knitsock ([personal profile] knitsock) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2026-01-09 08:23 am

They said she died easy of a broken heart disease

the hurt/comfort meme


In order to avoid long extrapolation, I'll say one thing: I've noticed that people like what I call "h/c shipping kink." Kink may not be the right word - sex need not be involved - but essentially, crappy things happen to our characters in their crapsack worlds in canon all the time. Sometimes, we like to see them happy. Or relatively happier. And less evil and more adjusted, for those of us who play those types. It's all very self-indulgent.

And, as you can tell from my username, I'm going to be compiling memes that have, for some reason, got micromanaged into ridiculous niches when they should all be under one umbrella. This first project is to wrangle up all the "caretaking" themed shipping memes. Basically, one character cares for the other, be it physically, emotionally, or otherwise. There is also shipping.

The end goal is to weed down redundant memes and, maybe, make this an all-purpose post!

HOW TO PLAY
  • You know the protocol.
  • Comment with your characters and preferences. Also, be sure to include whether your character would be the caretaker, the cared for, or if you can play either.
  • Reply to others.



PROMPTS
  1. Physically Hurt: The traditional h/c scenario. Your partner is hurt, and you break out the bandages to patch them up and give them a shoulder to lean on. May also come with the Florence Nightingale effect, where the "patient" falls in love with the "nurse" thanks to their care.
  2. Emotionally Hurt: You can't put bandages on wounded egos and souls, but you can try your best.
  3. Illness: You're with someone who's sick - maybe even with a long-term, chronic, or mortal illness.
  4. Trauma: Like emotional hurt, this is not an easy cure, and it's even deeper. There will also be blowback on the one trying to care for their traumatized loved one.
  5. Mortality: You're struggling with the fact that one partner may die sooner than the other because of lifestyle or species reasons.
  6. The One Left Behind: One side of the ship is the person left at home to wait and worry.
  7. Triumphant Return: They're finally back and in one piece! Celebrate in the way you two deem best.
  8. Changed by Your Love: You're finding yourself a better person now that you're with them.
  9. Pulled from Depression: You saw no reason to live before you met them.
  10. Physical Protector/Bodyguard: It started out as protection. It became more.
  11. Pure/Impure: You two have varying alignments and varying experiences. Does this affect your relationship?
  12. Remember: Or actually, you can't. You've lost everything about your identity, including your past memories. Needless to say, you may cling to the one person who's helping you. You also may not want to remember your old life.
  13. In a Bad Situation: You're in a dangerous scenario - being hunted, prisoners, bruised and beaten and brought to a strange place - and all you have to rely on is each other. You've been thrown into the fire together and you have to survive.
  14. Inexperienced: Whether it be in romance, sex, or the world in general, one part of the pairing is teaching the other part the ropes. This can encompass so-called "innocence kinks" or age differences.
  15. I Thought I Lost You: Their injuries were so substantial that you thought they were done for. Now, you have to deal with your own emotional
  16. Gentle, Loving Smut: AKA sexual healing and all gentle smut memes or memes that focus on emotional attachment.
  17. Bad Sexual Experience: Similar to the above option, but including sexual baggage that one partner must prove does not always apply.
  18. Trust Issues: One of you has a hard time trusting the other. There may be jealousy involved here.
  19. Unexpected Caretaker: You'd think the sweet one would take care of the dour one, but it's the opposite way around. This is the "surly badasses take care of the one they love" option.
  20. Unwillingly Cared For: You don't need to be coddled. They should leave you alone!
  21. Hurt by You: You have to pick up the pieces of what you've done, thanks to an argument or your temper.
  22. Draining: Caring for them is damaging you and your relationship with them.
  23. Mutually Beneficial: There's not one set "caretaker." You both look out for each other.
detracts: (Default)

robert robertson | dispatch

[personal profile] detracts 2026-01-09 03:18 pm (UTC)(link)
mercilesslife: (Default)

The Creature | Del Toro's Frankenstein | OTA20+

[personal profile] mercilesslife 2026-01-09 03:38 pm (UTC)(link)
denyingit: (turned to dust in the palm of your hand)

Rumi | KPop Demon Hunters | OTA

[personal profile] denyingit 2026-01-09 03:40 pm (UTC)(link)
[20+ OTA. Castmates (especially JINUS and her girls), crosscanon, crossmedium, assumed CR, AUs, OCs etc all always welcome.]
tendencies: (Default)

[personal profile] tendencies 2026-01-09 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)
( m/m or canonmates preferred for shipping! )
imperatour: (178)

furiosa | mad max

[personal profile] imperatour 2026-01-09 04:10 pm (UTC)(link)
uncrownedawn: (ᴅɪꜱᴛᴀɴᴛ ʀʜʏᴛʜᴍ)

Diluc Ragnvindr • Genshin Impact • m/m

[personal profile] uncrownedawn 2026-01-09 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
( preference for the hurt role. )
batlan: (chilacayote)

[personal profile] batlan 2026-01-11 10:51 am (UTC)(link)
[ how hurt? 😇 ]

(no subject)

[personal profile] uncrownedawn - 2026-01-11 23:42 (UTC) - Expand
unsay: 𝐒𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐀𝐏𝐇𝐎𝐍𝐄 | 𝐃𝐍𝐓 (pic#18241703)

shane hollander | heated rivalry.

[personal profile] unsay 2026-01-09 04:28 pm (UTC)(link)
( voicetesting! ota for gen, m/m for shipping. )
ridofthethrone: (Conversation)

Logan | Fable 3 | OTA

[personal profile] ridofthethrone 2026-01-09 04:33 pm (UTC)(link)
[Can do either role.]
flashpointed: (038)

roy mustang | fma:b | ota

[personal profile] flashpointed 2026-01-09 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
[ either role, crosscanon extremely adored, v ota! ]
willoftheblackbird: (Default)

The Prophet - D&D OC

[personal profile] willoftheblackbird 2026-01-09 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
[cursed bard with low strength and con stats. Modern AU versions available upon request. Ask before smut options.]
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Alys Rivers | House of the Dragon

[personal profile] barn_owl 2026-01-09 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
[The healer]
attackpatternbattista: (Default)

Delia Battista ✨ Star Trek OC ✨OTA, 21+ for any shipping or smut

[personal profile] attackpatternbattista 2026-01-09 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)
tracto: (Default)

grayson fletcher | original

[personal profile] tracto 2026-01-09 06:21 pm (UTC)(link)
[ oc elevator pitch: a man who is no longer fully human after consuming dozens of supernatural entities to try to gain the power needed to resurrect his dead boyfriend (and failing) -- now a fence of minor magical relics to the wealthy. permissions | bio & info ]
Edited 2026-01-09 18:21 (UTC)
emberdance: (011)

as the crow flies | original

[personal profile] emberdance 2026-01-09 06:22 pm (UTC)(link)
[ oc elevator pitch: an entertainer, dancer, and diplomat to the royal courts by day, and an assassin-for-hire by night – charming, ruthless, and in love with the power his job grants him permissions and prefs | bio & info ]
wecanbealright: (pic#17876764)

Dave McCall | original | ota

[personal profile] wecanbealright 2026-01-09 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
[[Info & preferences. Regularly sick and dealing with chronic pain, so often needs help even if he tries not to put it on anyone, but can also be giving care. More interested in domestic situations than dramatic action.]]
climbingwalls: (then you must stay in bed all day)

Abigail Hobbs | Hannibal | ota

[personal profile] climbingwalls 2026-01-09 06:27 pm (UTC)(link)
[[Has a lot of trauma and a lot of reasons to end up in dangerous situations. It's likely she's the one hurt, but I'm up for either direction, or for mutual caretaking.]]
peerlesschrysanthemum: (Default)

Shen (Yuan) Qingqiu | SVSSS

[personal profile] peerlesschrysanthemum 2026-01-09 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
[Info/prefs over here.]
Edited 2026-01-09 19:17 (UTC)
mountreal: (246.)

shane hollander | heated rivalry

[personal profile] mountreal 2026-01-09 08:38 pm (UTC)(link)
fiftygoals: (Default)

[personal profile] fiftygoals 2026-01-10 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
[Want to flip the canon and have Ilya be hurt and Shane sneaking in to see him?]
sevensanctions: (pic#18032015)

Jin Kougasaki | Tougen Anki

[personal profile] sevensanctions 2026-01-09 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)
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rook | dragon age

[personal profile] arookandahardplace 2026-01-09 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
[ info/prefs in journal. ]
thegoldenghoul: (pic#18228985)

Ghoul (The) | Fallout

[personal profile] thegoldenghoul 2026-01-09 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
dadyl: (141 ;; twd: daryl dixon '' set 2)

daryl dixon | the walking dead

[personal profile] dadyl 2026-01-09 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
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Matt Murdock | MCU | OTA

[personal profile] thedevilsworkisneverdone 2026-01-10 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
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reyson | fire emblem

[personal profile] heron 2026-01-10 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
fiftygoals: (014)

Ilya Rozanov | Heated Rivalry | M/M

[personal profile] fiftygoals 2026-01-10 01:39 am (UTC)(link)

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