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Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep ([personal profile] gynoids) wrote in [community profile] bakerstreet2013-10-23 07:01 pm

The Courtly Love Meme

The Courtly Love Meme

That's COURTLY LOVE. Not COURTNEY LOVE.

Courtly love or domnei was a medieval European conception of nobly and chivalrously expressing love and admiration. Generally, courtly love was secret and between members of the nobility. It was also generally not practiced between husband and wife.

The "courtly love" relationship is modeled on the feudal relationship between a knight and his liege lord. The knight serves his courtly lady (love service) with the same obedience and loyalty which he owes to his liege lord. She is in complete control of the love relationship, while he owes her obedience and submission.The knight's love for the lady inspires him to do great deeds, in order to be worthy of her love or to win her favor. Thus "courtly love" was originally construed as an ennobling force whether or not it was consummated, and even whether or not the lady knew about the knight's love or loved him in return.

The "courtly love" relationship typically was not between husband and wife, not because the poets and the audience were inherently immoral, but because it was an idealized sort of relationship that could not exist within the context of "real life" medieval marriages. In the middle ages, marriages amongst the nobility were typically based on practical and dynastic concerns rather than on love. The idea that a marriage could be based on love was a radical notion. But the audience for romance was perfectly aware that these romances were fictions, not models for actual behavior. The adulterous aspect that bothers many 20th-century readers was somewhat beside the point, which was to explore the potential influence of love on human behavior. The behavior of the knight and lady in love was drawn partly from troubadour poetry and partly from a set of literary conventions derived from the Latin poet Ovid, who described the "symptoms" of love as if it were a sickness. The "lovesick" knight became a conventional figure in medieval romance. Typical symptoms: sighing, turning pale, turning red, fever, inability to sleep, eat or drink. Romances often contained long interior monologues in which the lovers describe their feelings.

tl;dr characters are in a fantasy/medieval setting and having a courtly romance.

How to Play
- Comment with your character, preferences, etc. Also, be sure to include what "role" your character will be taking on in this little affair.

  • Lord/lady
  • Knight (gender neutral, of course)
  • Prince/princess
  • Bard or poet
  • Servant
  • Commoner (for the ultimate "forbidden romance")
-Comment to others, using the RNG to determine your fate.

Prompts
  1. When I First Saw Your Face: You are meeting your liege or your knight for the first time. What you see takes your breath away.
  2. Lovesick: Your pining for your beloved has made you ill! You can't eat, you can't sleep, you're in loves throes.
  3. Playing Hard to Get: If you're of nobility, you at least have to pretend you're not interested.
  4. You're So Coy: The art of flirtation is just getting started, but you have to be subtle about it.
  5. In Your Honor: Be it a jousting match or a battle, you're going to win this for your lord/lady's name!
  6. A Token: You must give your knight something for good luck.
  7. A Gift: This is the reverse of the above. You must give your love something.
  8. Keep a Secret: Kisses behind columns, holding hands under the table. You must sneak away little moments together, but you have to keep others in the dark.
  9. Back from War: Your knight has been away in combat, and now they've returned. You want to shower them with affection.
  10. Consumate: Believe it or not, courtly love could have a physical angle, as well. Sometimes physical afairs happened.
  11. To Defend Your Honor: Someone has insulted your fair lady or lord. You know what that means! DUEL.
  12. I'll Protect You: The lands are under an attack, and you must protect the person you love!
  13. Breaking the Rules: You've decided to abandon the pretense of courtly love and actually be with this person, even if that means running away.
  14. WILDCARD
bustled: (Default)

clara oswin oswald ▽ doctor who

[personal profile] bustled 2013-10-24 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
[ servant or commoner. ]
twilightstampede: (Nadia: Bleh)

Nadia Asturias | Pacific Rim OC | F/M

[personal profile] twilightstampede 2013-10-24 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
[Princess please]
cadcamlan: (Default)

Mordred | Arthurian Legend | OTA | Knight

[personal profile] cadcamlan 2013-10-24 10:07 am (UTC)(link)
adexuate: (Default)

Caspian X | Chronicles of Narnia | ota | Prince/King

[personal profile] adexuate 2013-10-24 10:08 am (UTC)(link)
princesspool: (Default)

Sonia Nevermind | Super Dangan Ronpa 2 | M/F

[personal profile] princesspool 2013-10-24 11:44 am (UTC)(link)
[princess]
apocalypticduality: (Default)

Sollux Captor | Homestuck | OTA | Commoner, Servant or Knight

[personal profile] apocalypticduality 2013-10-24 01:56 pm (UTC)(link)
[Really it's up to whoever tags what position he's in.]
found_strength: (I know I will not fail)

Yunica Tovah | Ys Origin

[personal profile] found_strength 2013-10-24 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)
[ Young lady Knight, open for any pairing or prompt! ]
andtheswan: (Default)

Annabelle / Swan Princess | OUAT OC | Het

[personal profile] andtheswan 2013-10-24 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Princess / Hiding out as a commoner]
good_at_heart: (Default)

Amelia Atwater | OC | OTA

[personal profile] good_at_heart 2013-10-24 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Impoverished lady.]
into_days: (Default)

Matthew, a Prince | OC | OTA

[personal profile] into_days 2013-10-24 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Prince/Knight.]
thegoodking: (6)

Arthur | OC

[personal profile] thegoodking 2013-10-24 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
[Prince]
rurouni: (The silence between us)

Kenshin Himura || Rurouni Kenshin || OTA

[personal profile] rurouni 2013-10-24 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
[[Knight, Servant, Commoner]]
fight_my_fate: (Default)

[personal profile] fight_my_fate 2013-10-25 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Would you mind if I tossed this lady in here?]
fight_my_fate: (Default)

Margaret, a Princess | OC | Het

[personal profile] fight_my_fate 2013-10-25 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Princess/Knight]
ragnanivalkyrie: (Default)

Gwendolyn | Odin Sphere | gen ota

[personal profile] ragnanivalkyrie 2013-10-25 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
[princess | knight/warrior | lady ]
adexuate: (Default)

[personal profile] adexuate 2013-10-25 11:58 am (UTC)(link)
[ooc; Please do; she looks lovely! Anything particular in mind?]
fight_my_fate: (Default)

[personal profile] fight_my_fate 2013-10-26 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Thank you! I'm so pleased to see a Caspian out and about, too. I'm pretty good with anything at all, and I do so love to be surprised. :0D]
adexuate: (Default)

[personal profile] adexuate 2013-10-26 05:10 am (UTC)(link)
[ooc; Rolled a 6. Good with assuming he's come to visit her kingdom and been invited to joust with the knights or some such along that lines?]
fight_my_fate: (margaret - smile)

[personal profile] fight_my_fate 2013-10-26 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
[ooc: Totally good with that.]
adexuate: (armoured)

Running with it. Let me know if it needs tweaking. o/

[personal profile] adexuate 2013-10-26 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
Someday, he'll be King.

Someday, Caspian will take his father's place--the place currently held by his uncle--and form the Tenth link in an imperial chain. Someday, he'll be able to stay properly among his people, spend his days focused on how to lead them better, learn more deeply what it is to love everyone in a nation at once.

But for now, he's simply a prince. He's in charge of nothing but a piece of reputation and a smile he's able to force to keep in place while he travels for good will in their neighboring kingdoms. He's gotten better at being alert and focused without Drinian nudging him between the ribs; at living the role of statesman instead of the quiet daydreamer he's always been on the inside.

It's a little easier when there's a prince or princess his own age to chat with--although he'll admit, Princess Margaret is a bit on the sharp side of things, which isn't so much bad as interesting to keep abreast of. It's much easier when there's something to do with himself beyond sitting and drinking--and really, jousts are a world of fun to be invited to.

He's certain she won't agree to it, but he's also certain he ought to ask on the evening before the tournament. "Milady, are you in the tradition of giving favours to your knights?"
fight_my_fate: (margaret - outside ; lonely)

It's great!

[personal profile] fight_my_fate 2013-10-26 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
The two of them share a similar situation, then.

Obviously, Margaret couldn't be King, but as her father has no legitimate male heirs, when the time comes, she will take over as Queen. And it's not as though it's a position that she doesn't want to have, it's that she's got so many responsibilities that she feels overwhelmed more often than not, and would love nothing more than to be able to just ... get away, if even for a little while.

So it's times like these that she relishes. Times when her usual schedule is interrupted, times when ambassadors from other kingdoms arrive, and as such, there were plenty of activities and feasts to attend.

She doesn't particularly enjoy being brought out and shown off as though she's some sort of ... prize, but that was the price to pay for being born into the life that she had been born into. She doesn't intend to be so short and sharp with this prince, but when her father orders her to make a good impression, Margaret, it's easy to do just the opposite. She knows very well that he's trying to make a good match for their land, and it's difficult, as she is almost too old to be considered good marriage material, despite her title.

So when he catches her the night before the joust and asks that question, she's surprised. Surely, she'd managed to kill whatever interest he might have had before meeting her. "I - no one has ever asked for one before."
adexuate: (arisen)

[personal profile] adexuate 2013-10-26 05:57 am (UTC)(link)
It's better when Miraz isn't there to look sharply at him, to get that particular parental expression he's seen so often at the corner of this king's eyes whenever the princess is about. It's better when Drinian's let him off on his own for just a little bit.

It's better when he can feel, for a moment, like a person talking to another person rather than a prince talking to a princess--one pawn talking to another while they both struggle to make it properly across the board to where their crowns await them.

"Haven't they?" And there's a bit of a smile on his lips as he tilts his head just a hair to the side. "Are your knights more frightened of your tongue than an opponent's lance, Highness?"
fight_my_fate: (margaret - over shoulder ; watching ; fl)

[personal profile] fight_my_fate 2013-10-26 06:12 am (UTC)(link)
It's so much easier to stand here and have a conversation without being watched like a hawk. It's nice to enjoy the evening without having to worry about being proper, and following so many rules that her head spun just thinking about them.

And it's certainly easier to let her guard down, at least a little, as if to prove that she's not all bad. She can be perfectly pleasant and friendly, at least if the circumstances are right.

"Usually, they don't ask because - ", and here she pauses, a pleased little smirk turning her lips up at the edges, "I'm right out there with them, beating them senseless. If they're afraid of anything, they're afraid of me."
adexuate: (attending)

[personal profile] adexuate 2013-10-26 06:24 am (UTC)(link)
He'll take a bit of an edge if it means an actual conversation. At this point in his circuit of their neighboring nations, he's glad for real responses to questions, no matter the edge in her voice or the smirk in her smile. So many of the other young women he'd met had taken the object of being shown off far too deeply to heart to get through even in quiet moments like this.

Of course there's a spark of surprise in his expression. Warrior queens aren't an unknown tradition in his own parts, but much of the world is far from in agreement with setting its princesses into that role.

"And will we have the pleasure tomorrow? Or have I ruined it by appearing to look for a wife?"
fight_my_fate: (margaret - outside ; lonely)

[personal profile] fight_my_fate 2013-10-26 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
The longer they're able to stand out here and speak, especially without the threat of someone swooping in to eavesdrop, the easier it will be to almost completely drop her brusque facade. Despite being taught to be that kind of woman, and from such a young age, it's not who Margaret is. Above all else, she wants to be able to just be herself.

She was expecting the surprise - but the truth of the matter is that she can't stand sitting back and not being right out there with the men, front and center, training just as hard as they do.

But then her smile fades, at least a little, and she shakes her head no. "Unfortunately not. I have been barred from participating, as I've been told that it's completely inappropriate and unladylike, and I am supposed to be making a good impression."

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