They appear to those who are worthy of it and when they want to. They are not in service of mortals.They're fickle, that's the nature of gods; they do not side with any particular group of people and if they do, it's for their enjoyment. That will always be the nature of the fair folk.

[ Although, it may take more than that for her to strike him, should the right nerve be struck. She needs to conserve energy, sadly. ]

Hold your tongue -- I am certainly not human. Do not lump me in with such delicate beings.