | Baldur's Gate 3

[personal profile] lost_and_foundry 2026-06-11 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
Vers. And switch.

Often, it depends on the size difference between me and my partner. Dwarves often seem convinced they'll break me in half. [Silly things. He's a gnome, not a china doll.]
againstheboards: (uh oh)

Ilya Rozanov | Heated Rivalry | OTA

[personal profile] againstheboards 2026-06-11 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
Top.
janehollander: (18460823)

[personal profile] janehollander 2026-06-11 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Have you ever....you know. Tried the other way?

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nomadicflame: (the shape of binding)

phyre | bloodlines 2 | ota

[personal profile] nomadicflame 2026-06-11 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
I have survived inquisitions with greater dignity than this.

[He folds his arms in front of him with a furrow of his brow.]

The interesting part is not what I enjoy. The interesting part is whether I care who I am sharing it with.

I prefer to satisfy my partner. If I have chosen to share that sort of intimacy with someone, then their happiness matters to me. Whatever role they wish for me to fill, I will gladly occupy it. That is my answer: whichever makes my partner smile afterward.
janehollander: (18427205)

Shane Hollander | Heated Rivalry

[personal profile] janehollander 2026-06-11 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
...Bottom.
suspectratio: (( 91 ))

[personal profile] suspectratio 2026-06-11 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
Nice. Good shit.

You know, it takes a real man to own up to something like that. I'm proud of you, my guy.

( and he gives a thumbs up to show that he means business. )
sparkbite: (out of where they rest their necks)

sebek zigvolt | twisted wonderland | m/m 16+

[personal profile] sparkbite 2026-06-11 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
I am...whatever Wakasama wants me to be!
some_things_survive: (Default)

the convict (Simon) | iron lung

[personal profile] some_things_survive 2026-06-11 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
- I’ve slept in either bunk?

[he maybe doesn’t understand this game.]
smartass_captain: (Oh boy)

[personal profile] smartass_captain 2026-06-11 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
[Don't mind one captain leaning over to whisper some hole goal explanations of what this little Q&A is about.]

...Got it?

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rituale: turtleduck (014)

mercy craft ( original )

[personal profile] rituale 2026-06-11 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a switch. [ a beat. ] But I love dick, so I like to bottom.

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hollzy: (smile)

Shane Hollander | Heated Rivalry | OTA

[personal profile] hollzy 2026-06-11 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure this applies to me? I'm straight.
rozanov81: (18256916)

[personal profile] rozanov81 2026-06-11 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Are you going to say this once you take my cock out of your mouth too?

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convalesces: (You don't see me...)

Conrad Achenleck | Hanna Is Not A Boy's Name 🦇

[personal profile] convalesces 2026-06-11 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
I'm, well... I could be the top, I guess? But I prefer a confident partner who can take control... So I'm okay with being the bottom, too. I don't know, does that make sense?
returnofthemark: (pic#14097634)

dean winchester (demon) | spn | m/f

[personal profile] returnofthemark 2026-06-11 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
"Power top" is a thing, right?
raviolo: (009)

Ravi Panikkar | 9-1-1 | OTA

[personal profile] raviolo 2026-06-11 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
Switch. Happy to adjust to my partner's preference, though.
sweetabatina: (Profile)

[personal profile] sweetabatina 2026-06-11 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
Very convenient, I'd say.

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hugpup: (11)

rex | i was a teenage exocolonist | ota

[personal profile] hugpup 2026-06-11 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
Verse, all the way. I'm just a guy with di-verse tastes, y'know?
Edited 2026-06-11 02:36 (UTC)
smallcomfort: (aheh)

Hanatarou Yamada // BLEACH // ota

[personal profile] smallcomfort 2026-06-11 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think there's any real mystery there...
terribangs: (pic#18425422)

[personal profile] terribangs 2026-06-11 08:26 am (UTC)(link)
My, I *knew* you'd be a top, Shinigami-san~
gobosei: (AS_5029)

abe no seimei | a terrified teacher at ghoul school | ota

[personal profile] gobosei 2026-06-11 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
I once overheard somebody say that I had the aura of a top, but I'm actually bottom?

[ Not canon. A fan did say it once, and it lives rent-free as a bold statement.

But yeah, this guy is a bottom. ]
terribangs: (pic#18425433)

[personal profile] terribangs 2026-06-11 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
Who'd ever set a claim like that in the world?
penguinbaby: (7)

Hazuki Nagisa | Free! | M/M

[personal profile] penguinbaby 2026-06-11 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
I’ll do anything as long as it’s fun!

Hmmmmm, but top is easier. I get impatient if someone takes too long…
wreckitroth: (Default)

Malroth | Dragon Quest Builders 2

[personal profile] wreckitroth 2026-06-11 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
...Of what, the food chain? Or are you making a power chart? Of course I'm right on top!
shadowfrost: (13)

[personal profile] shadowfrost 2026-06-11 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
That's not quite what that means.

lmaaaao valid

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goeieio: (pic#18462161)

Yaku Morisuke | Haikyuu!! | OTA

[personal profile] goeieio 2026-06-11 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Okay so first of all, shut the fuck up.
pluviosus: (015)

rain ▽ ghost

[personal profile] pluviosus 2026-06-11 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Oh. Well. You know.

{ A vague gesture.

He's very clearly a bottom.
}
lyceius: (INDULGENCE)

[personal profile] lyceius 2026-06-11 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
Many are very well acquainted with your preferences, Rain. Quite well crafted for it, are you not?
meds4sale: (Contemplating)

Ri!Kusuriuri | Mononoke (2007)

[personal profile] meds4sale 2026-06-11 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
Technically versatile. But.

Rather

picky

about who I will let take the lead in the real performance.
nomadicflame: (a covenant of night and will)

[personal profile] nomadicflame 2026-06-11 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
You speak as if you are not discerning about who is invited to the performance.

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sobakasukarasu: (Default)

Yamaguchi Tadashi | Haikyuu!! | OTA

[personal profile] sobakasukarasu 2026-06-11 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
…Probably the opposite of what you think…
mollified: (Default)

Isabella O'Rourke | OC | OTA 21+

[personal profile] mollified 2026-06-11 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
Bottom, but I think you should define how you're using the term.
outintheopen: (pic#18311365)

Scott Hunter | Game Changers/Heated Rivalry

[personal profile] outintheopen 2026-06-11 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, I don't mind either? Whatever my partner and I are feeling at the time.

But, uh, I guess if someone made me choose, I'd have to say... bottom.
sweetabatina: (Profile)

[personal profile] sweetabatina 2026-06-11 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not going to make you choose, but I am going to get you to tell me what you want.

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