THE POSSESSIVE SEX MEME

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THE POSSESSIVE SEX MEME

In nature, animals can be territorial. This makes sense; it's a cutthroat world, and you have to keep what's yours just to survive. They keep a close watch on lands, food supplies, and even sometimes mates. Pet owners can tell you that this instinct doesn't just go away - try getting that chew toy from your poodle. But what about people? Aren't we just animals, too? But for us, possessiveness is not a good social trait to have. That's understandable. Nobody likes someone so hung up on owning things. Especially not owning their lovers, since you can't simply have another person like that.

Yet even the most benign, most monkish of souls have possessive streaks at some moments when it comes to the person they're sleeping with. It's only natural. Usually, it comes from jealousy. You like having what's yours (even if it's a cruel way to think about things, that's the reptile brain peeking through), and you'd want it to stay that way. That means you want to show up the competition and remind the object of your desires that you're the apple of their eye. Of course, possessiveness doesn't always come from jealousy. Some people are just very, very...how do we say it...protective of them and theirs. How can they help that they want to show that in intimate ways?

In relationships, possessiveness throughout isn't healthy; still, a little bit of it can be actually arousing, especially in the bedroom. Today, the hotel is awakening that side of characters: the part that wants to screw their partner mercilessly to show them that they are the ones to touch them, to love them, to fuck them.

But my character isn't the possessive type, you say? Really? Really? As we've mentioned before, even the most kindhearted types feel it every once and a while. This meme never mentioned that it had to be a HUGE show of possession. It can even be a playful attempt in order to get their partner going or try a new kink in bed. Or, you could say the "influences" made them do it.

After all, there's plenty of prompts here to influence you.

HOW TO PLAY
- Comment with your character and preferences. You also may want to include if your character is more or less likely to be the possessive or jealous party, but please note that all characters have the potential to be that in this meme. Otherwise, you'd get a lot of passive pillow queen characters to be fawned over so be mindful of that.
- Reply to others!

PROMPTS

HOW

1. Induced Jealousy: Whether by taunting or misunderstanding, one partner is jealous and wants to make sure their lover knows that they're the worthy - and only - one.
2. Insecurity: There's no outside source here, only self-worth issues that cause a need for possession.
3. Pushed by the Other: "Man up!" "Show me you want me!" "Grow a pair!" You can only take so much.
4. Making up for Losses: You can't be together outside the bedroom, so you have to make up for it here and you want the bed to be your domain.
5. Rivalry: People of a certain age will remember a certain song about rivalries. The boy/girl is yours.
6. Necessity: You live in a society where you must show a certain amount of possessiveness over your lover.
7. Nature: Breeding and mating urges, oh my!
8. In the Mood: No particular reason, you woke up feeling like a lion in their terrain.
9. Hate You...but Don't Want Anyone Else to Have You: What it says on the tin.
10. Virginity: You want to claim what no one else has, and that will be you and you only.
11. Playfulness: All this is simply fun between the two of you.
12. Cruelty: You want to humiliate your partner by reminding them that you're the one in charge here.
13. WILDCARD.

HOW

1. Intense, desperate sex (not necessarily rough).
2. Rough sex.
3. Marking - either discreet or in places that could easily be seen.
4. Clothing (jewelry, lingerie, slutty clothing, and in some cases, collars and other trappings).
5. Reminding your partner that only you can bring them this much pleasure (overstimulation).
6. Public or semi-public sex.
7. Cheating, cuckholding, or netorare - essentially showing your lover that they may not be with you, but you're the one who gets them off.
8. Orgasm or pleasure denial.
9. Non-consensual.
10. Making them say who they belong to / dirty talk.
11. WILDCARD.

Comments

Stiles Stilinski | Teen Wolf | OTA

[teenyoda]

{Stiles is likely to be the possessive one, likely since it will be his first time unless with a previous threader.}

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[nukeoleptic]

[ She caught him from behind at the restaurant, gently grabbing at his sides to pause him as he was in the middle of busing tables. ]

Everyone else has it. We should go home.

[ Mumbled up into his ear. ]

I did nothing.

[teenyoda]

[If it had been anyone but her, dishes might have gone flying as he'd whirled around, but as it was, he sort of grinned where she couldn't see it, setting another plate in the bin.]

Jade... are you encouraging me to ditch work to go do things with you?

[He loved teasing her. Especially when she got like this.]

Lies....

[nukeoleptic]

[ Typically she would have huffed or complained, told him to keep it down. Instead, this time, she just stretches up onto her tiptoes to hook her chin over his shoulder. ]

Scott told me about Lydia. I mean- I know Lydia, she's awesome, but he told me about YOU and Lydia. You were pretty nuts about her, huh.

[ It's not angry or dangerous jealousy, just a subtle, possessive sort. She doesn't actually seem unhappy in the least. ]

Truths...

[teenyoda]

[He turned to look at her, nudging her a little with his nose before she spoke. Then he almost laughed.]

Wh-- Lydia? There was never any 'me and Lydia'. I mean, I wanted there to be, but... yeah, that was pretty much over by the time I got here. Why? What about Lydia?

[nukeoleptic]

[ She nudged him back, huffing quietly as she slid her arms forward to wind completely around his waist. It was rare for her to display affection so overtly at work, but there was no hesitation in it now. ]

I heard there was pining. Scott may have used "obsessed"? You were obsessed with a girl and never told me? I am not entirely sure how I feel about this revelation of facts, Stiles.

[teenyoda]

[Hey, he wasn't going to complain. Not when he got work cuddles.]

Hey, it was before I came here, okay? What did you want, a complete written history? There was no pining.

[Oh, there was totally pining. Soooo much pining.]

[nukeoleptic]

You could have mentioned something. 'Oh by the way, I used to be totaaally in love with this other girl, and she's definitely in the city in the same house that I'm in, how funny is that!!

[ She bit his shoulder through his shirt. ]

C'mon, let's go.

[teenyoda]

You know what's funny? This is the second time she's been here and she's been in Odin house both times, only with different powers.

[He wasn't sure if he should yelp or make a very dirty sound when she bit him, but certain parts of him were aware of what that bite meant and they were reacting accordingly.]

Oh, you really meant you wanted to go?

[nukeoleptic]

I really don't know how that's funny at all.

[ She pulled back, glancing around the restaurant with her ears perked and her face slightly red as she propped her hands on her hips. Her eyebrows went up as she regarded him. ]

Well, I'm going.

[teenyoda]

[Right, because pissed Jade wasn't hot. He leaned in, hands moving to her waist to tug her in against him to show her, hey, guess who was interested.]

To what? Start without me?

[nukeoleptic]

[ Yep. There was a head or two turning. She slid her hand against his chest, pushing gently at him and flashing her eyebrows up again as her voice lowered enough so that only he could hear. ]

Maybe.

[teenyoda]

[He grinned, leaning in before she could pull away to let his lips close over one of her ears.]

Can I watch?

[nukeoleptic]

[ She shivered, fingers clenching briefly in his shirt before she steeled herself and pushed tokenly at him again. ] ... maybe if you behave really, really well.

[teenyoda]

What about if I'm really, really bad?

[Like slipping his hands around her waist and giving her butt a squeeze. Yeah, he totally just did that.]

[nukeoleptic]

[ And there was a giggle from the corner of the restaurant and Jade flushed hot, yelping as she stepped backwards. Possibly it was a bit tell-tale the the red on her cheeks wasn't fading. ]

We'll talk about this at home.

[teenyoda]

Are you using your bossly power to fire me for the day?

[nukeoleptic]

[ A level stare. ]

Try the week.

[teenyoda]

I don't know if I can last that long, Jade. I might need a few breaks.

And some pizza.

[Eyebrow waggle.]

[nukeoleptic]

[ It's impossible to tell how genuine her exasperation is. ]

Oh, Lydia can have you.

[ She was just going to storm convincingly toward the door. ]

[teenyoda]

Hey! You can't just get a guy riled up and then leave. Even if the view is nice.

[He was grinning as he headed out after her, listening to a few snickers from the customers.]

[nukeoleptic]

[ Nope. There was no response, other than her throwing up vines in an attempt to catch and tangle his legs to slow him as he followed. She figured he'd just burn through them, but that was part of the game, right? ]

[teenyoda]

[It was, and he did, but there was another part he had to play.]

You know, maybe Lydia's changed her mind about me. Maybe I should go see if she's feeling a little more... receptive.

[nukeoleptic]

[ She huffed aloud at that, ducking into her apartment building. Keys in hand, she'd wait until he was in earshot before muttering- ]

Yeah, right. She'd have to be completely insane to want you.

[teenyoda]

Oh, like a certain insane girl with fluffy puppy ears?

[He followed along, almost grinning as he did.]

She might want me to teach her fire things. And well, you know, it just goes other places from there.]