The learning to have one without the other is a learning curve for me. Certainly.

[Probably for the best he's not currently being a rain cloud, which is nice.]

I am sort of more into the connection than the actual physical sex. At least that's what I have found out from the instances that do work. Someone touching you intimately doesn't always have to lead to orgasm. Which I guess is somewhat boring, considering that's the end goal and all.