This wasn't what Lindsey wanted from Dean. He didn't want broken submission but reciprocation, except it was very clear that that wasn't what he was going to get.

Slicking up his hand with soap again, instead of using it to stretch the vampire, he circled it around and grabbed the hunter's manhood. Slowly, he started to jack him off, each pump at a slow even pace. "Yeah, you are," Lindsey whispered by the vampire's ear. "But right now I want to know what you want." He was taking advantage of Dean's broken soulless state, and he wished he could bring himself to stop, but he couldn't.