indecisivesock ([personal profile] indecisivesock) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2026-02-26 12:21 pm

Late one night you dug me out of my grave

the hurt/comfort meme


In order to avoid long extrapolation, I'll say one thing: I've noticed that people like what I call "h/c shipping kink." Kink may not be the right word - sex need not be involved - but essentially, crappy things happen to our characters in their crapsack worlds in canon all the time. Sometimes, we like to see them happy. Or relatively happier. And less evil and more adjusted, for those of us who play those types. It's all very self-indulgent.

And, as you can tell from my username, I'm going to be compiling memes that have, for some reason, got micromanaged into ridiculous niches when they should all be under one umbrella. This first project is to wrangle up all the "caretaking" themed shipping memes. Basically, one character cares for the other, be it physically, emotionally, or otherwise. There is also shipping.

The end goal is to weed down redundant memes and, maybe, make this an all-purpose post!

HOW TO PLAY
  • You know the protocol.
  • Comment with your characters and preferences. Also, be sure to include whether your character would be the caretaker, the cared for, or if you can play either.
  • Reply to others.



PROMPTS
  1. Physically Hurt: The traditional h/c scenario. Your partner is hurt, and you break out the bandages to patch them up and give them a shoulder to lean on. May also come with the Florence Nightingale effect, where the "patient" falls in love with the "nurse" thanks to their care.
  2. Emotionally Hurt: You can't put bandages on wounded egos and souls, but you can try your best.
  3. Illness: You're with someone who's sick - maybe even with a long-term, chronic, or mortal illness.
  4. Trauma: Like emotional hurt, this is not an easy cure, and it's even deeper. There will also be blowback on the one trying to care for their traumatized loved one.
  5. Mortality: You're struggling with the fact that one partner may die sooner than the other because of lifestyle or species reasons.
  6. The One Left Behind: One side of the ship is the person left at home to wait and worry.
  7. Triumphant Return: They're finally back and in one piece! Celebrate in the way you two deem best.
  8. Changed by Your Love: You're finding yourself a better person now that you're with them.
  9. Pulled from Depression: You saw no reason to live before you met them.
  10. Physical Protector/Bodyguard: It started out as protection. It became more.
  11. Pure/Impure: You two have varying alignments and varying experiences. Does this affect your relationship?
  12. Remember: Or actually, you can't. You've lost everything about your identity, including your past memories. Needless to say, you may cling to the one person who's helping you. You also may not want to remember your old life.
  13. In a Bad Situation: You're in a dangerous scenario - being hunted, prisoners, bruised and beaten and brought to a strange place - and all you have to rely on is each other. You've been thrown into the fire together and you have to survive.
  14. Inexperienced: Whether it be in romance, sex, or the world in general, one part of the pairing is teaching the other part the ropes. This can encompass so-called "innocence kinks" or age differences.
  15. I Thought I Lost You: Their injuries were so substantial that you thought they were done for. Now, you have to deal with your own emotional
  16. Gentle, Loving Smut: AKA sexual healing and all gentle smut memes or memes that focus on emotional attachment.
  17. Bad Sexual Experience: Similar to the above option, but including sexual baggage that one partner must prove does not always apply.
  18. Trust Issues: One of you has a hard time trusting the other. There may be jealousy involved here.
  19. Unexpected Caretaker: You'd think the sweet one would take care of the dour one, but it's the opposite way around. This is the "surly badasses take care of the one they love" option.
  20. Unwillingly Cared For: You don't need to be coddled. They should leave you alone!
  21. Hurt by You: You have to pick up the pieces of what you've done, thanks to an argument or your temper.
  22. Draining: Caring for them is damaging you and your relationship with them.
  23. Mutually Beneficial: There's not one set "caretaker." You both look out for each other.
denyingit: (But you can't hide)

Rumi | KPop Demon Hunters | OTA

[personal profile] denyingit 2026-02-26 06:43 pm (UTC)(link)
[Either role or somehow a mutual thing. OTA gen/platonic, anything more serious 20+ OTA! Castmates (especially JINUS and her girls), crosscanon, crossmedium, assumed CR, AUs, OCs etc all always welcome!]
the_gunsmith: icon by @recadreuse (gentleman)

[personal profile] the_gunsmith 2026-02-27 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
[OOC: Wanna try anything with this guy, who knows QUITE A LOT about injuries/being injured and also demons and suchlike?]
what_the_hey: (looking down)

clark kent / superman || superman (2025) || ota

[personal profile] what_the_hey 2026-02-26 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
(ooc; most likely caretaker, but open to either role. happy to au things up.)
fuck1ngusernam3: (Default)

Hank Anderson | Detroit: Become Human

[personal profile] fuck1ngusernam3 2026-02-26 07:09 pm (UTC)(link)
[Gen preferred, and let's keep any assumed CR to 'they only know each other a little' or 'casual friends'. As for caretaking, either role works! If Hank's the one who needs help I'm thinking illness, panic attack, exhaustion, or injury, but let me know if anything else feels fun!]
instabilitatem: (101)

15 rooftop!

[personal profile] instabilitatem 2026-02-27 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
[Hank tells Connor not to press forward to capture the deviant. In fact, Hank orders Connor not to do so, but Connor dives around the corner of the ventilation unit all the same. He's already bleeding from his shoulder and yet he keeps moving. They can't lose this opportunity to find Jericho and Connor can always be destroyed and rebuilt.

He's not thinking of being rebuilt when another bullet slices through him or when he leaps the final unit and dodges a shot to the head by literal centimeters. He manages to integrate with Simon, to join their minds together and then the final shot comes. Simon collapses and Connor's eyes are wide as he tries to comprehend what's just happened to both of them.
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mumbles: (109)

shane hollander / heated rivalry

[personal profile] mumbles 2026-02-26 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
[ either/or ]
hiraut: <user name="lylith_st"> (150)

viktor | arcane

[personal profile] hiraut 2026-02-26 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
[ can be s1 or s2, pref towards s2 or postcanon but happy to play s1 if you'd rather! can do either role, s2 viktor more likely to be in the caregiver role. OTA18+ castmates and crosscanon 💜 ]
nullities: (Default)

bob reynolds | thunderbolts*

[personal profile] nullities 2026-02-26 07:34 pm (UTC)(link)
[ voicetesting, either role! he will be awkward regardless. castmates, cross-canon, au things all welcome. ]
57times: (480)

esther moreau / original / ota

[personal profile] 57times 2026-02-26 07:35 pm (UTC)(link)
newsbeat: (pic#18110913)

Clark Kent | Superman 2025 | OTA

[personal profile] newsbeat 2026-02-26 07:36 pm (UTC)(link)
[listen I know it's difficult given the Superman of it all but Hurt This Man]
number2hero: (Default)

Hawks | my hero academia | ota

[personal profile] number2hero 2026-02-26 07:36 pm (UTC)(link)
hun_trix: (but)

rumi || kpop demon hunters || ota

[personal profile] hun_trix 2026-02-26 07:36 pm (UTC)(link)
(ooc; she's better at taking care of others than she is herself, but open to either role, for sure.)
outintheopen: (pic#18311369)

Scott Hunter | Game Changers/Heated Rivalry

[personal profile] outintheopen 2026-02-26 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
(( Either role! M/M for romance, OTA for gen/platonic ))
highfunctioning_sociopath: The Six Thatchers (Mary dies)

Sherlock Holmes | BBC Sherlock | OTA

[personal profile] highfunctioning_sociopath 2026-02-26 07:53 pm (UTC)(link)
[Either role! Open to AUs, OCs, cross-canon. Assumed CR with quick discussion. Gen/platonic only, please. I can write the starter.

Boss mode (since I had icon spaces left): Bitty 'Lock (age six). He's already had a lot of trauma, but since he was a bit more emotional back then, would probably be pretty good at comforting, too. ]
Edited 2026-02-26 21:29 (UTC)
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langdon | the pitt

[personal profile] rededication 2026-02-26 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)
[ either role fine! ]
comfortindarkness: (Default)

[personal profile] comfortindarkness 2026-02-26 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
(Jack checking in with Langdon after Robby's pretty brutal bitchslap to Frank up on the roof?)

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nurse_ringleader: (Default)

Dana Evans - The Pitt - ota

[personal profile] nurse_ringleader 2026-02-26 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
(she's quick to give comfort, but you'd better know her well to try and offer it to her)
startraveler: (Default)

Aether | Genshin Impact | ota

[personal profile] startraveler 2026-02-26 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
maknaeontop: (bandage)

zoey | kpop demon hunters | ota

[personal profile] maknaeontop 2026-02-26 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Either role!]
goldpaper: (pic#17907797)

hiiragi kashima | given | m/m

[personal profile] goldpaper 2026-02-26 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
[ open to canon & crosscanon, assumed cr, etc! age can be anywhere from 16-26 if you have a pref! a bit more info on journal! burns bright til he burns out, typically. ]
graviturgy: graviturgy | do not take (pic#18056546)

essek thelyss | critical role

[personal profile] graviturgy 2026-02-26 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)
( either role, varying degrees of awkwardness and poor emotional processing likely. ota castmates and crosscanon for gen, caleb only for shipping. not animated series compliant. )
doesnthavetowin: (if you can believe that)

Juste Belmont | Castlevania: Nocturne | OTA

[personal profile] doesnthavetowin 2026-02-26 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
[ either role. ]
wealldosillythings: (Smile)

Molly Hooper || BBC Sherlock | Open

[personal profile] wealldosillythings 2026-02-26 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
[Accepting either. Normally she's tending to dead people but she'll help however she can if you need her. BONUS: She does excellent stitches.]
Edited 2026-02-26 21:04 (UTC)
missionreport: promo (longHair 029)

Bucky Barnes | MCU

[personal profile] missionreport 2026-02-26 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
[ The Winter Soldier or Bucky as the hurt one. Prose preferred, assumed cr preferred. ]
ridofthethrone: (Questions)

Logan | Fable 3 | OTA

[personal profile] ridofthethrone 2026-02-26 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
[Either role. He will certainly try to comfort/help anyone else. No guarantees he'll be any good at it, however.]
normalman_normalday: (huh?)

Clark Kent | My Adventures with Superman

[personal profile] normalman_normalday 2026-02-26 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)
(ooc: Either role. M/F for shipping!)
arookandahardplace: do not take (Default)

rook | dragon age

[personal profile] arookandahardplace 2026-02-26 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)
[ either role! info/prefs in journal. Gen or shippy is fine. ]
attackpatternbattista: (Uniform - Old Transporter Room)

Delia Battista ✨ Star Trek OC ✨OTA, 21+ for any shipping or smut

[personal profile] attackpatternbattista 2026-02-26 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
[Basic gist: Largely faction-neutral Orion mercenary in her mid thirties, can be adapted into most any Star Trek timeline point for ease of RP, flirty, easy to get along with, but extremely observant. Pilot, mercenary, ship captain. Also comes in various Starfleet AU flavors as desired.

Either role!
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