In light of recent events. [ Of course, they both knew what he was talking about. But how was this different from him being ready to give up his life in a volcano and the loss she would feel after his death in the line of duty? Glancing up sharply, she could only stare at him for a few moments, collecting her thoughts. ]

As members of Starfleet, when we accepted our commission, we accepted that risk as well. Why is it different for you than it is for me, or so many other Starfleet members who choose to date, marry, have children while serving?

[ She has to remain logical; he'll accept a logical argument, even when an emotional one will fail. She can't act like a child and cling to him and beg him not to leave - it's not her. As much as she wants to hold him. As much as this feels wrong. ]