The search parties are out, the flags are raised, because you're missing. Gone without a trace, really.
Or are you?
There's a suspect in your disappearance, someone who absolutely had to take you away by force. The picture's clear to all outside parties.
Except it isn't that clear cut. You've left, yes, and you've been taken, of course, but you weren't strong-armed into it. You went with this person, this suspect, of your own free will. Because you love them, because you can't be together otherwise, because they offer a better opportunity regardless of your feelings towards them, because you want to escape someone else you know for certain you can't love, or just because you can.
Those people who believe you've been snatched away, they don't get it. They don't know you were given a choice...you took it.