You're a wonderful person Ms Agnes and you should never let anyone tell you otherwise.

[He's completely sincere, it doesn't matter if she is proud of being seen in such a way. People may occasionally say unflattering things about Ms Agnes and she can be scary and abrupt and may act like she only cares about ratings but she helps people and no one who helps others for a living can be bad, not where it counts.]

I don't know about messy or complicated but I think, even if it's hard, I'd rather have people I care about in my life than have an easy life. No one wants to be alone all the time.